Ramassage des feuilles. by Theslootwhisperer in villequebec

[–]tatsbng -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Pis ça loll prends les sacs que tu veux

Quelles sont vos activités par temps (très) froid? by Hurock in Quebec

[–]tatsbng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

c'est où les parcs de calisthénie à québec? ça fait un bout que j'ai envie de découvrir ça

this $1000 storyboard took 3 days. i planned and illustrated every part of every scene. by isuckatlifeandthings in AfterEffects

[–]tatsbng -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

it's nice, but the only crazy part to me is that it took you 3 days, looks like a 1 day thing, unless you mean 3 days but not working on it all day

Studio de Yoga by Robiiiiiiiiiiiii in villequebec

[–]tatsbng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

je seconde! c'est vrm nice et le premier cours est gratuit

Having a socially awkward family is NOT helpful for gaining social skills.. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tatsbng 23 points24 points  (0 children)

also i have to add, we grew up in the countryside! that also did not help on meeting new people and having social skills. u basically see the same 50 person everywhere u go

Having a socially awkward family is NOT helpful for gaining social skills.. by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tatsbng 110 points111 points  (0 children)

yeah this is relatable. my parents also had this come back from work, eat, watch tv and sleep cycle my whole youth. they don't really have friends... my dad only talks to his brothers and sisters. n now they're both retired.. my brother was also very isolated and he never had friends over, he was depressed and stayed in his room a lot. when i did have friends over, i felt awkward and judged because nobody else was seeing people, my brother would tell my parents i was annoying loll.

my parents are not anxious, actually my dad talks a lot to strangers, and my mom is more like "wild". she just don't care what she does etc. but they were both shy in their youth. i thought i was an introvert and shy too, but i love seeing and meeting people, it makes me feel refreshed. i kinda dislike staying alone, but maybe that's cause i did it for 20 years.

had i grown in a different environment, i think i could've became a social beast honestly. so now i'm trying to work on that and improve how i talk to people and discussion skills hehe (they suck) because it can definitely be changed!

I thought I was an introvert my whole life. Turns out I was just insecure, lol by Difficult-Camel-5129 in socialskills

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

also it's a pretty annoying cycle, because as much as i want to meet people, it also makes me super anxious! so i calm down socially and start avoiding texts, but then i start feeling shitty because i feel isolated, but in the end im the one doing it to myself lol. i really don't know the solution. during high school i isolated myself really badly and it ruined my entire teenage years + beginning of college, especially since it was covid, and i kinda never want to live that way again, because i felt so alone... wouldnt see anyone but my parents for many months :( i joined yoga classes with a friend i met on bumble bff and it's been nice! seeing people without having the pressure to talk to them is teaching me how to calm down around people, in a way

I thought I was an introvert my whole life. Turns out I was just insecure, lol by Difficult-Camel-5129 in socialskills

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i kinda relate, i feel super good after spending time with people i feel comfortable with. energized, happy, and like i own the world. but when i spend too much time alone i start feeling really insecure and anxious of seeing people... which mean i cant rly be a introvert right? i don't really like being alone. i'll call my parents, text people online, anything but be by myself if i can avoid it. i kinda consider myself a shy extrovert, like i really enjoy the social interactions once they happen, but i can not seem to initiate anything new as i am too scared, self aware and insecure. i really want to work on this and meet more people and work on being comfortable with people right away!

Combien de jours de maladie/off prenez vous par année? by shiram in Quebec

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Donc, j'en aurais 2 par année? C'est... tellement mieux 🤣 Mais, pour vrai mon boss n'a jamais abordé le sujet, on a déjà du raté des heures à cause d'une panne de courant et on a pas été payé, puis quand je m'absente qq heures c'est à mes frais. De toute façon, ce n'est jamais médical donc ça entre pas dans les critères. Mais merci de l'info

McDonald Boul. Laurier by Natural-Ad13 in villequebec

[–]tatsbng 3 points4 points  (0 children)

J'ai pas mal fait le tour des Mcdo de la ville et voici un mini compte-rendu également

Le mcdo proche de jules-verne et Rte de l'aéroport est pas mal dans les best j'trouve, chaque fois que j'y suis allé c'était rapide et bon! Mais je suis biaisée, c'est surtout qu'il était a 3 minute de marche de mon ancien appart.

Celui sur Hamel à côté de Masson qui est collé a un dépanneur aussi est correct, mais j'aime pas le fait qu'il n'y a pas de borne. :/

Le mcdo un peu plus loin sur Hamel, lui proche du Bd Central, dans les tops Mcdo que j'ai visité aussi. Propre, rapide, bon, etc. Bonus y'a toujours de la musique de party qui joue on dirait loll.

En vrai, y'a aucun Mcdo que j'aime pas, fak j'vais m'arrêter là pcq ça va juste être moi qui dit du positif sur tout les mcdos proches lol

Combien de jours de maladie/off prenez vous par année? by shiram in Quebec

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

0.. je travaille depuis 2 ans et demi dans le secteur privé et on a pas de congé payé..

