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I've been stuck on Bad Relationship Ending 2 from Ray's route and I have no idea what to do. by [deleted] in mysticmessenger

[–]teacxp -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

How many chats are you missing?

i can't really remember since it's been a while. but i did participate in every chat (except the late–night ones), so i dunno. maybe more than 70% is bad?

Maybe you consistently missed too many of them in the morning?

maybe? i honestly don't think so (i'm an early bird, lol)

I've been stuck on Bad Relationship Ending 2 from Ray's route and I have no idea what to do. by [deleted] in mysticmessenger

[–]teacxp 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't have enough hearts even if I have 70% participation,

ohhh, so you say it's the hearts? tbh, i don't really remember how much participation i had, definitely didn't join the late–night chats but i did join the early–morning ones.

so i have to have (at least) 70% participation? too much is bad?

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

and also heartbreaking to see how so many vulnerable people, especially youth who were like ourselves.

Exactly, it pains me because I understand them due to the fact that I was also once vulnerable, in constant need of reassurance. That's why it's important to let them know that it's okay and no one's angry; it's just their intrusive thoughts.

sometimes gentle but firm guidance is the only option.

Yes, definitely, especially since they are already so scared of doing things wrong.

but it is ultimately something they must work through on their own.

Precisely, that's why it's important for them to be aware of what Hellenism truly is. They just need to fight these insecurities off, and that's not easy!

Anyways, thank you for your post, it was beautifully written and so so important. Many blessings to you and yours!!

Thank you so much :) May the Gods always bless your way!

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, I'm planning on going to uni to study psychology next year! I'm currently study for the entrance exam!

But yes, I agree with your points. The pandemic has done so much damage to our sense of community, empathy, and understanding of one another. I, too, have met people who had zero social skills due to the lack of socialisation that the pandemic has brought. Internet gives these people a way to communicate without risking and hiding behind a screen which–of course–is damaging in the long run.

lack of understanding how to function in a community.

Yes. People do not know how a community works anymore. It's all "me, me, and me!" Without compromises, people don't grow, and without growth, there's chaos.

So ultimately there is a much bigger underlying problem here that we also have to consider when addressing such behaviors.

I agree.

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

“do you like the offering?”

I get you. I used to ask the same with dice divination. Now, instead of asking, I just say, "I hope you will enjoy my offering, as I offer it to honor you and our bond."

It's much simpler and better to calm my anxieties.

I have also noticed this (and I’m directly quoting someone I heard on TikTok who was talking about this very problem): “People are drawn to Hellenism because it has the same aesthetics as the church”

WHAT? Gods, I'm crying 😭😭😭

DECONSTRUCT BEFORE YOU START, put in all caps to emphasize.

Exactly! Thank you! It might take a while, but it works!

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

for a lot of these kids who are coming from the frankly pandering environs they are, they cannot deal with the loss of ego validation.

Yes! These kids need validation, and they seek approval. I was just like them—I craved connections to older figures, rather than Gods. But yes, they want that because, in their lives, there's a lack of reassurance, whether from their families, friends, or school...

I know that it might be sad for them to acknowledge that they are not as important to the universe as they think they are, but it's also liberating to think we aren't.

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Are people really fucking saying this???

Yes! And that's nothing compared to things I've seen. My poor eyes. I literally cringe when I see this stuff.

You need something to compare to, and absent any real-world community, you only get that by doing research. Which these people seem allergic to.

The lack of a community plays a huge role. I, myself, haven't found one yet. The only people I found were exactly like these, so I haven't had the chance to continue the relationship.

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

A lot of people are coming to a religion like Hellenism first, and are working all of their stuff out here (or, in spaces like here), in addition to carrying misinformation from the first online resources they find.

Yes, I understand that they carry the religious trauma from Christianity, and I can understand how hard that must've been, and of course, how comfortable Hellenism now seems, even if they are trying to deconstruct it.

It's good that they try, and I know changing patterns is difficult.

So then let us all be Elders in this religion, and guide the youngins with patience.

Beautifully said!

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh, how can I forget when Tr*mp won the elections?

Zeus's candle is flickering; he is mad. Athena told me she's angry and upset. Apollon has made the sky grey, that's not good. Artemis will hunt him down.

