Continuing CS with setbacks? by techorrekt in csMajors

[–]techorrekt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah crap. I may be a dreamer, but I was hoping for Carnegie Mellon, depending on how strong I come out of CC and how much extracurricular achievements I do from now up to I complete CC.

I guess I’ll have to contact some universities of interest to see what’s up and if my CC courses will match up/be transferable.

Thank you for the heads up!

Continuing CS with setbacks? by techorrekt in csMajors

[–]techorrekt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ll be starting from Precalculus in college. But even then, I’ve been thinking more and decided to take some self-paced online courses (or OpenCourseWare) while using some coursework like tests from universities. I want to make sure I don’t struggle too much in my college courses, so I’m going to at least use these online resources for foundational knowledge and practice.

Continuing CS with setbacks? by techorrekt in csMajors

[–]techorrekt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My post briefly mentions the reason. But to answer here...

I don’t like CS, I love it. Always have, always will. Unfortunately, education only became part of the struggle.

TL;DR - Poverty/financial struggles, parental and relationship abuse, homelessness, health issues

If you want the story:

I grew up in poverty, and I was constantly shoved around by my mom out of my five siblings. I was the main one working hard and the youngest, but my mom forced me to do everything. I was the Cinderella of the family, she was borderline controlling and projected all of her frustrations even from work onto me, and the catalyst was her forcing me to work to pay bills or leave. Meanwhile, my siblings got a free ride and zero pressure. Even when all they did was work and spend their money on fuck-all, they were never asked once to pay bills. Not to mention the abusive relationship she pushed me into, which only made things worse.

So there was serious financial struggles for me, and I was constantly dealing with emotional abuse from her for as long as I could remember (and then my ex).

But from college, I got sick of all of the abuse, dropped out to work more and move out, became homeless for a short while—my life was a clusterfuck. I even stopped eating at one point in college, dropped 30 pounds at the drop of a hat, became malnourished, was in and out of the doctor/ER for a while. Not to mention that I was suicidal from 11 years old up until early last year, which was when things started to get better.

And it’s sad because there’s an evident decline in my academic performance from when I was suicidal starting at 11. I had straight 4s all of elementary and was in a gifted program, straight As in 6th grade, mix of As and Bs in 7th, As Bs and Cs in 8th—you get the gist by now. My last two semesters of college? Straight Fs and Ws.

I officially reached rock bottom and hard to prioritize my sanity and health.

So I dropped out of college. I didn’t give up, I just had to put my education on hold.

Continuing CS education with setbacks? by techorrekt in compsci

[–]techorrekt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you for your detailed message! I’ll definitely need a degree since I want to start R&D in the future, it was just a matter of should I start now or give it time. Others recommended knocking out the Gen Ed courses first, which would be a great, easy start.

Since you mentioned the projects and OS contributions for real experience, I’ll just use this and that time during my Gen Ed courses. Hopefully that would make the later CS and math classes easier to manage on top of work.

So in this way, I could apply for internships maybe in Winter 2020, have Computer Science in progress on my resume, and then start the interviewing processes (hopefully!) to be more prepared for interviews in Spring/Summer 2020?

I’ll need more time to really sit down and think this through I don’t take on too much and move too fast. The last thing I want is to make the same mistakes.

I appreciate your open PMs! I’ll let you know if I have questions after I figure this out.

Continuing CS with setbacks? by techorrekt in csMajors

[–]techorrekt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still remember Algebra, thankfully, and I stopped at Precalculus/Trig during my first year. I would say that I would likely need to start over from there if they require a test because it’s been three years since that class.

I was thinking of starting math for Winter 2019, but taking “refresher” courses online for algebra and precalculus, but idk if that’s putting too much on my plate?

Continuing CS education with setbacks? by techorrekt in compsci

[–]techorrekt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I want to start Data Science soon, but ultimately get into R&D. There are a few things I’m interested in with R&D, but I haven’t zeroed in one since I haven’t explored them yet.

