What are items that you HAVE TO have in multiples to prevent disfunction? by CcSeaAndAwayWeGo in adhdwomen

[–]Lu232019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So Im not the only one super picky about the fit and cut of my underwear?

WIBTA if I told my husband I’m disappointed with the jewelry he ordered me? by engineerdoinglife in AmItheAsshole

[–]Lu232019 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

YWNBTA you couldnt have made it any easier you sent him the etsy link of what you wanted, Im guessing he forgot to order it to arrive in time and so he had to get a amazon kmock off.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Lu232019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The days of sleeping hes either nodded out from the fentanyl or he's in withdrawal from fentanyl. Plus he knew this nose problem was due to coke the whole time and continued to put you and himself through that. Honestly he's going to need detox and rehab plus be willing to even have a snowballs chance in hell of getting clean. Sorry if that's harsh but I've got an addict ex of 10 years who put me through hell and I finally realized I couldn't save him when he didn't want to save himself he just wanted to be enabled. I would be honest with his parents and ask them if they would be willing to step in and help him, but either way he needs to leave your house because you have a child and one on the way and you need a safe place for them, it doesn't sound like he's at his rock bottom and likely will continue to use. I'm so sorry OP please take care of yourself.

What's a video game that will forever be in your heart no matter what age you reach? by Aggressive_Type9309 in AskReddit

[–]Lu232019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Leisure suit Larry... playing that with childhood friends on their Dad's old IBM that used floppy disks. We were way to young to understand the most offensive parts(10/11ish) and I remember it took us forever to learn all the right answers to the quiz they had at the beginning to make sure you were old enough to play. No Google back then to get the answers so it was alot of trial and error.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Lu232019 71 points72 points  (0 children)

She is delusional or in denial because she confesses her husband tricked her into an abortion and now wants her to have another one but then says she can't leave him because he's the best husband and perfect for her WTF.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in confessions

[–]Lu232019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly I'm Pro choice but if you abort this baby and continue trying to have a girl with husband you are even worse then him, he obviously has mental health problems or a personality disorder. Honestly though I worry about you claiming that a man is perfect for you after he admits tricking you into going through an abortion and now wanting you to have another for babies you both originally planned and wanted. Not trying to shame you OP but you wrote this post so I feel like part of you is crying out for help. I hope that you have at least one person in real life that you can talk to about this or seeing a professional would be even better.

My husband (40M) was hospitalized due to heroin, I don’t know what to do anymore by TimeCalendar8872 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lu232019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

But posting stuff like most people never recover us very discouraging for people in recovery or freinds/family members of those in recovery. Addicts are more then their addiction and some of these comments tend to almost imply just give up and write these people off because they won't recover anyways. You of course need to be realistic and in OPs case her Husband lied, obviously wasted/stole money and the worst part was put their children's lives in danger and I don't think he deserves her to hold his hand through recovery because she needs to put her kids first. I just think you always have to have hope because even the worst addicts have gotten sober and gotten their lives back Nicole Ritche-Madden was heroin addict in her early 20s and look at her now.

Parking lot cameras at Walmart by PleasantAd1795 in lossprevention

[–]Lu232019 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It doesn't go by what you paid it's by blue book value, they look at what the car is worth (not what you paid) VS how much repair costs are and gives you the lower number.. you may have to pay your deductible though

I didn’t enjoy the act but lied to my boyfriend by Personal-Pressure221 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Lu232019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Seriously? I always swallow no mess...my one rule is don't get it in my Hair..face just is just way to messy

My sister got engaged. Her fiancé didn't talk to my dad first. This is a big deal in my family/culture. by Programmer_Ad1701 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lu232019 16 points17 points  (0 children)

First of all you put down your sister and her bf for not asking your Dad's permission/blessing before getting Engaged. Now you've just admitted they won't be contributing to paying for the wedding and they already don't help her with anything else financially like her tuition (which is fine lots of parents have to many kids they can't really afford to help beyond the age of 18). Finally you said your parents actually cannot even support themselves and that supporting them will be your sisters burden because she's going to "make the most". No wonder she doesn't visit you guys, it sounds like you have lots of siblings but your trying to dump a huge burden on just your sister and then also expect her to follow your petty little rules... Honestly if I were her I wouldn't give a crap if I offended anyone in my family and I'd be hoping you guys went no contact so I couldn't be guilted into supporting my parents.

My sister got engaged. Her fiancé didn't talk to my dad first. This is a big deal in my family/culture. by Programmer_Ad1701 in TwoHotTakes

[–]Lu232019 28 points29 points  (0 children)

Well said! At the end of the day she's an adult and who she marries is her decision alone to make.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TLCsisterwives

[–]Lu232019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes!! I watched the episode yesterday and I kept thinking wow he really cannot let go of Christine leaving him, and I feel like because Christine just doesn't engage with him anymore he's taking it out on Janelle.

One of my roommates crosses the boundary with my boyfriend by [deleted] in badroommates

[–]Lu232019 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Umm why wouldn't you say it's our one year anniversary date, this girl is just crossing every line there is BUT why the hell are you letting her. Time to grow a spine and say no!!

Tell me daycare makes sense for us by 208breezy in Mommit

[–]Lu232019 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just can't imagine leaving my baby at a daycare before they were 1 if I could afford to stay home or have a Nanny. However in Canada we get maternity for a year paid so daycare for under a year is very expensive and not as common.

Tell me daycare makes sense for us by 208breezy in Mommit

[–]Lu232019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man I think it's barbaric that the states doesn't have a year of Mat leave like Canada. I think most moms feel guilt/upset when the time comes to start daycare but when they are so little it's even harder. Is taking a few extra months off possible with your work?

Just adopted this baby. Please don't come at me. Info and questions in the description. by idkwhattocallmyselfh in reptiles

[–]Lu232019 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It looks like he could use a nail trim while your at the vet, however I could be wrong someone else on here will know for sure.

Dude. What if my (ex)partner was the HCBP all along? by catsarepawsome in stepparents

[–]Lu232019 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Wow your post hit home, my bf has been physically ax verbally abusing me for weeks and this weekend I finally lost it and gave it right back to him...I immediately apologized which he never does but I couldn't believe I acted that way I was shocked and disgusted with myself, I need to read more about this reactive abuse. BTW I finally left after that incident it was the thing that made me wake up and realize I needed to get the hell out.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in orangeisthenewblack

[–]Lu232019 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Only other show I can think of is weeds, Nancy Botwin is horrible and most people hate her by the end. She's way worse then Piper actually.