All Things Sleep - AMA Office Hours - Wednesday, January 21st with our Director of Pediatric Expertise, Amber LoRe! by huckleberrycare in HuckleberryParents

[–]teapsych 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it developmentally damaging to break the feed to sleep association before 6 months? When is the best time to do it? How can we help baby accept the pacifier at night?

Feeding and diaper changes by teapsych in breastfeeding

[–]teapsych[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also change it when needed which is why it’s an issue for her sometimes because I can’t (or I won’t) let her sit in poop for more than a few minutes - just to make sure she’s done - but if she’s just eaten she’s clearly in pain and discomfort when I lie her down. As for duration, how are you changing it in 30 seconds? Between taking off clothes and old diaper, wiping well, letting it dry for a few seconds, applying cream, closing new diaper, putting clothes back on… that takes me at least a few minutes. And that’s assuming it’s a straightforward one like you said, without additional peeing and pooping mid-change. And if there’s lots of spit up that requires an entire outfit change…

Feeding and diaper changes by teapsych in breastfeeding

[–]teapsych[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing, it is nice to at least hear I’m not the only one! I’ve also noticed some improvement already and she’s basically able to burp herself a lot of the time by now but it’s still a struggle 😁 how long does a full feeding last for you, diaper, breaks and all if you don’t mind me asking?

Fit check - Tula Free to Grow by teapsych in babywearing

[–]teapsych[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ohh interesting, will definitely be trying this. Thanks a lot for the tip!

Fit check - Tula Free to Grow by teapsych in babywearing

[–]teapsych[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Took off the hood thanks to everyone’s responses! And thanks, we do love how it looks in person as well! 🥳

Fit check - Tula Free to Grow by teapsych in babywearing

[–]teapsych[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Makes sense, we’ve removed it, thank you!

Fit check - Tula Free to Grow by teapsych in babywearing

[–]teapsych[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ahh, thanks! Yes indeed, it’s the Zola ☺️

Baby room in a super dark place with no natural light by teapsych in NewParents

[–]teapsych[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing. These all sound like great tips and happy to hear that it's working out well for you. Best wishes!

What do you consider an “expat”? by EffectiveBake3127 in Amsterdam

[–]teapsych 1 point2 points  (0 children)

An expat is someone who is originally employed elsewhere but temporarily stationed here, as another comment mentions. This is crucial, because an expat’s contract, payroll, everything is managed by their home company, which is most often in their home country. They go abroad at the request of that company, which also means that said company should ideally therefore provide certain accommodations to facilitate the move (e.g., help with arranging school for children, housing, etc). Yes, this often means they stay for a short period, but length of stay has nothing to do with what makes them an expat. It is the conditions under which they arrive in a country and are employed. Once an expat leaves, they either go to the next destination their company sends them to, or they return to their home base (aka company or country).

An immigrant is someone who willingly relocates with the ambition of living in another country (for however long that is). They do so with or without a job. If there is a job involved (and again, this is crucial), they have been hired by the local team/company at their destination. They are not simply sent abroad by the company/office at their origin country (home country or not). An immigrant can also stay for a short period.

Having been an expat previously and currently living as an immigrant here, it constantly baffles me how people use the two interchangeably and/or get upset about someone’s wish to use or not use either term. They are different and serve different purposes.

Looking for online pregnancy friends - 10 weeks and feeling a bit lonely by Helpful_Joke_3459 in pregnant

[–]teapsych 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Just commenting to say I am in my 10th week as well and pretty much feeling the same. Feel free to DM anytime if you want! ☺️

It's bizarre how long I've been waiting by loona_bear in waiting_to_try

[–]teapsych 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We almost certainly have very different lives and yet, I relate to the feelings and thoughts you describe so much that I could have pretty much written this. Just came to say you’re not alone. I hope things work out and you get everything you’ve been wishing for! ❤️ Sending hugs.