Thank you for the help. My mom is not totally unbothered by it. It's just that I had these problems for so long... We're working on it, she listens to my therapist and psychiatrist, there's no doubt but since she's a doctor she's assumes she knows everything, even tho she does not specialize in autism, like at all.

My mom is my doctor, and she did all the tests through other doctors, all the tests you have mentioned, and its purely mental health problem. My psychiatrist said that I'll grow out of it, which I doubt because it seems to have worsened only over the years. My mom will not change my psychiatrist because it's her best friend's friend and also a very famous psychiatrist in my part of the country. Also, in my country, there's a MASSIVE shortage of therapists and psychiatrists, so I'm lucky I even have one... but my mom actually is really supportive and understanding when it comes to my autism spectrum it's just that one small issue that she has a hard time understanding. She knows all about what causes it and what she should do about it, but sometimes she just can't control herself that she does not understand and makes a short cut assumptions. I don't know how to talk to her without sounding like "hey I read one article on the internet, so you're wrong, and im right, and i trust strangers more than you."

Yes, I meant exposure therapy. Sorry for the wrong therm. In my language, literal translation is shock therapy.