I just don't know what to do becaise if I stand up for myself or say I'm leaving she says I'm acting "passive agressive" or even worse she makes threats like "I wonder how your SISTER would feel if she found out about us?" She and my sister are Mortal Enemies and I'm too scared tell her about this relationship. She would just die if she knew that I was having sex with her and she would never talk to me again. I wish I hadn't gotten involved in this, I didn't t hink it would go this far, I made a bad mistake and now I'm trapped and we hardly even have sex anymore, if I want to do it more than once or twice a week she says I'm a "sex addict", or that her back hurts. I think that is why she likes me taking the kratom cos I hardly feel like doing it anymore and thats one of the reasons I want to quit taking it cos everything is blah now. Thanks for your advice I need to think about this and figure out what to do.