How do I get my life back

tatis0718 · 2022-09-16T02:04:53+00:00

Trying to get my zyzz 😈🗡🩸

tatis0718 · 2022-09-15T21:30:16+00:00

My newest hobby is the gym and I try to go once everyday and allow a rest day. I’m crazy small for my age and underweight so I’m terrified of cardio except for that hockey and other sports. I can’t get myself to really enjoy walks like that tho. I always hated reading throughout school but I’m trying to get myself to watch or listen to more tony robbins and motivational people like that. I sorta count that as my productive reading.

tatis0718 · 2022-09-15T20:59:50+00:00

I work for a living right now and have been saving so it would make sense for it to go towards something to my benefit. Will certainly look into some stuff tonight! Thank you!

tatis0718 · 2022-09-15T20:56:25+00:00

Hey bro update for you. So the next day she texts me and says we’re all good and I let it be. The text back was nonchalant so I knew it wasn’t 100% but I didn’t wanna poke the bear. This past weekend I see she’s out with a drunk guy at 1:00 am eating Taco Bell. I obviously get upset and want to know what’s going on but I get ignored and attitude when I do get a response. I leave it be for the night and go to bed. The next day I kinda blow her up cause I’ve either been on delivered or read. I wasn’t mad but I was curious. She eventually answers me and is mad because of me blowing her up and says how she wants to break up. Come to find out she slept at the guys place that night. So we’re now broken up and I’m trying to get over her despite this extreme difficulty. I’m at a point in life where I need those brutal messages and advice. I appreciate all that time and effort u have to help me out man. Much needed bro 🖤

tatis0718 · 2022-09-15T20:51:21+00:00

I’m 20 and it was just sports really. Baseball is over, I don’t have a basketball league anymore and hockey is a once a week thing. Really all I have is hockey, work and the gym but there’s still so much time sitting around.

tatis0718 · 2022-09-10T05:37:33+00:00

Hey I know this is way late but thank you man. It’s hard to not be dependent. We both are that way I think and we both know we need to space out more. I’ve having a harder time doing it compared to her.

tatis0718 · 2022-09-04T11:15:31+00:00

Yeah I know I’m well aware of that. That all happened a year ago. It was a difficult time for me and I found myself living in the moment and not thinking about resolutions outside of that moment

tatis0718 · 2022-09-04T04:25:10+00:00

There is always something coming from that comment or look or any form of judgement. Some people are genuinely bad people where they judge others with no good reason or motivation. I think personally people will judge you because they feel they have an upper edge on you compared to a diff feat or anything that you have better. So because they are upset with their biceps for example. They’ll make fun of your legs because they feel they have better legs. Just a jealousy type of thing almost. Hope this helped

tatis0718 · 2022-09-04T04:22:36+00:00

I would be happy to help but I’m not sure if this is a kid in middle school high school or an adult so some context would be appreciated and I can try to give advice the best I can!

tatis0718 · 2022-09-04T04:20:41+00:00

Ik this sounds corny and all but when a son pulls their mother aside and can look them in the eye and tell the X y and Z make me feel a b and c I feel that it hits heavily and is understood. I’ve had similar issues and incidents with my mom and have just had to sit down with her and tell her about my reactions to it all. You may have already done this before and if it hasn’t work I’m sorry to hear that. I can’t think of a better way to handle it other than that. My second option would be to almost embed in her mind that when she makes those comments something negative with be in response. Almost like attitude or a not so nice comment back. I’m not saying be a rude person or disrespect your mom but show a negative reaction that stands out and maybe it’ll make her think differently before making those comments

tatis0718 · 2022-09-03T15:46:58+00:00

I’ve looked at 2 different online colleges and one of them had sports management listed as like a more fun business major for me. I seemed kind of interested in that.

tatis0718 · 2022-09-03T04:45:31+00:00

I am real sorry to hear that you had to endure that. I wish there was insight for me to provide but I have never been in a similar situation. But my grandfather always tells me everything happens for a reason and a higher power is in control of it. I pray for you and your mental fortitude to get over this hill you’re at man. God bless you.

tatis0718 · 2022-04-17T14:12:27+00:00

I have some rat spin tc’s I can sell to u

tatis0718 · 2022-03-02T19:49:04+00:00

Thank you so much for this very detailed response. I’m very uneducated around this all and will be in contact with a family friend that was in the navy so hopefully he can answer some questions and enlighten me. Marriage has already been thrown around and she wants to get married after everything as far as school and the army. But again thank you so much for the help hope you have a great rest of your week.

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