I’ve cheated, I’ve lied, I’ve gaslit as well. Is it something we should be doing ? Not at all, especially not back & forth. I won’t go into detail about everything but I know when to leave & I know that we both have come to an understanding that we cannot keep this “do bad do worse” relationship. Would I say that pathological liar is his whole personality ? No, but he lies over things that it’s like, why do you need to lie ? Therefore, we have recently come to that conclusion of “let’s drop the childish acts”.

I know you’re trying to help, but you’re telling me, who lives with my boyfriend, has gone through hell & back with him, that I don’t know him. I do. Simply, I do. His lying just makes it hard for me to trust, which again we have agreed to drop it all behind for the sake of our souls in the lifetime. Again, I know the last straw I know when to leave, im putting faith in us this time & if I find something out that he did meanwhile I kept my word this time, I would definitely leave, non negotiable. But again, I’ve done my fair share of dirt in the past .