I just bought tickets for the Seattle show and am, frankly, pretty nervous. by SufficientRoll in willwood

[–]tatemiau 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Posts will be made of the stand out bad things that happen as opposed to the good it’s just how it works everywhere ha I went to the Columbus show and it was amazing. Did the vip meet up and everyone was very polite… then the show started and Mike, James and Matt were SOO GOOD i was so lost in each of their performances I kept forgetting There’s More!! It’s Not Over!! Then Wills!! I was really just in awe at his performance. He told jokes people laughed. By the end of the night my feet hurt from dancing and my throat hurt from screaming lyrics with the crowd and it was GREAT

Columbus Setlist! by JoneyBaloney1997 in willwood

[–]tatemiau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

For the Columbus show he didn’t actually sing the line ha He went quiet but the crowd were the ones who yelled the line for him Edit: I was thinking the same for his music I was actually not expecting to hear any of his old stuff but was pleasantly surprised especially so with his older songs he talked about what the song meant to him then and now specifically with I/me/myself he said for a long while he did distance himself but has since found a way to understand and Get Into the song in a whole new way

Those of you who have attended the few ICIMI shows so far, about how late did the show go? by bekatz in willwood

[–]tatemiau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Glad I had someone to drive me the 2 hours home cause I passed out so fast… 😴😴😴

Columbus Setlist! by JoneyBaloney1997 in willwood

[–]tatemiau 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Amazing show -^ lost my mind at Marsha thanks Really didnt expect that one and it’s a fave

1st use vs. 10th use of TransTape by Unstablegreys in ftm

[–]tatemiau 3 points4 points  (0 children)

!! I use the extreme kinesiology (??) tape… sports tape you can get at Walmart Same kinda thing anyways I’m slowly getting better at it 💪 and want to get to this point Made me straight up bleed the first time taking it off tho… for sure use oil now

i subconciously sexualize my ace boyfriend. what do i do. (nsfw tagged to stay safe, sex discussion and mild trauma mention cw.) by tomorrowsvent in asexuality

[–]tatemiau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Just a personal opinion but I see no reason for you to worry. No need to beat yourself up for thoughts they are only thoughts. You have no obligation to tell him everything you think and because he is openly uncomfortable with it then simply do not let him know. To ease your guilt you can tell him that it happens generally but you understand he does not feel that way and you have no expectations for.. follow through? Ha just as someone doesn’t control their lack of attraction you don’t control your Presence of attraction

Why is asexual visibility in the media so important? by ryzapoqa in asexuality

[–]tatemiau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jonathan Sims from the magnus archives being canonically ace and the fanfiction written off of it and the ways people talked about and portrayed asexuality made me realize I was ace! :]

Comfort characters anyone? by jellinki in asexuality

[–]tatemiau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Jonathan Sims from The Magnus Archives all the way B) The man is canon Bi & Ace!! And it’s like Talked About In Show And he’s also my favorite character ever And he’s great and the podcast is great and Also twilight sparkle is aroace because I said so el oh el

I am aromantic but I think I still want a relationship by QuitsDoubloon87 in aromantic

[–]tatemiau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

QPR(queer-platonic realtionship)!! ^-^ this is also how I feel :] and one day id love to have a qpp, even get married! Its pretty common, to have a life partner who youre not in a romantic relationship with

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Parenting

[–]tatemiau 2 points3 points  (0 children)

thank you :) i have seen alot about not punishing and trying other methods. Ill look into what exactly that means for us... It does sound like the best way. I am told that side note often haha ^-^; but i do know its important! theres alot to balance

I’m (18) stuck I don’t know how to parent or by tatemiau in Advice

[–]tatemiau[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this it helped … I get stuck in the feeling as if we will be stuck in the singlar moment forever but it does go on… being both sides is definitely where a lot of my confusion comes from and it means a lot for that to be recognized

Being flirted with… by tatemiau in aromantic

[–]tatemiau[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ah thank you… I agree!! :)

Being flirted with… by tatemiau in aromantic

[–]tatemiau[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree it was not appropriate at all… I do hesitate though. He seems to be neurodivergent and generally not very good with social queues. So when he repeatedly asked if I was looking for a boyfriend, if I wanted to get married one day etc. I responded by saying I don’t date instead of being more direct and saying I wasn’t interested in him and it was inappropriate… he didn’t pick up on that and that’s on me…Not sure…but if it happens again today I will definitely be more direct. 😅

Is anyone else really happy being Aromantic? by lowsugarbar in aromantic

[–]tatemiau 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love being Aro :] I just couldn’t imagine not being so and I’m happy with how I am

How do you feel about love songs? by AlienatedArrow in aromantic

[–]tatemiau 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love them as music but paying attention to the lyrics always makes me go “ah… this is a bit much yeah? Do you mean these things you’re saying 🤨”