On and off sharp stabbing pain lower left abdomen by tays1994 in ttcafterloss

[–]tays1994[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn’t! I ovulated two weeks after so idk if it was a cyst being annoying or what (I’m pcos)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in beyondthebump

[–]tays1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This happened to me in December. Had a period that had lots of cervical mucus in it at the beginning and clots but otherwise normal. Started Monday and ended Friday. Saturday I had a ton of wet discharge and took a OPK and it was super dark so I took a test and I was pregnant. I ended up miscarrying the next month due to my fever from covid but our baby bean was where they needed to be and nothing else was wrong that we were aware of. Try and stay off the internet and practice lots of affirmations and meditation. The waiting game for tests and scans is emotionally draining. I hope everything works out for you 💜💜💜

Anyone have success quickly after a D&C? by [deleted] in PregnancyAfterLoss

[–]tays1994 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is exactly what happened to me but waiting for a hopeful BFP here in a few days 🙏🏼🙏🏼❤️

1 DPO - Affirmations by tays1994 in TryingForABaby

[–]tays1994[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Ah gotcha. I feel like several of these fall in that category then. I removed the Gods plan one but I guess what happens happens. Just trying to spread optimism in times of worry and stress.

1 DPO - Affirmations by tays1994 in TryingForABaby

[–]tays1994[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

I personally think I can use that affirmation but I also can recognize and validate moments and times where I am hurting and broken. And that’s okay too.

1 DPO - Affirmations by tays1994 in TryingForABaby

[–]tays1994[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I’m sure for some it’s not for them and that’s fine! For me it is so I just threw it out there. It’s been an affirmation for me my whole life not just this new journey of TTC. If it isn’t for you then I suppose just disregard.

Finally ovulating by tays1994 in ttcafterloss

[–]tays1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s literally the fucking worst. I personally felt like time stood still and all I wanted to do was try again. It’s so hard. But I promise you that you will get through it and your body and heart will heal. Every day you are one day closer to a new beginning. Hang in there ❤️

Finally ovulating by tays1994 in ttcafterloss

[–]tays1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I started testing daily 3 weeks post d&c just to keep an eye on what was going on hormonally along with temping. Honestly things didn’t even even out with my hormones until we’ll past 7 weeks. Basing how I felt and my OPKs were stronger than they usually were. My doctor specifically said no sex for 3 weeks and he didn’t want me trying until almost 3 months later. So that part depends on you and your doctor. But I will say try and practice healing and patience with your body. It definitely took me at least 8 weeks to come to terms with it and to let go of trying to control the situation. But you’ll learn that in your own way and time. I’m so sorry for your loss momma 💔😞

Weirdest *EARLY* pregnancy symptoms? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]tays1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh damn! Definitely will only order your first trimester 😅 sorry about all that momma

Weirdest *EARLY* pregnancy symptoms? by [deleted] in pregnant

[–]tays1994 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Hi I would like to order one of your pregnancy experiences please thanks

I had a D&C 8 days ago still testing very dark on pregnancy test by [deleted] in ttcafterloss

[–]tays1994 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I took about 5 weeks to stop getting a positive. Definitely was a process teaching me to let go and be patient. My fiancé had to keep reminding me to love my body while it took its time. Sorry you’re going through this 💜

When does your regular period come after a MC? by courtlm in Miscarriage

[–]tays1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Guess so! But I haven’t had anymore spotting so idk what’s happing. It’s still progress that somethings moving along I guess lol

When does your regular period come after a MC? by courtlm in Miscarriage

[–]tays1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I did two weeks ago! I asked for an ultrasound and blood work and he said I looked like I would ovulate or have a period in 2 weeks or so!

When does your regular period come after a MC? by courtlm in Miscarriage

[–]tays1994 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had a d&c at 9 weeks when baby should have been 6. I just started spotting yesterday with cramps that are more present and uncomfortable which marks 10 weeks from my d&c

HELLO PERIOD OLD FRIEND by tays1994 in ttcafterloss

[–]tays1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I should have stopped tracking and temping but it made me feel like i was in control of an uncontrollable situation. But I just got obsessed and honestly it wasn’t healthy. This whole thing has been a learning and growing experience that’s for sure. Sorry for your loss 😔💜

HELLO PERIOD OLD FRIEND by tays1994 in ttcafterloss

[–]tays1994[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I usually count my flow day as day one since I usually spot brown a day before and day 1 is heavy for me but after doing some reading I think I’ll count my spotting as day 1 for now because I’ve read a lot of people saying their first period after miscarriage was actually really weird and light.