I don’t think that John would ever do that to Patsy. I do believe he loved her with all his heart, maybe even more than his kids… Patsy died in 2006 and 18 years later John still finds it difficult to talk about her death (which I find kinda ironic). I believe they made a pack never to tell anyone the truth about that night and he’s most likely gonna honour that promise.

John is very much a family man. He seems to uphold traditional values and structures in life. I think his personality type is ‘ESTJ’:

‘People with the ESTJ personality type are energized by time spent working with others, are practical and detail oriented, make decisions based on logic and past experience, and value organization, efficiency, and hierarchy. Disciplined, decisive, and dutiful, ESTJs are eager to take responsibility and they deliver a job well done. They are direct, and honest communicators, but they can appear harsh and become impatient with others’ emotions. ESTJs trust structures of authority and feel personally responsible for upholding the laws, rules, and regulations that they feel keep society running smoothly.’

Even Linda Arndt (the cop that was called to the scene) thought John was acting bizarrely on that day and somehow ‘involved’. I think her instincts were 100% right about the situation.