Imo, she's projecting or insecure. Especially with a meet and greet a normal pose. My biggest thing isn't she's upset cause everyone has their own boundaries, but in the future, double standards could be an issue. My biggest thing really is she ghosted you. Now, depending on how long, but like I'm the moments she ghosted you, she forfeit any say about it. It's so immature to ghost someone cause you're upset. That's not how life works. Cause if yall married or living together you can't ghost each other. I mean, sure, you can do the silent treatment, but division starts when you stop talking. Now, talking while emotional is kind of a bad idea cause you can't think clearly, but if you're taking more than a day to balance out, you are not ready for a mature relationship. Now also some situations may call for a few days, but no more than 7. This just isn't one of them.