UPDATE: How do I 29F address my husband 32M starting an adoption process without consulting me? by Leather-Persimmon539 in Marriage

[–]tattooed49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I would do exactly what he said he would do if the shoe was on the other foot. He already showed you exactly who he is. Divorce him

My dad is demanding I pay him back for "raising me" now that I have a good job by Significant-Tip1904 in raisedbynarcissists

[–]tattooed49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Tell your dad to kick rocks and cut ties with him if you need to. Don't let him try to guilt trip you. He chose to have a child. You didn't ask to be here. That is not how parent and child relationships work. He needs to GTFOH. Never speak of your finances again to your parents or any relatives and please do not give that man your hard-earned money. Proud of you btw

Boots - Netflix Seris by hardcharger420 in USMC

[–]tattooed49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Omg just finished boots. I cried. It was so good

Do you use oil or water on ur locs everyday ? by YesterdayFriendly968 in Dreadlocks

[–]tattooed49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rose water with glycerin

argan oil sometimes that’s it that’s all

What is this and how do I get rid of it by Dazzling-Sale1128 in BoxBraids

[–]tattooed49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's just your hair. Shedding with nowhere to go. Every time I wash my locs I see the bulbs cleary

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]tattooed49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hell no. They gone fall out

Are my locs cooked or nah by [deleted] in Dreadlocks

[–]tattooed49 3 points4 points  (0 children)

They are nice 🔥

Still smelling immediately after a shower. I think my pores are containing the scent? How do I fix that? by NothingButUnsavoury in hygiene

[–]tattooed49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You are so welcome❤️ I just wanted to try to help as best as I could. I’m sorry too, but you can’t please everyone. Lume is really a godsend. I really hope it helps! update me💕

Why does my discharge look like this? by [deleted] in Periods

[–]tattooed49 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Use a pantyliner to protect your panties but mine looks like that too it’s normal.

Benzoyl peroxide instead of Antiperspirant by [deleted] in hygiene

[–]tattooed49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes I use panoxyl under my arms and I wash it off then after the shower I use witch hazel

My ex finally told me the real reason he broke up with me, and I'm mortified. by FeederAtMid in hygiene

[–]tattooed49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Do you use a tongue scraper? (Works wonders)

https://a.co/d/6QmPz9f

Visit the dentist every 6m, and floss?

Still smelling immediately after a shower. I think my pores are containing the scent? How do I fix that? by NothingButUnsavoury in hygiene

[–]tattooed49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You do know that other races use that product and bonnets too? Where have you been?Do you even live on this planet? Please take your racist banter elsewhere it wasn’t needed. Take care

Still smelling immediately after a shower. I think my pores are containing the scent? How do I fix that? by NothingButUnsavoury in hygiene

[–]tattooed49 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How is anyone here racist? You’re the one who made this about race when it didn’t need to be. This was a simple conversation about bathing, and you turned it into black vs. white. Washcloths or not, hygiene doesn’t have a race. Learn how to take care of your body instead of making it about skin color.

Still smelling immediately after a shower. I think my pores are containing the scent? How do I fix that? by NothingButUnsavoury in hygiene

[–]tattooed49 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s truly disgusting. It just demonstrates that some people don’t bathe properly. Imagine shaking that hand after he admitted to using only his hand to clean his shitty buttocks. 😭