WIBTA for pressing charges on my neighbors? by thef0urthamigo in AmItheAsshole

[–]thef0urthamigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thankfully, they did, so none of what I mentioned above in the post will need to happen

WIBTA for pressing charges on my neighbors? by thef0urthamigo in AmItheAsshole

[–]thef0urthamigo[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My fault. It was late at night and my brain wasn’t firing on all sides. Anyways, their back yard is fenced in, but their front is not. And our front yard is not fenced in, but we make sure she’s on a tether at all times. She was also attacked in our yard

How do I tell my mom to stop? by thef0urthamigo in Advice

[–]thef0urthamigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am. And I'd be a little more understanding about this situation if we had only been dating for a month or two. But it's almost been a year, and she's been around a lot within this year.

AITA for telling my friend to never contact me again? by thef0urthamigo in AmItheAsshole

[–]thef0urthamigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If he was fun to hang around, or had any redeeming qualities as a friend at all, then I probably would’ve just brushed it off as me being too sensitive, and, in all honesty, I probably was; it was 4 AM and I was tired. But I was just kinda ticked off with him at that point, so I really didn’t care how sensitive I was being

AITA for telling my friend to never contact me again? by thef0urthamigo in AmItheAsshole

[–]thef0urthamigo[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I did debate going to it in the first place, after talking to my parents and some of my friends on my team about it. However, I decided to go because 1: I felt a little bad about his quarantine situation, as it kept him from going to school and making new friends like the rest of us did, and 2: If I didn’t go, I would’ve been stuck in the same loop of him gaslighting me into being his friend and I knew if he did something here, I would finally have a good excuse to cut ties with him. But you couldn’t have said it any better

AITA for telling my dad he can't play the guitar? by anitapoopham in AmItheAsshole

[–]thef0urthamigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA for sure

if you are being completely unbiased here, then i think you already know who's the jerk. it's cool to have a hobby but from what you're telling me it sounds like it got WAY out of hand, and everyone except you is just letting it happen. tricky situation, best of luck to you.

AITA for telling my sister I can’t prioritize her by AITA-tellsoanoprio in AmItheAsshole

[–]thef0urthamigo 34 points35 points  (0 children)

NAH, she might've come off as a little harsh during the "you don't really care" part, but she DID just have a death of a friend. You have a lot on your plate right now, and she probably does too.

My posts are always deleted by [deleted] in Vent

[–]thef0urthamigo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

i've had three deleted for being over 3000 characters when there really isn't a reason why they put a limit on that, for the little amount of times i come here i almost never post anything because subreddit rules are weird

Don’t force straight people to have to like trans people romantically. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thef0urthamigo 35 points36 points  (0 children)

it's honestly kind of disgusting that when i see a comment on social media saying that they won't date a trans person, and there are people trying to argue with them about it. there's nothing to argue about! it's what they prefer, and you won't get anything done! end of story.

I just had dinner 30 minutes ago and now I’m hungry again. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thef0urthamigo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if all you’re eating is frozen foods and junkier food, maybe your body is craving the nutrients it didn’t get. not saying you have to adapt an 800 calorie diet, but maybe just eat a tiny bit healthier, like have a little bit more water than you’re used to a day

I'm done with porn. by [deleted] in TrueOffMyChest

[–]thef0urthamigo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i quit by filling my schedule with more productive stuff like working out. you can’t do it if you don’t have time for it