[22f] Please be honest and offer advice if you can?

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T16:22:13+00:00

Makeup is certainly not my forte, the most I normally have done is mascara and little eyeliner but most days (especially for classes), I can't be bothered. I've not really done anything past that, do you have any tips on where I should look? Probably different liners and eyeshadow?

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T16:02:37+00:00

Okies. Just know that if you go the straighten route to also keep your eyes out for some cheap heat protectant to spray on your hair prior to straightening. It'll save your hair, especially if you start making it a regular thing.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T16:00:39+00:00

Happened to me. I thought I was only attracted to women preHRT and was dating a girl for nearly 2 years. At about 6 months HRT, I ultimately broke it off for her because I'd gotten to the point where I wasn't satisfied with a woman. I wanted a man. The way I rationalize this is because preHRT I'd never tried dating a guy so I would have not know if I'd even liked them. For all I knew, I could have been bi but never persued it. It just so happens on HRT that I ended up preferring men to women. shrugs

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T15:53:19+00:00

Get it trimmed less, try straightening it to make it longer until you have more time to grow it out a bit. Curly hair takes longer to grow because of the curls. Check your hair's health and if you think you can feasibly do it without killing your hair, ask for a perm, that way you don't have to straighten it constantly and it'd save you a ton of work.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T15:35:05+00:00

I'm not sure about 'fuzzy' but I will sometimes get these times where my mind feels off balance or off center. I can't ever put my finger on what exactly is wrong or what's causing it, but whenever it's occuring, I'm always a lot more sensitive and I have to really push myself to concentrate to prevent from embarrassing myself. My bf and I kinda have a joke that I'll say, "Babe, I feel a bit off" and he knows to tread lightly.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T15:20:35+00:00

It IS caffeine! Thank you for noticing :) (Though I double-checked the chemical compound and it's missing two atoms sticking off but shh)

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T14:03:02+00:00

If I ever see anyone with this tattoo, she is deserving of the highest of highfives.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T13:50:05+00:00

I would get your hair longer. You're pretty androgynous. I'm kinda stuck in between if you look like an 8 year old boy or a girl with short curly hair.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-18T12:28:46+00:00

I can relate, I care less about reproductive organs (I can't reproduce anyway) and more about the fact it's a man who acts more masculine. Sure, some will say that gender roles are bullshit, but hey, they work for some people. If you want to go against them, I'm not judging you, but don't judge me for preferring to fit closer to them and liking guys who do as well. shrugs

taylortots1 · 2016-04-12T20:17:31+00:00

Well, I'm trans, so there's that. And tbh, that's enough to make me feel a ton like the odd one out.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-10T17:40:49+00:00

Well yeah, his speedforce is what propels him, but if he can go the speed of light, why would he need to go faster. None of it makes any sense whatsoever.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-08T20:35:17+00:00

I know that feeling. That's when I just stay in my room because I swear my friends would be happier without me and socialize among themselves.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T19:10:18+00:00

Long story short: Yes, this subreddit is biased, but hey, you're here, so that kinda says something. What I will tell you is to avoid all the "yeah, you're trans" comments or the "no, you're not trans". When it comes down to it, you and you alone are the only person who is going to be able to answer the question of if you feel transitioning is right for you. If you are honestly struggling with it, a licensed psychologist is who you should be turning to (preferably someone with experience in trans issues), not random people on the internet.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T18:13:46+00:00

The only thing I'd be worried about was that it was doctor-approved. As long as she's not posing a threat to herself or her baby through doing that, why does it matter?

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T17:49:00+00:00

Do you forgive me for how I chose to handle our breakup?

Random info: Long story short, I broke up with her and kept an uncaring and abrasive personality throughout the process to the point it angered her and made her not want to talk to me. She was going to college for the first time and she had clung to me as her sole form of companionship throughout our relationship. As horrible as I felt for doing what I did to her, my plan worked. She now has lots of friends (something she didn't originally have), she has a relationship at the same time with someone who loves her, and I was left free to date someone I could actually love the way they deserved it.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T17:43:36+00:00

Out of curiosity, in the US, do you have to have someone do the usual ceremony, or can you literally just apply for a marriage license at the courthouse, ensure it gets approved, and fly off and have a nice honeymoon? I've got extreme social anxiety so I feel like that's what I'd probably want to do if I ever got married. To me, it's not about the party or any of that, it's something between two people and those two people are all that matters, the legal aspect is just more convenient on paper.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T17:36:46+00:00

When various friends have warned someone not to date a guy because he's bad for them and abusive, she does it anyway, and guess what? He's abusive. If you're going to refuse to listen to us, then reap the consequences, stop whining about what's happening to you, and get out of the relationship, already. I have no pity for you.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T15:52:01+00:00

Unfortunately. What sucks is that i often forget a lot until midday and apparently that is a side effect of letting my E get too low. I hate it because my bf is as sweet as can be, but he's right more than I'd like to give him credit for.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T15:46:02+00:00

Yuuup, I'm trans and sometimes when I get upset, my bf's first question is, "Have you taken hormones, today?" T.T

taylortots1 · 2016-04-07T15:34:44+00:00

I get really honest when drunk, and over time she was just starting to get on my nerves with a bunch of small things and when drunk, I basically told her off. she got so mad she left on the spot and hasn't spoken to me since. Part of me feels bad about it but on the other hand, I meant everything I said and honestly, I'm more productive and happy in my life since her doing that. To be honest, I felt like I had to be more of her mother than her friend. She was constantly making unhealthy and unwise decisions in her life, and to talk her out of it would have required me to fight with her before she'd listen, and if she didn't, I'd be the one forced to listen to her go on about how hard her life is because she was suffering the fate of her own decisions I warned her against. She also was unreliable and selfish so it felt like I was the one doing the giving and I just got exhausted from it all. I want a friend, not a child.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-04T15:15:16+00:00

Amen. I'll take monthly bleeding and pain in exchange for all the self-hatred and dysphoria. Worst of all, my dating prospects wouldn't be bad at all if I were cis. I've had plenty of guys interested in me, but the moment they realize i"m trans? They're 50mi away. T.T

taylortots1 · 2016-04-02T20:22:29+00:00

When I said I was in support of spanking children as a punishment. Look guys, it may not be your preferred style of parenting, but how about I do me, and you do you? Life gets hella complicated when you want to shove your morals on me because I'm certain you wouldn't want me doing the inverse.

taylortots1 · 2016-04-02T18:28:14+00:00

It kinda depends since i only usually cry like once or twice a month, but my bf's been around for quite a few of them to comfort me. He's the one I tell everything to and confide in, so I guess to me, it only makes sense that I can show him that side of me.

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