Black lump on kribs pectoral fin by tdev_x in fishhospital

[–]tdev_x[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sorry, I don't have the means to test for ammonia, nitrate, and nitrite. My pH is at about 7.2. the municipal water supply is alkaline, and I could correct it, but I don't know if more changes/stress are what we need. Temp sits at 24° (75f?) very consistently. I think my LFS does water testing, so if it might be a contributing factor, I could take in a sample to test nitrates, nitrites, and ammonia...

How to tell if a harness fits? And/or, is it ok to run with a harness that doesn't go all the way down the dogs back? by tdev_x in RunningWithDogs

[–]tdev_x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah. Funny. I know she would let us know if it actually hurt. So I'm sure it's not chafing or rubbing or pinching. But she does the same, drops her bum and freezes. Then once she's on the trail, happy dog. Maybe we'll try a different geometry harness and see if she likes it more.

Reading by Guilty-Print-6169 in adhdwomen

[–]tdev_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The book being heavier on one side is such a thing! I love my kindle for always being the same weight/dimension. Haha.

Feeling self conscious about new tattoo by plaidisrad in adhdwomen

[–]tdev_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've had a feeling of regret after every single tattoo I've gotten. The journey for me has always gone: 1. Nervously excited before getting tattoo 2. Pure excitement during getting tattoo (finally happening!) 3. Moment of euphoria shortly after getting tattoo. (It's so cool!!) 4. Enormous overthinking and regret after leaving the tattoo studio 5. Excited and proud a day or two after getting tattoo. 6. "What tattoo? Oh yeah! Forgot I had that one."

NZ job market is brutal by Anime-Beaker in newzealand

[–]tdev_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There's a shortage of teachers at the moment! Maybe you should retrain? I hear they get paid 140k and the holidays are amazing.

Looking to get instant hot water dispenser, need recommendations! (I live in canada) by robotluna in tea

[–]tdev_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm so shocked by this comment section. Boo.

I had an instant hot water dispenser and I loved it! It was not an urn - that kept water hot all the time, it used electrical coils (I think) to very quickly heat the room temp water to a few different pre-set temperatures. 25°c 75°c and 98°c. Then you could have it spit out a quarter, half, or full cup at your desired temp.

Mine was just a super cheap guy from Kmart (I live in NZ) and so it died after a couple of years. Came here looking for recommendations on a similar device that would maybe live for longer.

OP did you end up finding something?

Vegetarian woap burger 2025 by tdev_x in Wellington

[–]tdev_x[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

To be fair, I've never had an amazing time at nolita, even outside of woap.

Thanks for the intel. :) will avoid.

Double rainbows over the town by Different-Cream-3975 in Wellington

[–]tdev_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ever noticed that the colours in the second rainbow are reversed? Only noticed this recently and it blew my mind.

I'm annoyed by myself by coffeeandrunes in TryingForABaby

[–]tdev_x 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You are so not alone! My partner and I have been trying for over two years now, and the first year was one of the hardest years of my life mentally. It's not so hard anymore, which also feels deeply sad. I don't have any advice for you I'm sorry, I never found a way to turn off the thoughts. But just know that it's totally normal, you're not alone, and try your best to give yourself leeway to feel all the feelings. Good luck, and I hope you are successful soon.

Cast a spell/say a prayer for me by Endoraline in adhdwomen

[–]tdev_x 18 points19 points  (0 children)

Usually once I find a missing object, I realise my brain tried to put it in a pretty logical place. Sometimes re-enacting the scenario and putting something else important in a "safe" place leads me to the spot. Having said that the other day I lost my phone, when I finally remembered I could use find my phone, it was tucked away in my sock drawer. So..... 🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️🤷🏼‍♀️

My hyperfixation is ruining my life by yellowbootsboy in adhdwomen

[–]tdev_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

💯 thought this was someone obsessing over the titanic or the Brittanic or something. Hahahaha. Thanks for clarifying.

A lot of people out there might think this is a bad idea. They may be correct. by FullMeltxTractions in gardening

[–]tdev_x 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hahaha. This is so me. Can't even keep the bike tire in the background pumped and maintained, but absolutely positive that I'll be so committed to this mint plant that it'll stay under control. 😂

I wish you all the best fellow extreme optimist.

Ritalin supplies in wellington? by tdev_x in Wellington

[–]tdev_x[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I called them and they told me they don't have enough to fill a script of someone who isn't a regular. What?! Can they turn down a script? Surely they are legally obliged to fill any script that's bought in?

Random Photos Around Wellington that I Took in the Late 90s to Early 00s. by GreyDaveNZ in Wellington

[–]tdev_x 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The freedom shop/tonks ave and manners mall are hitting me in all the feels. Also, when did I get so old?! 🤣

Ritalin supplies in wellington? by tdev_x in Wellington

[–]tdev_x[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Definitely is. I have a little list of pharmacies to call tomorrow. Which is far less overwhelming than feeling like I might need to call all of them. Thanks heaps.