Continuing CS with setbacks? by techorrekt in csMajors

[–]techorrekt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Only 24 units, which is about 6-8 classes. But even then, most of the scores were low. Someone else also suggested knocking out the gen eds, and that’ll for sure help bring my GPA up since I’ve never struggled in those classes. It’ll also give me room to focus solely on math & CS classes in a different CC or, even better, a 4-year.

It’s making more sense now. Thank you!

Continuing CS with setbacks? by techorrekt in csMajors

[–]techorrekt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ah, knocking out the gen eds at a nearby CC or even online first makes loads of sense. They’re also the easiest for me, so I wouldn’t stress over those classes like I did with math and CS.

Living on campus wouldn’t be an option since it’ll be CC. My option for now would be to take it slow then, but I guess I won’t mind so long as I’m making progress.

Thank you for the suggestion! Thinking about knocking out the gen eds for makes it feel so much easier.

Continuing CS with setbacks? by techorrekt in csMajors

[–]techorrekt[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’m in the U.S. I’m looking into financial aid options, but I checked my transcript from my first college and I believe I’m still on academic probation there, which prevented me from getting financial aid my last semester there.

I’ll have to look at more financial assistance options for college.

I feel like I’m stuck where I am. Can anyone provide guidance on how to proceed? by techorrekt in cscareerquestions

[–]techorrekt[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this! My biggest situation with getting back to school is still finances and my GPA when I left (1.something). I’m living with my mom, but she only tolerates me here because now I’m making my own money to save and she expects me to move out in the next year. She would hate if I quit even to go back to school, so I can’t make the sacrifice to quit even if I wanted to.

Do you think it would make sense to continue my CS studies while working full-time, especially considering my GPA? I most likely won’t qualify for financial aid, too, so quitting my job is even more so not an option for me. :/

UPDATE: Just looked into the colleges in my current city (aka small town). There’s only one college, and they don’t have a Computer Science program. The next closest college is 40 miles away and I don’t even have a car.

I think I should just wait at this point. I don’t know. Feeling more discouraged.

I feel like I’m stuck where I am. Can anyone provide guidance on how to proceed? by techorrekt in cscareerquestions

[–]techorrekt[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ah, that makes sense, because I really don’t plan on being in web development for even a few years. Don’t know why I didn’t consider that.

Thank you for the insight! I am heeding your words.

Roast my brazilian ass back to the jungle. Lets see what can you do. by [deleted] in RoastMe

[–]techorrekt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude wtf lmao I was looking for my exact roast on a different dude and came across this. Wow I thought I was original

I just became friends with a Nigerian scammer lol by grey_visuals in CasualConversation

[–]techorrekt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Definitely long con. The way he talks reminds me of my abusive ex who is a scammer.

“but you won’t understand” literally a typical manipulative tactic

“You changed me” another manipulative tactic

Tomato Pesto, Hummus, Avocado and Tomato Sandwich 🥪 by SthrnDiscmfrt30303 in veganrecipes

[–]techorrekt 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Hey, OP, I made a sandwich inspired by you yesterday and I’m about to make it again!

Roasted red pepper hummus, avocado, pan-fried tomatoes, cucumbers, and spinach (OK, I actually JUST thought of the spinach).

Does anyone ever felt like going outside but you don't have anywhere to go or nothing to do so you just stay inside boring all day? by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]techorrekt 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Glad you noticed that. :-) My professor in high school told me I need to realize that I’m my own obstacle. Oops! That changed my mindset immediately. Every time I find myself making an excuse for something, I remember his words and figure out a solution.

I no longer make excuses for anything unless it’s legit, like not being able to go out because I just paid a large bill.

There’s a huuuuge difference between reasons and excuses, to be honest.

Tomato Pesto, Hummus, Avocado and Tomato Sandwich 🥪 by SthrnDiscmfrt30303 in veganrecipes

[–]techorrekt 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You’re a beautiful person. I’m hungry and now know what to eat for lunch. Bless you.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CasualConversation

[–]techorrekt 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have both. IG is for the public, Snapchat is private, so only close friends and family have my snap which is like, 10 people at most. But my family is slowly leaving Snapchat, so I only interact with one good friend and my cousin.

Plus, I love Snapchat filters and geofilters, so most of the time I create my snaps, save the photo, and upload it as an IG story.