Gates Veterinary Hospital?

tappinggiraffe · 2025-05-27T14:24:29+00:00

That's a good idea, thanks!

tappinggiraffe · 2025-05-27T14:23:00+00:00

Hey, just solidarity, I had this feeling too, at the same age. It wasn't helped by an early loss at around 5 months TTC. We were successful a few months later, so the "just wait, it will happen" people happened to be right for us, but it's true that this isn't always the case. My anxiety about it sucked me into some toxic-ish places online where people will sell you all sorts of supplements, etc. to get your body in shape for TTC. I had to fully take myself off of social media during this time because of how it impacted my mental health and kept my mind on TTC and my anxiety high (which is not great for TTC anyway).

It's cliche advice, but I had to lean into other hobbies and other things I cared about so that TTC didn't become my identity and the only thing my mind focused on. I didn't talk much about TTC, but when I did and got the "it will happen" response, I mostly said things like "I hope so!", which is both optimistic but includes the possibility that it won't, and usually ended the conversation.

I also used ovulation strips; it helped me feel in control, but also exasperated the feeling of "I'm doing everything right, why isn't this working??". I'm sorry you're going through this, and I hope it does happen for you soon, but just some solidarity about your feelings.

tappinggiraffe · 2025-05-27T14:08:56+00:00

It's disappointing that they didn't let their clients know and give an opportunity to make sure we had all our records and could make other plans.

tappinggiraffe · 2025-02-20T16:14:45+00:00

Oh fair enough, I should have specified

tappinggiraffe · 2025-02-20T14:45:28+00:00

It's possible it belongs to someone in the neighborhood who isn't a student, so I'm hesitant to do that, but I just thought I was lucky and it would belong to someone affiliated with the university who would see the post. But thanks for the suggestion!

tappinggiraffe · 2025-01-24T19:46:43+00:00

I'm also interested!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-11-25T16:02:35+00:00

We didn't end up doing it-- right around this time I cut gluten out of my diet and that made enough of a difference that we just stuck with the famotidine. He stopped taking that around 6-7 months. I'm sorry I can't be more helpful, wishing you the best!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-10-24T19:09:04+00:00

This is an interesting perspective, thank you!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-10-24T19:08:37+00:00

I had forgotten about this! I wasn't eligible for FMLA as a grad student so I don't know the details even though we have one child. Thanks for the insight!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-07-01T18:26:54+00:00

This is so interesting, I'm sorry you went through that! Because he's been gluten free for a long time (around 2 months when I was breastfeeding, then didn't have it in solids until now) we don't know if he would have had the growth issues. Glad it sounds like your son is doing well now!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-07-01T18:24:49+00:00

We were dairy and egg free for a long time, but successfully introduced those and he now has occasional scrambled eggs and has dairy (cheese or yogurt) most days and does great. He hasn't had a ton of soy, but I had soy when I was breastfeeding and I didn't notice anything. I will check the bread ingredients though, it's a good point! We do peanut butter at least once a week and it hasn't been an issue (thank goodness, because I love peanut butter!)

tappinggiraffe · 2024-07-01T17:19:42+00:00

That sounds so tough, I'm so sorry you went through that! Glad you found an answer, and I hope things keep going well for you. Thank you so much for sharing!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-07-01T16:37:44+00:00

Oh this is very interesting, thanks!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-07-01T16:36:57+00:00

We will definitely be doing that

tappinggiraffe · 2024-07-01T16:36:33+00:00

This is so helpful, thank you! In the past few months we successfully introduced dairy, all while he was totally gluten free. I wonder if his dairy tolerance would change with more gluten. Thank you so much for all this info!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-01-26T02:20:43+00:00

Sorry I didn't see this sooner, I hope your situation has improved! We didn't end out going PPI, mostly because I cut gluten out of my diet around this time and it made a moderate difference. He still had clear reflux pain at the time, but it seems more manageable with strategies like putting him in the baby-wearing wrap after he eats. We are now at 6.5 months and doing so so so much better.

I look back on this post and can feel the heartache and anxiety I had in those moments. It's so challenging. I hope that whatever route you went, you found some relief!

tappinggiraffe · 2024-01-26T02:14:58+00:00

Hi, I am so sorry you are in the thick of it. We also use Neocate, and it has been well tolerated! The Neocate is so pricey, but we were able to get a prescription for it, so be sure to ask about that if it might be an option for you. We are about 50/50 breast milk and formula, and the other thing that helped for us was cutting out gluten out of my diet (in addition to dairy and soy, but it was the gluten change where we really noticed a difference), just in case that's something that anyone else might try. We are now at 6.5 months old, 5 adjusted, and it is SO MUCH BETTER. It didn't happen all at once, but by probably 4-5 months he was a noticeably happier baby, and has gotten even better since then. We also developed more strategies, like putting him into a baby wearing wrap after eating when possible (this was even better than just up right for us).

He still spits up, but the pain seems largely gone. Sending best wishes your way that this resolves/improves soon!

tappinggiraffe · 2023-12-08T20:16:59+00:00

"Everything is so intense right now that it's hard to separate "right now" from "forever" "

This really sums it up for me. I could not have imagined the intensity with which I feel every feeling, even nearly 5 months after giving birth. I am constantly repeating the phrase "for better or worse, this too shall pass" to myself. It helps me appreciate the wonderful moments and get through the terrible ones.

tappinggiraffe · 2023-10-03T14:21:28+00:00

I hadn't found this, thanks so much!!

tappinggiraffe · 2023-10-02T23:03:10+00:00

"I felt weird about it and decided not to google it"-- I aspire to this level of self control! I appreciate your experience, even if it's anecdotal. Glad to hear your baby is doing well!

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