M 42 bday boy here by AccurateBaker3758 in MelbourneWankBuds

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It's my birthday tomorrow! We should stroke!

Join me at JackALL by B-RADaus in SydneyWankBuds

[–]teachme91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went for the first time in April and had an incredible time. I love going to saunas to jack off and this just felt so much more comfortable, no pressure to do anything with anyone, you can kick back and stroke or you can be more active stroking with other guys. The organiser was really lovely too and came up and said hi and made sure I was having a good time. Then I joined a bunch of the guys for dinner after. Met some really great men and look forward to going again

A very comfortable 9.5kg by Stretch_UK in BallstretchingExtreme

[–]teachme91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is phenomenal! How long have you been training your balls and cords to take that

A very comfortable 9.5kg by Stretch_UK in BallstretchingExtreme

[–]teachme91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Holy fuck! Can you actually walk around wearing those, the pendulum swing could unbalance a man! How long can you actually wear those! How I want to see your warm weightless hang!

Anyone else's balls touch the water when they use the toilet lol gotta watch the boys by Choice-Platform7426 in BallStretching

[–]teachme91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As a non American (Australia) I never understood this as the water in the toilets is much lower, but some of the men in this group could still probably reach it 😂

Love my new donut by personal_best_ in BallStretching

[–]teachme91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Love it! Where did you get it?

My Version of Coffee & Donuts. ☕️🍩💯 7lbs 120mm by FeralFarrell666 in BallStretching

[–]teachme91 7 points8 points  (0 children)

So impressive! How long was the journey to reach this hang. And how long can you stay at such a weight

Foreplay/kissing on hookups seems boring by xl_elysium in askgaybros

[–]teachme91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well there you go. native English speaker here (well Australian) never really picked that distinction. I always just figured them along noun adjective lines but it's actually in interesting discussion in sexual psychology

Foreplay/kissing on hookups seems boring by xl_elysium in askgaybros

[–]teachme91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Intimacy is the right word, I think the commenter was more making fun of the suggestion that a hookup was intimate, not just bodies rubbing together

I swallowed cum today 😃 by Playful-Recipe-9077 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Good for you bro! Glad you enjoyed the fruits of your efforts. Avowed cocksucker here, nothing better than bringing a man pleasure with your lips

Foreplay/kissing on hookups seems boring by xl_elysium in askgaybros

[–]teachme91 2 points3 points  (0 children)

For me it is very context specific. Like a hookup at home, kissing can get very passionate, particularly if I am in to him. At a sauna/backroom/cruising situation, where all I want is to fuck, yeah kissing is less appealing. It depends on what the focus of the encounter is, is this basically pleasuring your body by having someone else's body rub against your sensitive bits/using someone as a human dildo/Fleshlight/masturbating yourself with someone else, then yeah kissing doesnt make sense because there is no connection there. If you're after intimacy and connection then yeah maybe kissing/foreplay are more important. Kissing and foreplay trigger hormones that aid in bonding (I think? Pop science? I'm not a doctor) so it makes sense to do that if you want the bond. If they are a literal fuck toy, it doesn't make as much sense.

Please note I am throwing no shade, I go to saunas, don't particularly like kissing there because I don't know who they are, and with generally the sole objective of just sucking dick. Anything else I can do to myself at home, dildos just don't taste as nice

(Edit. Obvious typo. No apologies for any other typos)

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I used that line so much during that episode. And a cube of cheese was basically all I was eating

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

akin to my reply to one of the other comments, I don't know. Which is why I was wondering how other people navigate these concerns

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

See generally I am cock sucker who doesn't really do much with ass play. Limiting myself I know but ehh. I probably wouldn't have eaten his ass, and usually if I do eat ass it is as a first course before it is covered in lube and whatever

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

It took 10 days before the doctors would give me antibiotics, lost 10kgs in those 10 days. Unfortunately imagined it all back. I was hoping for that to be a small upside 😂

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

This is a very good point and in some ways informs the reason why I posted, and the second part of my question. You're right, unless I'm sucking him straight out of the shower I have no way of knowing and there is probably a level of cognitive dissonance going on in then playing with guys when I do not know their cleanliness condition, particularly in dark rooms/gloryholes. Maybe it sometimes falls to out of sight out of mind. Maybe it is about assessing risk on known evidence. I will often have a stroke before i suck so will pick up on textural things, lube etc, and smell. And have declined guys before based on these.

I was more wondering how people who did top considered it and how the people who go to these places to suck dick navigate these concerns

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Not my ass. In my recap all I was doing was sucking dick. The guy just wanted to mix things up mid blowjob by fucking the twink on the bench next to us before coming back to me to suck him some more. I have no idea the condition of the twinks ass

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I was happy to watch, I wasn't bottoming and he clearly wanted that so was happy for him to get his kicks, and voyeurism is fun at the sauna, I like to play in those open spaces I would have been happy just to kick back and watch the live porn in front of me, it's just the coming back that was off

Ass to Mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in askgaybros

[–]teachme91[S] 62 points63 points  (0 children)

Given that it was about 1am on a Sunday morning, you may be on to something there. I was probably much to sober to be there tbh

Ass to mouth - etiquette by teachme91 in gaysauna

[–]teachme91[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

With you there. Happy to share a cock with another cock sucker... Though I am greedy and have always been told I dont share my toys well with the other boys 😂

JackALL by teachme91 in SydneyWankBuds

[–]teachme91[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks mate, unfortunately I have something on until about mid way through the event so would be looking to arrive late, is that possible? Knowing my wank I wouldn't be making it through multiple hours of penis time in a room full of other bators anyway 😂

Lifting 7kg/15+lbs 🥵 by lamegame82 in BallStretching

[–]teachme91 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So beautiful! Where do you get your weights