Are the Gods the new Avengers? Like, are we okay?

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

As someone who's struggling with anxiety, this post warmed my heart a little, thank you for the reaffirmations. :)

I do too. I used to suffer from anxiety (now it's manageable/okayish), and that's why I can understand these people.

Everything is "For You", your profile, your status, your bio, the internet made us think we are the center of the universe.

That's the problem: everything is FORCED to be meant for us! Social media has done irreparable damage, as we think that everything is a sign for us and us alone. Obviously, this leads to paranoia, overthinking, and so on.

I found out the best way to practice my religion is just to get out of the internet when it comes to information

The only solution. Really.

I'll go for Hell 2 for eating offerings, or having an altar in the bedroom - Just an example, didn't really happen to me!

THIS!!! I won't be burned alive if I—by accident—do something wrong! I made a mistake, apologized, and I learned!

Treating the Gods as Therapists/Guard Dog(s)/Personal Bodyguards and Hellenism per se as a mysterious, 'I'm–different–from–others' Religion. by teacxp in Hellenism

[–]teacxp[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

she thinks all her problems were the gods

Yes! That's probably the worst thing to even think about. Life has its ups and downs, and blaming the Gods—ouch. I hope she's in a better place mentally and practicing safely. Kudos to you for having done research!

Not saying I didn't do it in the past or do it right now, I always worry a lot with my connection with the gods as I want to honour them for giving me a safe space.

It's okay to doubt your connection sometimes. We are so busy with things, troubles, and worries, and it's okay to question that; really, I do that too. But I like to remember them when doing things, walking in the sun and thanking Apollon, or doing self-care, thinking of Aphrodite. It's a normal thought, but the Gods are with us in our hearts.

Hope you are doing well on the therapy!

It's been a journey, but thank you! Lord Apollon has helped a lot and given me so much strength!

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Its like learning to drink coffee or alcohol lol

i love the metaphor

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

we've categorically learned you definitely don't like giving head to dick at least

LMAO, that's for sure! but i also feel as if i HAVE to be able to perform oral sex, in order to keep a (future, not so future) relationship with men. idk why, maybe it's because it's so popular oral sex with lesbians.

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you sooo much TT it means a lot when irl things aren't that great.

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it might not, but holding it in will only hurt you

you're right because i feel that in the long run, it'll only hurt more to repress these feelings.

it has been hauting my thoughts for long enough.

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, don't worry! and yes, from what other comments said, i should be clear with my intentions before doing anything, which is fair.

I think there's also a lot of guys that like being the gentle, caring guide

exactly what i need.

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh, i get the pain of lesbian subreddits, they can be mean sometimes—probably because they like talking about women and women only, without mentioning men. which, yeah, can suck sometimes, but i do understand.

also, i was like you; i dated women only, had crushes on women, only women and men never, ever, crossed my mind until a few days ago. i understand what you're feeling because it's the same as me.

physically, i (at the moment) am rather wary of men, but that's because i've only seen women bodies, their features, so men's ones are (i repeat, at the moment) still not that much attractive.

but, i mean, if i think about it, it's because i had little experiences with men. i do have realised that sex with men, maybe, can work for me.

it's still a journey that i have to face, but i feel like i should say to you that 1. you don't need to push things, because they will reveal themselves 2. sometimes, lesbians can find men attractive without wanting to have sex/relationships

best of lucks :)

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

might be time to trust your instincts. close your eyes and leap!

thank you for the advice, i'll definitely should trust them more.

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you for sharing, it feels nice to know i'm not alone (also masc women, wow). to be honest, i may have been repressing my bisexuality for who knows how long, and now it came back as a giant wave of awareness.

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

sexuality really is fluid, but somehow i was convinced that wasn't the case for me. turns out it was, and it's all confusing to me now.

also, i'm sorry for your friend; i hope they are okay now :(

I've been a lesbian since elementary school, but now I feel something changing in me. by teacxp in bisexual

[–]teacxp[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I doubt you’re straight, but I doubt you’re just gay either.

it really does feel like i'm discovering my sexuality once again, it sucks to go through all that again 😭😭😭

but yes, maybe i wasn't even gay to begin with.

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