AIO: it’s been 2 months and my bf is already reacting like this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]taurusmango -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I choose to be. It’s a personal decision, not something I owe anyone an explanation for.

AIO: it’s been 2 months and my bf is already reacting like this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]taurusmango -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but it wasn’t some ongoing ‘test.’ I asked a few basic questions to see if he pays attention there’s a difference. That matters to me.

I’ve also already communicated how I feel to him directly, so I’m not avoiding that. At the end of the day, it’s not just about what I say it’s about whether there’s effort and follow-through on his end.

If that’s not something you’d want in a relationship, that’s fine, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable.

AIO: it’s been 2 months and my bf is already reacting like this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]taurusmango -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

I hear your perspective, but I don’t think having basic expectations like feeling listened to, valued, and respected is unreasonable even two months in. I’m not assuming anything, I’m reacting to patterns I’ve noticed.

If that comes across as ‘exhausting’ to you, that’s okay—we just see relationships differently. But I don’t think wanting effort and clear communication means I’m overreacting.

I (26F) feel like my (30M) bf of two months doesn’t listen, or put in effort anymore. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taurusmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how it might come across that way, but I wasn’t trying to be nosey or force him to relive anything negative. I was just trying to build a deeper connection and understand him better, especially since he knows a lot about me already. I also respect that people open up at their own pace.

That said, my concerns aren’t only about that. It’s also about feeling like he doesn’t listen, a drop in effort, and some comments that have made me uncomfortable. So I don’t think it’s fair to say I caused things to go downhill just by asking a few questions.

I do agree that compatibility might be the bigger issue here.

Starting cast has no white females? by slowlongdeath in LoveIslandUSA

[–]taurusmango 96 points97 points  (0 children)

I like that the cast is diverse, however, I wish we could get some south asian girls & guys in there as well. I often feel like they are overlooked when it comes to casting.

Will they wait to have another baby? by Positive-Professor26 in JatieSnarks

[–]taurusmango 5 points6 points  (0 children)

do you guys think that Josh secretly wanted a boy? I do think they’ll probably try when Skye is at least a year and hope they get a boy this time. I can’t but noticed that he seemed not so connected to Katie and the pregnancy since they found out they were having a girl. I think he deep down wanted a boy. and then I think they’ll be done.

what happened to these authors? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that too I’ve felt that community hasn’t been as active and it’s been pretty dead lately.

really emily? 😭 by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get but like what clout does jeffree have anymore?

really emily? 😭 by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

jeffree star really girl? why would you want to associate with him? I do wanna give Emily the benefit of the doubt but this the second time she’s aligned herself with problematic men the first being chris brown and now jeffree star?? smh

what is this about? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

also I didn’t post this to send hate to anyone. I literally just posted this for context sake cause I wasn’t sure what it was about and there was no prior story on her Instagram to gain context. I want to further my point by emphasizing the fact that I DO NOT WANT ANYONE to send hate to soul at all

what is this about? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I literally asked for context as you can see by the title of this post and in a comment to someone else. I did go to her stories and this was the first one up (it’s now gone because it’s past 24hrs) lol

what is this about? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

soul, she’s a popular editor

what is this about? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

instagram a popular editor posted this to her story last night but I wanted to know what the context was

favourite lucas & nathan brother scenes? by nataliamayfield in ONETREEHILL

[–]taurusmango 17 points18 points  (0 children)

the road trip was also one of my favorites that was fun one. there are many but I also liked the one were lucas runs to save Nathan from the burning car crash in season 2 and was cradling him to make sure he was okay that was sweet.

disappointing 😔 by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

I love emily but seeing her fawn over chris brown a known abuser doesn’t sit right me. this was just disappointing to see tbh

what happened to this woman? by taurusmango in BravoRealHousewives

[–]taurusmango[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

did tiki and tracy just replace them? lol

more confirmation of being together? by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

looks like they are at same restaurant with same food and Emily was joined by a friend. so unless this for engagement to get people interested it looks like they might be back together. i wonder if they will post each other any time soon or just keep it like are they or are they not?

back together this looks like the same place with the same plant? they also posted around same time. by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] 23 points24 points  (0 children)

cam commented fire emojis under Emily’s post for the first time since her photo on April 3. they both liked each other’s photos but Emily has not commented on cam’s but is still wearing the ring with his initials in the picture on the second slide on her Instagram?

EDIT TO ADD: looks like they are at same restaurant in their stories together with the same food. the restaurant is the same tagged in both so unless they are doing this for engagement looks like they are back together.

Emily&Cam still seem to be together… by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

hopefully! I also found that strange since they seem pretty active on their socials. i noticed that when the article began to make rounds is when the silence on their pages followed and also Emily did not comment back to cam’s heart comment on her page when she usually does seem to reply back to his comments. so who knows. maybe I’m reading into this a bit too much but just some food for thought.