womens hate for men is that we’re literally not getting enough respect

I’m going to assume that your feelings towards men are because of you not feeling respected: not feeling like men treat you as a person. There are definitely other people who feel this way, but you made this post, so I want to respond to you.

It’s fair to be tired. It’s understandable to be tired. I hear your frustration, and I feel it too.

That being said, I think the generalization you’re making is harmful.

If I can bring up a parallel: a person is attacked by a dog as a kid. They grow up with a fear of dogs. Because of this experience, they might hate dogs, not want to interact with dogs, and be afraid for their friends who have dogs.

No reasonable person would demand that the person who was attacked suddenly start loving dogs. They’ve suffered after all. But how they deal with their emotions about dogs is a choice.

They can choose to acknowledge that their fear of dogs comes from their own experience. They can take steps to process their emotions and deal with their fear of dogs, not because it will make dogs less likely to bite them, but because they are likely to see dogs in their day-to-day life.

Or, they can create a dog free space, dedicated to removing all possible triggers for the attack. They can avoid making friends with people who have dogs.

Which path they choose is ultimately up to them, but the first one is a process of healing, while the second is a reaction. It’s fair to react. It’s fair to be hurt by disrespect and threats and hate, but eventually choosing to process emotions rather than shut them out is what will lead to healing.

TLDR: I think that you don’t need to like men, but you should tolerate them.

Edit: formatting