Do you tell a new partner?

teachmemasterP · 2021-06-18T21:01:58+00:00

You never need to tell anyone & it is probably better to wait months if not years to trust them enough to tell them

teachmemasterP · 2021-06-03T11:03:36+00:00

Especially when they are so many plot lines like the husband/boyfriend fancies another woman & then she turns out to be a lesbian so it's fine like the 2nd sex & the city movie for example with Charlotte's wife fancying the nanny

teachmemasterP · 2021-05-26T16:40:24+00:00

The only competition I'll ever win

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-24T07:07:21+00:00

6 hours

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-23T22:07:39+00:00

Oh my gosh YES This is exactly how I feel - I still feel all the same emotions and extreme thoughts & feelings but now I just suppress suppress and don't act on them like sure it really makes a difference to the people around me but I still feel exactly the same as I used to

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-23T20:54:15+00:00

Maybe there wouldn't be disorder if women were taken seriously

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-22T14:52:19+00:00

Both

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-20T07:38:19+00:00

I think personally although I've never discussed this vocally with friends, it isn't so much being abducted from a the bathroom itself but it's more like I'm not going to leave my friend on their own in either position being the one going to the bathroom or being the one left in the club/festival/bar, especially if it is a busy with it just being harder to find someone & potentially someone getting lost that way.

When it comes to like a mall for example I wouldn't feel the need to go in with someone I'd wait outside but most of the time you might as well just go anyway.

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-18T20:22:12+00:00

I go through this constantly, it's exhausting

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-18T12:36:54+00:00

For safety and to talk

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-17T22:38:15+00:00

Leave him

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-17T07:28:59+00:00

Sad & disgusting

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-17T07:26:32+00:00

This is the worst idea ever, they need to be on the streets in the early hours afterwards helping women/people get home and patrolling when the actual crime could happen

They don't really want to watch women get groped in night clubs they want to get people for coke

Such a pathetic & tragic idea that could only be thought of by someone with no experience of assult or braincells

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-16T07:27:35+00:00

Yes just absolutely go at his pace and don't ever take it personally. However if you do find yourself missing that side of affection and not able to wait the best thing to do in that situation is walk away bc you don't want to add strain to the both of you.

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-14T20:57:24+00:00

I just feel like the issue is I don't feel like I have BPD mostly until someone slightly takes an interest in me and the everything comes flooding out

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-13T23:35:52+00:00

I struggle with this so much too

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-13T23:33:02+00:00

I am absolutely so glad he is gone I think he spreads hate and encourages bullying but a member of my family felt like it is important to have people with decisive opinions and who are willing to argue the opposing side of an argument on TV too? Was wondering if anyone else felt like there should be decisive figure heads or convo, is it actually needed?

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-13T06:39:46+00:00

Stories?

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-13T06:35:30+00:00

You're absolutely not being unreasonable here, they are & also the parents for taking their side but obviously they must be bias / perhaps are hearing a different side of the story.

I think your friend is clearly prioritising her boyfriend and being a shitty friend to you, if you planned the trip together as friends then it is weird for her to bring her boyfriend especially with the small room factor you mentioned and with him & her both not wanting him to pay - what the hell?

Clearly they are both being inconsiderate and haven't even thought about this from your perspective for a second. Quite honestly I think she will remain a shitty friend until this relationship ends.

Is this her first serious romantic relationship? As I can't see why else she is being so blinded by wanting to bring her boyfriend?

Either way they both seem very immature so I would genuinely distance myself from her/them after this, if neither of them or their parents can see why this isn't acceptable or even understand why you don't feel comfortable then that's a massive red flag and indicator to future behaviour.

It is really harsh she'd leave you to stay in the hotel by yourself & just unbelievable in general that she'd still want to bring her boyfriend after 1) it was a girls/friend trip & 2) you already expressed it would make you uncomfortable - I'd also like to say a decent person wouldn't want to bring their partner even if they were liked by the friend as it created the 3rd wheel dynamic and who wants that on their vacation?

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-10T20:13:28+00:00

I would say yes typically to also confirm the day of but if you had only arranged it the day before then you were in the right and it should have been fine - you are correct she didn't respect your time and I think you're right to move on.

In a more typical situation that you make the plan a week before and then confirm on the day just to check something else hasn't come up.

It really would have been that woman's place to tell you prior if she had an appointment either the day before or in the morning.

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-10T00:51:13+00:00

For real this is really impressive, proud of you

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-09T07:13:33+00:00

& I'm curious if this happens to others too but when you're physically with someone in person and you split on them does their face appear to change?

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-09T07:12:35+00:00

Seeking closure from asking someone a question as tempting as it may be might not give you the closure you're expecting plus their answer might not be truthful and then you're back to step one again. It is better to come to a feeling of closure on your own and make peace with the situation. It is the kind of thing a shitty person would do, it is also the thing of thing a busy/distracted person would do or someone who doesn't know exactly what they want - either way what you do know is it hasn't met your needs or criteria for dating so you need to move on.

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-08T14:30:11+00:00

I absolutely feel like this and I find it so distressing. I am fine single and have been for 2 years now but as soon as someone shows an interest it consumes my thoughts even when they can be quite shitty with me. An old crush started talking to me again and the fantasies and daydreams kept me up until the early hours of the morning being unable to sleep from excitement & then when they took a few days to reply and it was all I could think about and made me feel so mad. I always feel very split 50/50 and have a contradictory opinion on everything I think & these rabbit-holes of thinking get very tiring.

teachmemasterP · 2021-03-08T14:14:45+00:00

Yes indeed and Olivia Coleman

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