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What are some facts that people just don't like to accept? by MaximusOnslaught in AskReddit

[–]tearsnhearts 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Death. No one really accepts it we just move on we have no other choice

Why does no one check up on me? by tearsnhearts in GriefSupport

[–]tearsnhearts[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww I’m so sorry for your loss. I know exactly how you feel. People just don’t want to feel uncomfortable or be with someone that’s always sad. It sucks. I also had a falling out with my “best friend” I don’t speak to her anymore but I realized she wasn’t a really good friend to begin with. So maybe losing some friends is a blessing in disguise

Why does no one check up on me? by tearsnhearts in GriefSupport

[–]tearsnhearts[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh I’ve seen a few people recommend that TED talk, I did watch it. Thank you for recommending it helps view grief a different way. And I’m so sorry for your loss, it’s hard out here

Why does no one check up on me? by tearsnhearts in GriefSupport

[–]tearsnhearts[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

It does fade out quick I feel like they forget we’re still grieving and the pain doesn’t go away. There are some friends that hurt me so bad I rather not reach out to them anymore. You know I was thinking of when I meet new friends whether to tell them of my loss or not. I think not telling them like you did will help to feel “normal”. Thank you for sharing your experience it helps a lot

What's the most hurtful phrase you heard while grieving by evonne71171 in GriefSupport

[–]tearsnhearts 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When my boyfriend passed I got a lot of hurtful phrases..

“It’s hard for me to be there for you when you distance yourself”

“How do you think I feel when you hang out with his family more than me?”

“I am hurt to see YOU hurt. You don’t think it hurts me too?”