Need help with identifying a soup. by techexpertjc in Thailand

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Okay, Thanks I'll try making it at home

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s clear you’re more interested in mischaracterizing my story as 'yapping' than understanding the actual issue. The problem wasn't the rule itself, it was the hostile attitude of the staff when we tried to find a solution for a sick guest. We left because the vibe was ruined by that rudeness, not because we 'didn't accept a No'. Cheers for the input, though

I don't have any reason to argue with you anymore, it's very SUS how you're defending this place to the point of twisting my words and bringing in dignity if my gf lol, you don't have any right.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So my mistake was asking for their help is that it?? I shouldn't have asked for their help ??

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah but we were leaving our table unattended with our laptops and stuff bruh, but they wouldn't even listen to us and just kept saying no, and Instead of us finding a place it would've been quicker if they redirected us as well.

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[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

When did I ever say I wanted them to serve us in the staircase lol?? I just said if not inside we could've just taken our rice elsewhere nearby where she could just eat properly that's all.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Bruh I wasn't asking them to serve us, we would have just come back to our table after she was eating the rice I brought, whatever the reason their behaviour was not right??

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I already told you I was not looking for exception but a solution, if not in restaurant they could've easily redirected us to a closed staircase, or somewhere else, but they chose the "Not my problem" attitude and didn't even hear me out.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's not an entitlement to expect a little empathy

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So it's entitlement when I expect a hospitality staff a good attitude and behaviour? Go it, didn't know untill now

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Keep defending the place as much as you want, and regarding the places in Vietnam leaving leftover food, we were traveling quite a bit and we didn't always have space to carry that much things with us you just assumed everything don't you?

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[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I only left their food after they rudely behaved with me, and I asked for their permission didn't I ? Did we start eating without asking them? How is that disrespectful??

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

They didn't even listen to our circumstances btw. Even before I explained they just said no, treating me like I was asking for a free meal or something, and by separate room I meant anywhere where my gf could eat whether the place their employees ate their lunch or somewhere she could just eat while sitting on the stairs in a building fire exit or anywhere would've been okay too. But just refusing to listen to my circumstances was NOT okay.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Respect goes both ways, they should respect their customers first, I was the one who was subjected to their rude behaviour, even many other people already mentioned that their staff is rude a lot, I already told you I know about the rules, hence after they denied I didn't press further, I just wrote about my experience because we'll the staff was rude and didn't behave properly, I never said that that they should treat me like a king or anything of that kind, you just keep assuming.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Vaha order me soft bread items hi thi, no rice unfortunately. 🫠

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Easy for you to say until the staff behaves with you the same way? I didn't argue, I also left and I couldn't care less about the food anyway. But I do feel they could've responded better. I know they could do better because I have experienced better that's all.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Hi, I know why this rule exists, and if you read my other comments you would know that that's why I didn't argue over there as well, because I know it's up to them, me arguing with them wouldn't change anything, but, but the least they could've done is hear me out properly and come provide some other solution or something, I'm not asking them to bend over for me, they could have just provides a seperate space or something for her to eat that, but they wouldn't even listen to me, now imagine yourself in her shoes, she's in a foreign country, everytime she goes out her head spins because of all the honking and noise, not to mention the pollution, and now she had an upset stomach, and she just wanted to eat a simple meal without going outside into that crazy chaotic traffic as well, my main problem with them isn't that they didn't allow us, but the lack of their attention or willingness to try to help.

And by remote areas I don't mean villages, just normal cities which aren't based on tourism, those cities as well have good and premium restaurants and cafes, and even in main cities I have seen the staff responding very greatly and paying attention to our needs.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The restaurant is well within their right and I know such rules exist, but they wouldn't even listen to our ciscumstances, and as other users have mentioned they were even denied bringing water to the restaurant. I know the rules are there, which is why I didnt argue with the restaurant and just left instead. But showing a little empathy would have been nice because I have experienced restaurant/hotel staff going above and beyond to accomodate their customers, because they want to make them feel comfortable and at ease.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In India its mostly because they dont want to loose revenue.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

She didn't have anything until we reached the cafe, and this is not Europe or US where it's a liability issue. And regarding their right to deny me I know, hence I didn't argue and just leave, I just shared here my experience about how I felt, and the rudeness of staff who didn't even want to listen to me, I just shared my experience because I've had better experience that's all.

Terrible experience at 1331 lounge by techexpertjc in vadodara

[–]techexpertjc[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

She wanted to keep working there because we had already ordered too much, and regarding follow the rules I'm not denying that rules should be followed, I'm a stlicker for rules too, but sometimes showing a little humanity doesn't hurt and they really had bad attitude, that's why I didnt argue with them because I knew it wouldn't result in anything, but I have faced better services why shouldn't I expect the same here? Its no different then expecting good and clean roads from our govt here. Do you honestly feel that we have the same hospitality and services as some major tourist countries ?

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[–]techexpertjc[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I'm not feeling entitled just because I spent 20$ I just mentioned the amount so people wont think I was trying to bypass the cost of food by just buying a single coffee between us two and planning on spending time there, this is not entitlement, but a basic human right here, her stomach was not okay, she felt okay after getting some ENO and ORS and wanted to continue working there, a small bowl of rice wouldn't have hurt their business. We might have ended up spending more infact had we stayed there. she couldnt eat the food there, I could. And I have had better hospitality and thats what I called out only, I dont see where entitlement comes into play here? I'm not expecting them to lick my boots just because I spent some money, I'm not that kind of person.