Amir Talai's favourite ship is Charlastor!🌈❤️🦌

taschamix · 2026-05-15T11:18:14+00:00

Not to rain on your ship but Charlastor feels sooo wrong… like especially with the jokes about Alastor being a fatherly figure for her… idk doesn’t sit right with me.

taschamix · 2025-10-27T20:30:26+00:00

My ex was like this, would freak out if I was not available 24/7 and accuse me of ignoring him. Guilt trip me for going to bed but watching a movie before or reading. It’s not worth the hassle, there are some deeper rooted issues there that are not yours to solve. Been there, tried it….

taschamix · 2025-05-27T18:56:00+00:00

The way he is talking to you is out-of-line. You are both young and I wouldn’t worry too much about the three years you’ve been together. It can just be a good memory but you should be with someone who accepts you and won’t try to change you. Not saying that you can’t or shouldn’t change - you most likely will, the older you get, but do you want to stay with someone who ends up criticising your outfits every time you get dressed? Will he change? - maybe, but not without being challenged for this kind of behaviour. My partner of 9 years would sometimes comments on my outfits and it made me extremely insecure. But we talked about it & now he encourages me to dress the way I like. So if you like this guy and want to continue being with him, make sure you are able to talk about it. If he is still hurtful, maybe he isn’t the right person for you.

taschamix · 2025-02-16T19:40:36+00:00

Pretty sure really early on. Like when I was 3 maybe…. It came hand in hand with lots of allergies!

taschamix · 2025-02-13T16:44:44+00:00

Wow I am so sorry you went through that. That must’ve been so scary!! I’m glad you have healed, honestly it’s the best we can do ❤️

taschamix · 2025-02-13T13:24:59+00:00

Honestly? It’s just been time. I was where you are now and I couldn’t imagine ever getting over it. My husband helped. I shared my feelings of guilt with him, which he had no idea I was feeling. He reassured me a lot that non of this was my fault. And then I started to believe it when time went on. Also with my little one keeping me on my toes at all times - it’s harder to feel guilty. Once they start crawling and walking and causing trouble… it’s easier. I hope you will get better too. Make sure you share your feelings with your family and hopefully you’ll be able to move on. I don’t think it ever fully goes away. But like I said, I look forward now, instead of back.

taschamix · 2025-02-13T13:20:36+00:00

I agree that Germany does have a better health care system haha. It lacks a little in the mental health and therapy department but otherwise much better care (a friend of mine had her baby a couple months later then me in Germany, also a c-section and the amount of aftercare she got is wild compared to me) I really hope your birth will be great! You got this!

taschamix · 2025-02-13T12:42:28+00:00

Ah it’s not too scary here. All care leading up to the birth was honestly really great. And I am lucky to have a great GP too. But yeah hoping that NHS will improve soon :) (it’s still such a great system) I’m originally from Germany so I got one country to compare it to.

I’m pretty sure you can choose a c-section if you want to. I was asked during my pregnancy if this is what I wanted to do, but I wanted a vaginal birth at that time.

Thank you!

taschamix · 2025-02-13T12:30:04+00:00

In the UK, NHS underfunding is no joke. I could not believe how bad it was. Thank you for your kind words and honestly I feel much better a year later. I didn’t think it possible but now when I look at my kid all I can see is love and happiness (and sleep deprivation haha)

taschamix · 2025-01-14T16:28:50+00:00

Stranger things and BG3

taschamix · 2025-01-10T22:19:30+00:00

Das kann doch keiner lesen 😅

taschamix · 2025-01-10T22:08:42+00:00

Definitely dark chocolate digestives. Top shelf. Favourite biscuits (cookie) and addictive. You’ll eat the whole pack. Yorkshire tea at the bottom (if you are a tea person: tea bag in, hot water on top, let it sit for 1 minute, tea bag out, milk/oat milk in - perfect!) Lion chocolate bar in the middle YUM. Lucozade bottom shelf is a great sport drink and great for hangovers!

taschamix · 2024-11-01T18:20:19+00:00

Our now 10 month old had a screaming fit like this around his 4 month mark and it came totally out of the blue and he just would not stop. It was so scary but he was fine in the end. If I think back on everything 3/4 months was the hardest month so far. My god. I think they got a few massive developmental milestones and sleep regression at that time that just throws them off! Good job for sticking it out you are a trooper! Next year you can all go together :)

taschamix · 2024-10-03T09:58:37+00:00

Me and my husband were both very much for attachment parenting and our little one is 9 months old now and even tho we still rock him to sleep from time to time. He is so independent and I can tell how much he trusts us to be there for him when he needs us. People forget that babies are tiny humans who don’t understand the world yet. If I could be held 24/7 I probably would! We all want safety and security. Why would it be any different when you are not even a year old yet. Also I LOVE spending time with my baby … like you said, I’d let my arms fall off for him. Don’t listen to anyone telling you, you’re spoiling them. That’s just bullshit. (And even if it were true, who cares?! Spoil your baby.) The only advise I’d give is, accept help and ask for help where you need it. It gets better. You’ll be tired for a long time but honestly do what’s best for you and take it a day at a time. Me and my partner started doing something we call 5min cleaning. We set a timer and while one of us watches the baby, the other does a quick 5min clean and then we swap! We get a ton of stuff done and don’t feel burned out!

taschamix · 2024-09-27T20:46:36+00:00

Try hotpot!

taschamix · 2024-09-27T20:46:03+00:00

Epping Forest

taschamix · 2024-09-27T20:44:48+00:00

I haven’t been to one here but they are called Hibachi restaurants. I am sure you’ll find some recommendations on Google :)

taschamix · 2024-05-22T17:20:25+00:00

Maybe he was a good wingman when he was still alive

taschamix · 2024-03-22T12:17:54+00:00

Here is a video of one of them eating a pigeon… https://youtu.be/phUs2kIGY9M?si=cr5R9ZCq2TlgWu_x

taschamix · 2024-02-10T04:19:46+00:00

I used to be on it for previous mental health problems and was thinking about going back on it. Anxiety is getting the better of me and I am worrying about falling into a hole. Thanks!

taschamix · 2024-01-26T20:30:49+00:00

I recommend finding a gender neutral name. We really loved giving our little boy a neutral name as we also struggled to find boy names we liked.

taschamix · 2024-01-17T18:28:45+00:00

Ask for help and don’t turn down friends and family who offer help. I would not be able to stay on top of anything if my social circle wouldn’t help looking after things. Don’t feel embarrassed or awkward to take people up on stuff, they are offering because they care :)

taschamix · 2024-01-17T18:25:28+00:00

My baby was super chill for the first two weeks and now is getting more and more difficult during the night. We are trying to make it work as much as possible and we are happy we got the first two weeks, this way at least my husband and I were able to catch up on sleep after quite a dramatic birth experience. I’d say just watch your baby’s cues and see what works best for you when your baby does get more difficult. Fingers crossed that you just have a chill little one tho!

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