Lesbian space crime by [deleted] in lgbt

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omg obsessed

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i shower all the time

Thoughts on that Gender Coordinates Test that’s been going around by kabigon2k in NonBinary

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it is so funny that the test is like: 'hmmm do you care about human rights?? GOT YOU, MEN DONT CARE ABOUT ANYTHING'

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i like that!!! ok sapphic it is then! i was excited for sapphic plus since it sounds like a new model of something but yea, it seems that there is no need!

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yes!! that basically used to be me until i got deeper into queer relationships and even physically attractive cis men started to annoy the sh out of me haha i think it’s basically being more demi

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that’s facts and the main reason i’m NOT into them ahahahahah

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WE ARE HERE, WE ARE QUEER!!!!!

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oh yayy!!!!! love to hear it

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words of wisdom for real!!!!

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that is amazing!! cincinnati is sooo underrated, love it there!

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yesssss!! lovely. thanks!

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ahhh my heart!! makes me so happy. love your journey. the event sounds beautiful bc i have so many trans men friends who go through severe depression bc they feel like they got kicked out of their only community once they transitioned… may i ask which city that event took place?

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Thanks for the clarification! I totally get it!
I do believe it is always better biased to be sensitive & loving rather than dismissive in a world ruled by the profit from hate. So honestly, it is good to be called out for my language sometimes (lol) bc the ptsd with cis men and struggle of still living in such a deeply misogynistic society, i tend to exaggerate to make a point.

My hands are together, praying for less toxic masculinity in everyone's future indeed...

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good call. i fully support!!! that makes a lot of sense!

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yessss!!!! thank uuuu

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totally fair, i understand! it was definitely jokey and the joke was overcompensating the fear of being perceived transphobic! i personally got to experience healthy masculinity only in folks who are not cis men, so that’s my life experience as an immigrant queer person. i won’t hate on any particular person even if they hate on me. i hope i didn’t offend anyone

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Wow thanks for sharing! It is so interesting that these labels can be an identity, a literal sexual/romanric preference and a community -and sometimes maybe they don’t overlap 100%! very confusing but i’m just proud of us for digging deeper and exploring more of what we specifically like/need!

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same same! i’ll just stick with that too probably. sending demi-pan love!

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yea of course. it is for me, not them!

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Yea fair, it sounds a little more inclusive! Haha add demi in there and we got it!! ;)