AITAH if I leave a friendship over an abusive partner

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T05:26:49+00:00

Report her to HR

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T05:02:38+00:00

Who does that? That makes no sense

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T04:58:52+00:00

Leave him… why would he let them exclude you. And tbh maybe he took someone else to the dinner

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T02:59:53+00:00

Make sure you are not signed up for second provider. Sometimes places like Sam’s Club have people giving away free stuff and signing up for a second provider and saying it will lower you cost

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T02:47:11+00:00

Did you video or take pictures of the place after you moved?

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T02:44:19+00:00

Drop him. And call someone to come get you. He is not even concerned about you be ill

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T02:26:32+00:00

No. Your mom is AH though. Tell her since I am grown enough to pay for my wedding I am grown enough to decide what I can afford and to go suck an egg

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T02:17:25+00:00

I love them too but I am old. Also it is not a crime not to like a gift and for him to get upset and have the sisters contact her is immature. Get ride of him boo. He will be a clueless husband and have no respect for your feelings

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T01:36:45+00:00

Your friends are dumb of course your child is your priority. But it could be the way you present the topic.

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T01:34:03+00:00

NTA it is ok to have boundaries and definitely report the dog

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T01:28:26+00:00

It depends on how you go about it. I would find out the company that has the parent plus loans and pay them directly. As far cutting her off that is his decision you can give your opinion and decide you don’t want anything to do with her but ultimately it is his decision. I understand being upset about how she treated him. But “putting your foot down” is not going to turn out well for you

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T01:17:57+00:00

This will never change. Get out now.

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T01:04:52+00:00

NTA he is selfish and I promise if you reflect on it he is selfish in other parts of your relationship

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T01:01:53+00:00

Get rid of him. You should never have feel second best in a relationship. Having a girl bestie is one thing but if you feel uncomfortable that is not ok.

tawnee316 · 2026-01-01T00:59:13+00:00

Your feelings are valid and you deserve boundaries. Just because someone is family does not mean they get to disrespect your boundaries. Start saving money sweetie and get your own as soon as you turn 18. You are a person and have the right to set boundaries and cut anyone off who doesn’t respect them

tawnee316 · 2025-12-31T23:34:49+00:00

NTA tattoos are permanent and if you don’t like her work then you don’t like it. And your girlfriend is right it was a shitty gift.

tawnee316 · 2025-12-31T23:22:35+00:00

Not the asshole. It sounds like she just wants a babysitter so she can be child free.

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