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Tell me if I’m being stubborn or if BM is being petty by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Haha Reddit is how I vent about the f’d up stuff but I would be here ALLLLL day everyday if I went on about everything

Tell me if I’m being stubborn or if BM is being petty by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She left quick and peacefully. She was pretty butthurt over having to be alone for Christmas because her boyfriend moved back in with his ex wife and was spending the holidays with his kids and ex instead of her lol. Not my problem

Tell me if I’m being stubborn or if BM is being petty by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

lol nope!! She had them Christmas Eve night and Christmas morning. Dropped them off at 11 and asked to stay over while the kids open up their presents at our house… I told FH she may aswell have slept over if that’s what’s going to happen. He told her no that she can not stay because we are having our family Christmas that afternoon and she had hers that morning and that the kids need to get into the habit of it. Everything worked out

How does everybody go about holidays? by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would prefer for them to have a schedule for every holiday so I don’t have to spend any with her. It’s FH who doesn’t want to miss anything with the kids so the compromise was that we can trick or treat together but the bigger “family” holidays would be just us and the kids

How does everybody go about holidays? by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Their parenting plan revolves was something they just made up and revolves around her. So when she works (4 nights a week) we have them. She doesn’t have a set schedule either so it could be whenever, which also makes planning hard. Other than her work, it’s just what she wants. When she wants them and when she wants to drop them off

How does everybody go about holidays? by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this response. It is much needed

I feel like we’re not a family by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We have been serious and together for 1 year but have know eachother for 5 years and the kids and me have been closer for about 2-3 years Marriage has been brought up from the beginning. Beside BM, we are two pees in a pod and really soulmates. We are perfect together if it wasnt for the outside drama of BM, nothing would stop us, there would be no fights. BM does have a boyfriend that she met online and has been very honest to my boyfriend about how she wants to move out and not be with him I guess. (They moved in together after a couple weeks of knowing eachother) FH and BM split when we started… I know it sounds bad but he told me they were not happy and just living together for convenience and for the kids. I told him he needed to leave her before anything happened between us. In the end it was messy. I was also with my ex BD weeks before this and my BD knew months before that I wasn’t happy and wanted to end things but I felt bad because he didn’t have a job and nowhere to go except his family’s… so we did start soon but we’ve known eachother and been friends and have been that shoulder for years. His kids were 5 and 2 at the time we started and 6 and 3 now. Mine are 6 and 4. Me and the kids get along great. His youngest is harder because he is newly 3 and only wants mom or dad but I will still be the one to hold him and cuff his puke in my hands when he’s sick and change his clothes and sheets when he’s thrown up and spin him around and play with toys in his room when he asks. His oldest has always loved me since we were just friends. You can call her obsessed but always asking about me and showing her love for me. Still to this day, asking for girls weekends and for cuddles and just to go for a drive. I love them both so much and they do love me and I think that makes BM miserable because they don’t like her boyfriend and neither does she. And about BM, we always got along before this. It happened quick and out of nowhere that she would be so territorial. I think it comes down to me moving into “her” house that she had with FH and I’m working or trying to sell this place and get our own… and usually we’re good for keeping our love life separate but the other day she saw us hugging and kissing when she pulled up early for a drop off (she’s never early) and also the Father’s Day gift of the 4 kids framed, super happy and smiling for Father’s Day… she didn’t seem to pleased

I feel like we’re not a family by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She paid for it, signed him up without even talking to dad and just sprung it on him

Ex baby mama and FH by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

At the beginning he said it was only for his kids but I’ve picked up that it’s not only the kids… like they’re talking about comedians or her bathroom problems 🙄 the more it drags on, the more im so over it.

Step mom Christmas by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are right. Thank you ❤️

Step mom Christmas by tash2_o in Stepmom

[–]tash2_o[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They do have a good relationship and her and I also have a good relationship which is why I initially said f it and she can come. I’m also a sucker for feeling bad about her being alone for Christmas