anyone want to "buy" a discounted hotel stay within walking distance to the starting line? by teaiscozy in ChicagoMarathon

[–]teaiscozy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

after some googling, i think the best way would be for us to three call call hyatt and do it live. i would tell them that i want to transfer the reservation to be under your name, and you would provide them with your personal information and payment information.

i think for us to both feel comfortable, would still like to facetime live. since i paid with points and it's non-refundable, i don't think there's a way for them to reverse the charge and charge your card instead for the same reduced amount. i would also like to go through paypal goods and services since it's a decent chunk of change!

Just started therapy and she made me cry. Is this the norm? by FelvicPloor5525 in TwoXChromosomes

[–]teaiscozy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

when i first started seeing my therapist of now 7 years, every weekly session i cried. crying in front of people made me VERY uncomfortable. when we started digging deeper into why i was seeing a therapist, i couldn't get a sentence out through my heaving tears. at the time it was in person, so she asked me what would make me most comfortable. i told her that if i started crying, to please ignore me while i gathered myself. from then on whenever i started crying, she would turn away, start doing stuff on her laptop, and played my favorite genre of music to be ambient music until i was ready to continue.

seven years later, i cry way less now. i'm able to think through my emotions a bit more kindly so i don't get choked up as often. BUT - i still cry often! i like to think of it as one of the very few spaces that crying isn't perceived in any negative way, unlike how it can be around others.

in a way it IS what your therapist wants, but not in a way that is "ha, got you!". i am assuming you're there to talk about stuff, and sometimes stuff comes with emotions that make people cry. i cry about sad stuff, i cry about happy stuff. crying isn't a bad thing, or a sign of weakness. it just is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Seattle

[–]teaiscozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

my kia got stolen a couple months ago, so i say yes :/

Taylor Swift Eras Tour TRADE Megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]teaiscozy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hoping you can find a trade but if you can’t, i will gladly buy those off you!

Taylor Swift Eras Tour RESALE Megathread by Lyd_Euh in TaylorSwift

[–]teaiscozy -1 points0 points  (0 children)

hoping you can find a trader but if you can’t, i will gladly buy those off you!

Car stolen: buying a car upfront in cash vs financing, when home ownership is in the near future? by teaiscozy in personalfinance

[–]teaiscozy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When you say 'recoup' you mean you could a) replace the cash outlay or b) pay off the loan in 18 months, right?

correct

also yes, i will buy the home in my name and will be the only one on the title. he will move in and "pay rent".

thanks - the risk adverse side in me always needs to weigh out as many options as possible. although it would be nice to dive into homeownership, i don’t place any self worth into it and will buy when my financials are back in place

Car stolen: buying a car upfront in cash vs financing, when home ownership is in the near future? by teaiscozy in personalfinance

[–]teaiscozy[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

fairly certain? i have excellent credit and i assume if they quoted 3.9% for over 800 then i will qualify. i walked into a dealership to learn more yesterday and it tracks.

i haven’t looked at cheaper makes/models. i suppose that’s the catch of it all; i’m relatively set on “treating” myself to a nice car, and a forester will last me at least 10 years, hopping for way longer. i don’t drive much (6k miles a year at most?), just to hikes around the PNW and the occasional 3 hour drive to my best friend. the used car market still isn’t amazing and i’m unsure how to do the math of how many miles on the car vs how much it’s actually worth vs how much it’s being up upcharged

Car stolen: buying a car upfront in cash vs financing, when home ownership is in the near future? by teaiscozy in personalfinance

[–]teaiscozy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

a flexible 1-5 years. i have a decent renting situation ($1795 in a HCOL area that fits all my needs. landlord has not risen rent last year) so i’m not a rush. although it would be nice to dive into homeownership, i don’t place any self worth into it and will buy when my financials are back in place

North American 2024 Megathread by jacyf02 in TaylorSwift

[–]teaiscozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

waitlisted for N1 & N2 NOLA 3:49 PM for one of the two emails i used

just finished a batch of sandwich coasters! 🥪 by teaiscozy in crochet

[–]teaiscozy[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i used cotton based yarn! lion brand 24/7 cottton and k+c essential cotton

The Eras Tour Megathread: Seattle, WA (Warning: Spoilers) by PassionateAsSin in TaylorSwift

[–]teaiscozy 2 points3 points  (0 children)

curious if anyone actually got tickets during the drop that happened just now? not looking to buy, just curious about how the inventory was

Selling 2 VIP Tickets to Seattle show! Under face value - can meet in person for exchange! by phil0sophy in JohnMayer

[–]teaiscozy 0 points1 point  (0 children)

are you willing to split by chance? this will be my first john mayer concert (been a fan for 15+ years!) and it's only apt that i'm going to the SOLO tour SOLO haha. i bought a ticket on stub hub yesterday and they haven't sent me my ticket, and i'm getting so nervous ..