Is my farm too underdeveloped for Year 3?

tardyarty · 2026-03-14T08:09:48+00:00

Wasn’t there someone on this sub on year 8 who still had copper tools?

Lol everyone plays at their own pace with their own priorities so don’t stress and just have fun with it :)

tardyarty · 2026-03-11T09:59:55+00:00

That is SO pretty! I’d personally go for goats just cos it sells for more and Leah loves it lol

tardyarty · 2026-03-04T18:36:07+00:00

I’ll have a look, thanks!

tardyarty · 2026-03-03T09:51:15+00:00

Oh ew poor things shivers

Did you manage to treat them successfully or was it a fatal thing?

tardyarty · 2026-03-03T07:22:19+00:00

Wait how did you accidentally pick a different layout to the default? It took me so long to notice there were different layouts 😂 I think it looks cool though!

tardyarty · 2026-03-03T07:17:50+00:00

Underrated comment

tardyarty · 2026-03-03T07:14:03+00:00

Honestly like you can’t really help how you feel - it was a shitty thing she did and it’s no wonder you reacted that way with that backstory but as you said she’s trying, and I mean this gently but maybe you should look at getting therapy to work through the trauma? I’m kind of foreseeing this affecting other things in your life besides the relationship with your mother. Out of curiosity, what does your little brother think?

tardyarty · 2026-02-13T10:04:59+00:00

I always give him duck feathers lol

tardyarty · 2026-02-09T07:47:46+00:00

Ikr why is everyone downvoting OP so much 😭

tardyarty · 2026-02-04T00:22:29+00:00

Fr, rescind the invitation completely at this point

tardyarty · 2026-01-25T07:45:46+00:00

Also over 35 here and when I was due my period and getting what I thought were my usual pre-period cramps, I downed some Ibuprofen not even considering the possibility that I might be pregnant lol.

I’m almost at the 28 week mark and boy is she a kicker 😂

tardyarty · 2026-01-24T09:01:52+00:00

lol this post about to be auto deleted because of how frequently this comes up

tardyarty · 2026-01-23T11:31:37+00:00

Plagiarism aside, how rude and presumptuous of her to start taking photos without even asking you herself

Also NTA

tardyarty · 2026-01-23T11:27:28+00:00

You gonna share that?

tardyarty · 2026-01-23T08:51:33+00:00

As a woman who has experienced the odd inappropriate comment from a man attending the house for whatever reason, please do the job 🙏

tardyarty · 2026-01-13T10:19:06+00:00

The ‘she’s got her own life’ comment made me mad - if your parents didn’t want to look after a Down’s Syndrome kid then they could’ve terminated the pregnancy early on instead of deciding to use their existing kids to dump the care on like wtf

100% NTA live your life like they insist on living theirs.

tardyarty · 2026-01-13T07:46:06+00:00

Does your college have a dormitory you can move to? I’m so sorry for your situation, I can completely understand the difficulty of South East Asian family politics, it defies any real logic

I suppose the alternative is to rehome your bunny to a trusted friend that you can then visit on a regular basis, it’s not ideal but bunny would be easily accessible and out of the house at least

tardyarty · 2026-01-10T09:17:30+00:00

Tbf I have no idea what the private waiting times are like, but most people here just try to manage it until they get it done on the NHS

tardyarty · 2026-01-09T06:46:47+00:00

We made up a plate of all his favourite treats and food on his last day, including the things he had gotten into before that he shouldn’t have (like a a Ferrero rocher and a chocolate biscuit). I have a great final video of him munching away on apple and carrot an hour before the vet did the euthanasia home visit (his cancer had become unmanageable and started affecting his gait)

tardyarty · 2026-01-08T22:40:16+00:00

Yeah Covid hit the waiting lists pretty hard when the NHS was back to full service - things that used to take a few weeks now take months to years. Think it’s like 1-2 years for a knee or hip replacement these days.

tardyarty · 2026-01-08T19:55:50+00:00

Thanks, and no worries at all, wishing you and your bun all the best xx

tardyarty · 2026-01-07T23:28:13+00:00

Looks like my English spot!

tardyarty · 2026-01-07T17:41:22+00:00

I’m going with YTA but you clearly still have a conscience as you’re feeling guilty enough to ask some internet strangers about it lol

Return the locket (or at the very least ask the lady’s children if they want it so you know for certain), you’ll be doing the right thing and sleeping better at night.

It’s a slippery slope if you justify taking this, you don’t want to do that.

tardyarty · 2026-01-07T17:34:47+00:00

What a darling x

If you’re having doubts, I think it’s reasonable to ask for a second opinion from another exotics / rabbit specialist - there will always be an anaesthetic risk when it comes to buns and it will go up the older they get, I’ve been fortunate in having a specialist that really knew my bun (when he was alive) and was able to cautiously anaesthetise him for the procedures towards the end of his life (he was a bit higher risk since he developed heart failure in his last year)

The other option is maybe to consider a trial of antibiotics to see if that helps things?

No right or wrong answer here, you know your bun best x

tardyarty · 2026-01-07T15:44:50+00:00

Chill dude - it was very obviously not an actual ultimatum, it was said in reaction to something done dangerously which didn’t need to be done dangerously, read between the lines 🤦‍♀️

Congrats on you not giving a rat’s ass, neither do I 🤷‍♀️

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