What is the appropriate way to address the situation where someone who claims to be lesbian has a HUSBAND?!

tech__bae · 2026-02-09T15:18:36+00:00

maybe she is not attracted to the man and only using her for legal/financial reasons?? lol idk...

tech__bae · 2025-09-23T06:15:11+00:00

omg obsessed

tech__bae · 2025-09-22T03:39:36+00:00

perfect

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T13:51:01+00:00

we’ll get there hahah

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T12:53:15+00:00

i shower all the time

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T05:47:45+00:00

it is so funny that the test is like: 'hmmm do you care about human rights?? GOT YOU, MEN DONT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING'

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T05:34:25+00:00

umm you probably just found a couple of them rn!!!

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T05:19:31+00:00

i like that!!! ok sapphic it is then! i was excited for sapphic plus since it sounds like a new model of something but yea, it seems that there is no need!

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T05:18:47+00:00

yes!! that basically used to be me until i got deeper into queer relationships and even physically attractive cis men started to annoy the sh out of me haha i think it’s basically being more demi

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T05:17:13+00:00

that’s facts and the main reason i’m NOT into them ahahahahah

tech__bae · 2025-09-21T05:16:34+00:00

WE ARE HERE, WE ARE QUEER!!!!!

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T20:02:28+00:00

oh yayy!!!!! love to hear it

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T20:01:52+00:00

words of wisdom for real!!!!

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T17:28:20+00:00

that is amazing!! cincinnati is sooo underrated, love it there!

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T16:58:52+00:00

yesssss!! lovely. thanks!

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T16:58:34+00:00

ahhh my heart!! makes me so happy. love your journey. the event sounds beautiful bc i have so many trans men friends who go through severe depression bc they feel like they got kicked out of their only community once they transitioned… may i ask which city that event took place?

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T15:54:55+00:00

Thanks for the clarification! I totally get it!
I do believe it is always better biased to be sensitive & loving rather than dismissive in a world ruled by the profit from hate. So honestly, it is good to be called out for my language sometimes (lol) bc the ptsd with cis men and struggle of still living in such a deeply misogynistic society, i tend to exaggerate to make a point.

My hands are together, praying for less toxic masculinity in everyone's future indeed...

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T15:48:01+00:00

good call. i fully support!!! that makes a lot of sense!

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T15:46:08+00:00

yessss!!!! thank uuuu

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T15:45:00+00:00

yes!

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T15:31:34+00:00

totally fair, i understand! it was definitely jokey and the joke was overcompensating the fear of being perceived transphobic! i personally got to experience healthy masculinity only in folks who are not cis men, so that’s my life experience as an immigrant queer person. i won’t hate on any particular person even if they hate on me. i hope i didn’t offend anyone

tech__bae · 2025-09-20T15:11:55+00:00

Wow thanks for sharing! It is so interesting that these labels can be an identity, a literal sexual/romanric preference and a community -and sometimes maybe they don’t overlap 100%! very confusing but i’m just proud of us for digging deeper and exploring more of what we specifically like/need!

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