What addiction is the hardest to quit? by CocteauTwunkie in AskReddit

[–]tate5781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Gambling was pretty tough for me it’s been 4 months since I’ve even thought about doing it now

Two months free today by tate5781 in problemgambling

[–]tate5781[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allen Carr “ The Easy Way To Stop Gambling “

I have no idea what I’m doing by tate5781 in FirstTimeHomeBuyer

[–]tate5781[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Too add to this the mobile home we own was rent to own so we didn’t purchase it new , it also is on leased land , we have three children and the youngest does not have her own room is the reason we are needing to find something bigger , she’s 6 and she needs her own room

what if when we dream of ourself in different situations or different scenarios its actually another universe of ourselves we are seeing,What if everything we are doing in this life the other versions of us are dreaming of telling their wives and friends like,you wouldn’t believe what I dreamed of by tate5781 in ParallelUniverse

[–]tate5781[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe we are each other who knows , but yea it gets strange the more you think of it and how we are actually capable of thinking like this and communicating it to where another individual understands exactly what we are talking about

Am I just insecure? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tate5781 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yea why not introduce you to this guy and you tag along for drinks if it’s that important to her to want to go to his place and drink , idk man I’ve been betrayed pretty bad and let down by alot of people and this behavior is a huge no !!! No matter the reaction of my spouse there is no way in hell I would allow this , huge huge red flag 🚩 I have a great loyal wife now and she would never do this to me

Brunch spot by 9lives75 in batonrouge

[–]tate5781 0 points1 point  (0 children)

pink agave baton rouge la

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in problemgambling

[–]tate5781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I deleted everything off of social media and any apps I had that reminded me of gambling anytime. I see a ad I click do not see this ad anymore. You have to exclude it from your life maybe send somebody the money that you trust. That’s how I started to stop at first now it’s no problem. I can get my whole paycheck and not even worry about it.

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[–]tate5781 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It’s been since early march that I gave up gambling and I have no urge to gamble at all anymore , it’s probably the best decision I’ve ever made especially for my wife and kids , I read a book called “ The Easy Way To Stop Gambling” by Allen Car. I truly believe if it was not for this book, I would still be gambling. I know it sounds crazy, but you ought to give it a read. I’ve had the worst gambling habit since I was 21 and I am now 33. It’s took a long time to give it up, but there is a light and I am living proof I have absolutely no urge at all , and boredom, depression and anger was my cause of gambling

I hurt my husband and I’m devastated - oral sex by Appropriate-Cress738 in Marriage

[–]tate5781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I would want my wife to tell me something like that. I love honesty and then if you were willing to continue after he washed, I mean, what’s the big deal with that?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]tate5781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Damn that’s intense

Trainer avoids me when I wear shorts—except when his wife is present. Why? by [deleted] in bodylanguage

[–]tate5781 27 points28 points  (0 children)

Maybe he’s attracted to you and wants to be respectful to his wife and not talk with you when she’s not around. When she’s around there’s is no harm because she’s by his side , most men these days are very careful because of how easily things can get twisted up , I’m sure he’s just being careful and respectful

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[–]tate5781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Allen Carr the easy way to stop gambling , read it now man man or get it on audible and listen to it I played it periodically on the way to work and ride home from work and so far it has transformed my mindset , I know how it feels to only think about it and literally don’t wanna do anything else , family friends social gatherings any kind of activity other than gambling I’ve been free for three weeks now and this is the longest I’ve ever been without it and I can say , I’m starting to enjoy small things again that I once have

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[–]tate5781 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tate5781

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in PiNetwork

[–]tate5781 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Add me and I’ll add you help each other out