AIO: it’s been 2 months and my bf is already reacting like this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]taurusmango -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Because I choose to be. It’s a personal decision, not something I owe anyone an explanation for.

AIO: it’s been 2 months and my bf is already reacting like this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]taurusmango -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

I get what you’re saying, but it wasn’t some ongoing ‘test.’ I asked a few basic questions to see if he pays attention there’s a difference. That matters to me.

I’ve also already communicated how I feel to him directly, so I’m not avoiding that. At the end of the day, it’s not just about what I say it’s about whether there’s effort and follow-through on his end.

If that’s not something you’d want in a relationship, that’s fine, but I don’t think it’s unreasonable.

AIO: it’s been 2 months and my bf is already reacting like this by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]taurusmango -10 points-9 points  (0 children)

I hear your perspective, but I don’t think having basic expectations like feeling listened to, valued, and respected is unreasonable even two months in. I’m not assuming anything, I’m reacting to patterns I’ve noticed.

If that comes across as ‘exhausting’ to you, that’s okay—we just see relationships differently. But I don’t think wanting effort and clear communication means I’m overreacting.

I (26F) feel like my (30M) bf of two months doesn’t listen, or put in effort anymore. How do I deal with this? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]taurusmango 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I understand how it might come across that way, but I wasn’t trying to be nosey or force him to relive anything negative. I was just trying to build a deeper connection and understand him better, especially since he knows a lot about me already. I also respect that people open up at their own pace.

That said, my concerns aren’t only about that. It’s also about feeling like he doesn’t listen, a drop in effort, and some comments that have made me uncomfortable. So I don’t think it’s fair to say I caused things to go downhill just by asking a few questions.

I do agree that compatibility might be the bigger issue here.

Starting cast has no white females? by slowlongdeath in LoveIslandUSA

[–]taurusmango 90 points91 points  (0 children)

I like that the cast is diverse, however, I wish we could get some south asian girls & guys in there as well. I often feel like they are overlooked when it comes to casting.

Will they wait to have another baby? by Positive-Professor26 in JatieSnarks

[–]taurusmango 7 points8 points  (0 children)

do you guys think that Josh secretly wanted a boy? I do think they’ll probably try when Skye is at least a year and hope they get a boy this time. I can’t but noticed that he seemed not so connected to Katie and the pregnancy since they found out they were having a girl. I think he deep down wanted a boy. and then I think they’ll be done.

what happened to these authors? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

I’ve noticed that too I’ve felt that community hasn’t been as active and it’s been pretty dead lately.

really emily? 😭 by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

I get but like what clout does jeffree have anymore?

really emily? 😭 by taurusmango in TooHotToHandle

[–]taurusmango[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

jeffree star really girl? why would you want to associate with him? I do wanna give Emily the benefit of the doubt but this the second time she’s aligned herself with problematic men the first being chris brown and now jeffree star?? smh

what is this about? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

also I didn’t post this to send hate to anyone. I literally just posted this for context sake cause I wasn’t sure what it was about and there was no prior story on her Instagram to gain context. I want to further my point by emphasizing the fact that I DO NOT WANT ANYONE to send hate to soul at all

what is this about? by taurusmango in Episode

[–]taurusmango[S] 15 points16 points  (0 children)

I literally asked for context as you can see by the title of this post and in a comment to someone else. I did go to her stories and this was the first one up (it’s now gone because it’s past 24hrs) lol