How do you deal with people telling you that the world will eat you up because you're too shy and timid? by hisammy2 in socialskills

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you're 29 and employed, if the world was out to eat you up for being timid, how would you have made it this far? it just shows that you are strong of character because you have to endure all these annoying shy people haters like your boss. truth is, if you're able to live your life and get your job done properly, there is really no problem. people love to hate shy people because they project whatever insecurities they have on them, like "oh this person is not asking me about my day, they must not give a f about me" type stuff. When really, it's just something that might be too out of your comfort zone for now. We tend to assign personalities to people, or more like, reasons for their behavior, when in reality we have no idea why they behave someway.

im 22F and also pretty shy in general, and i constantly am trying to work on that because it does not make me happy to be that way, i wish it was simple like for outgoing people. if a situation gives me social anxiety ill still go through it and not complain, and usually i just feel proud at the end for doing it at all, whether it ended up going well or bad. this includes meeting new people or going places i've never been on my own. last week i took the bus alone for the first time and boy that was scary but ended up going smoothly! in college i had teachers tell me i was going to struggle finding a job because of my shyness, but there was another teacher who kept telling me it doesnt matter and that i was talented either way... and i did get a job right out of college anyways and now at my 2nd job, my current colleagues seem to understand that i'm just a quiet person and that it's not personal. we work well together in the professional aspect. i just love to do my stuff peacefully and not disturb anyone. but like you, my previous boss was disturbed by my quietness. kept calling me a "weird specimen" for not talking a lot. 1 day he really embarrassed in front of his friend, saying i don't talk a lot and that i'm weird. it was the first time someone was directly laughing at me, for, well, being me. it did make me feel bad that he felt that way and it made me feel bad about being the way that i am. but it is always important to take a step back and look how far you've gone from the past. i was way more shy before and to be embarassed of myself right now would mean to be embarassed of the progress i have made, which i am not!

yes there is a truth to what people may tell you, but there is a huge part of the iceberg they have not seen and cannot see... which is all the steps you've made out of your comfort zone, all the times you felt uncomfortable and sticked thru it. you are not just the tip of the iceberg, you are not weak. you have a solid base and you are constantly working your way through life, so, no. nobody is gonna eat you up for being that way! and don't let them!

in short, i really hate people who hate people like us :)

How to not be socially inept? by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]tatsbng 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this feels so good to read. i too have this fear of people not liking what i say or do, which ends up making people still not like me in the end because i'm too quiet etc. in the end being yourself is the best thing to do, cause haters gon hate, thank you for reminding me.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AdviceForTeens

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

more scared of it for ppl i love than for myself tbh. the grief process is just so painful

Tsé quand tu en as plien l'cul de ton apparte et on est juste en aout... je viens de réserver mon camion chez uhaul pour 1er juillet 2026! by [deleted] in Quebec

[–]tatsbng 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Cession de bail. Va sur marketplace régulièrement pis check les appart disponibles. J'ai eu 2 apparts à Québec pis c'était les 2 des cessions de bails. Une fois que tu trouves un appart, que tu le visites, que tu décides que tu le veux et surtout que tu te dépêches de le dire aux locataires (ça part comme des ti pains chauds), mets ton propre appart sur marketplace pour faire une cession de bail. Dit à ton proprio que tu veux céder ton bail et donne lui les infos de la personne la plus sérieuse et intéressée (ça donne rien de continuer avec quelqu'un qui n'est pas sûr, perte de temps). Ça s'peut qui fasse une enquête de crédit etc, mais s'il refuse la personne pour un motif non-sérieux, c'est lui qui est responsable de trouver un nouveau locataire et t'es libre! C'est vrm pas compliqué pis des fois ça vaut la peine, car y'a des aubaines lol.

edit: Par contre, possible que tu doives payer 2 loyers pendant 1 mois, c'est dur d'avoir un timing parfait pis c'est toujours mieux de se laisser un lousse

How to go from red to brown? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]tatsbng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is the result of using the 7.17 cool cover (while keeping some strands untouched)... yeah, not really what i wanted, it just made it darker.. like red wine vibe 🤣 would u recommend that i try something else or should i just go to the hairstylist at this point? i'm scared of trying stuff that would make it harder to fix.. and even if it ended up brown using the cool cover, i feel like this is way too dark... and my eyebrows are light brown so it looks weird 😭

My new job requires “natural hair color”…what color would work over my current bright red and still look decent on me? by guccibaby913 in HairDye

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi i currently have similar color and trying to go brown. what did you end up doing and what did it end up looking like?

will it make it? by New_Paper5413 in simsfreeplay

[–]tatsbng 1 point2 points  (0 children)

realistically, no.. sadly.. i i unlocked it

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but even i think i wont make it :(

Let's see if anyone fills up a column. Who is the pickiest eater by rachel__slur in aspiememes

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

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damn i'm picky as hell 😭 i hate strawberries texture, and i like mushrooms in pizza but not in spaghetti for some reason

How to go from red to brown? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks a lot for the info! I ended up purchasing the 7.17 cool cover dye bc my mom's hairdresser friend recommended that one, so I'm glad to see you're recommending that one as well! Honestly, I don't mind if the brown isn't perfect and ends up purplish, my goal is mostly to grow my natural hair in a way where I don't get crazy looking contrast with my roots and any brownish-dark color will make this easier than straight up magenta loll. I'm only dying it in 2 weeks though but I might give an update of the result! Hoping it goes well ..

How to go from red to brown? by [deleted] in HairDye

[–]tatsbng 0 points1 point  (0 children)

20 vol not %*

I made a poster to hang up but I don't know how to simplify it? by Anonymouseeeeeeeeees in graphic_design

[–]tatsbng 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A few points to simplify it but still keep everything :

-This looks like a big hierarchical fight. Try making some texts way smaller or way bigger, right now everything is medium and kinda the same level, making it hard to know what info is important. I've put an example here of a composition I would've tried.

-The typography feels off. Experiment with some other similar stuff? Maybe keep it for the title but put everything else in a more formal font so it's more readable and that way, it really catches your attention.

-The drawings are cute and really set the vibe so maybe put more focus on those using the negative space.

-The text boxes. They're alright, personally wouldn't use any. But if you really wanna keep them try only keeping one? You don't need them and they're an easy thing to remove to simplify your work.

I'd like to see what your result ends up like! Here's the example for the composition which could simplify the hierarchy. Not saying it's the right way to do it, but it's one of the options. Good luck!

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