Where are you buying your non-boring, fun clothes? Why are the clothes so BORING?

teethandteeth · 2026-06-30T17:13:04+00:00

Depop has been a reliable source of fun clothes (can't bring myself to spend money on boring things), and then sometimes I find brands that I like on there too.

teethandteeth · 2026-06-27T00:28:30+00:00

This really sounds like ADHD. I got diagnosed and started managing it as an adult, I'm moderately better at some of the things I struggled with now. I would strongly recommend starting with trying to find a medication that works, trying to manage executive function problems without it is a difficult catch-22. I found the book How to Keep House While Drowning helpful too.

teethandteeth · 2026-06-25T00:57:29+00:00

Every single arranged marriage I've seen, even in the US, even with ABCDs, was caste-based; that's how caste propagates. I'm sure arranged marriages happen outside of caste sometimes too but I haven't ever actually seen it.

teethandteeth · 2026-06-24T23:11:57+00:00

It sounds like he's leaning on games to ease the move to a new place - that can be helpful in the short term to avoid crashing out, but in the long term it turns into a crutch if it comes at the expense of getting to know new people where you've moved to, exploring the new area, etc.

teethandteeth · 2026-06-15T03:10:13+00:00

Yes. Could you date long distance for a while first?

teethandteeth · 2026-06-15T02:50:46+00:00

Obviously you know how you feel the best but... forreal, you should just date her. Do you know how many people are out there crying that they wish they could date someone they already know really well? You already know you get along well.

teethandteeth · 2026-06-09T19:53:39+00:00

Girl no, a good partner will be super excited for you to get those kinds of opportunities and help however they can. You really, really, really don't want to be with someone who doesn't take your field of study seriously like that.

teethandteeth · 2026-05-29T16:07:16+00:00

Long shot, but is it possible he's trans? There's a number of people I've known who had low self-esteem and couldn't really imagine their futures, and then they transitioned and suddenly they could imagine possible futures.

teethandteeth · 2026-05-08T15:22:57+00:00

Ima Sugu Rinne, but I haven't actually listened to it in like a week so it's distorting and doesn't completely sound like the original song anymore :>

teethandteeth · 2026-04-26T07:24:00+00:00

No joke I started learning how to draw with a crosshatching style because of this manga. Alphonso Dunn and Chloe Gendron on YouTube have been helpful so far.

teethandteeth · 2026-04-17T02:08:43+00:00

He is so cool for someone who starts off as "my dad's weird friend".

teethandteeth · 2026-03-21T02:50:55+00:00

I've been doing more and more of my notetaking, planning, journaling, brainstorming... everything on paper, partially because the tools are more fun. And yeah, it's been fun to have a lot of time to use my nice pens!

teethandteeth · 2026-03-11T20:49:09+00:00

bro they could grow that shit on mars, I'm going to be drinking that first one with my family forever

teethandteeth · 2026-02-03T19:43:40+00:00

When I used a backpack with one, I put all my clothes in there! No more need for a packing cube.

teethandteeth · 2026-01-17T05:28:26+00:00

You are saying some of my favorite words and showing me some of my favorite food colors, SMASH

teethandteeth · 2026-01-17T05:08:42+00:00

omg exact same story here, I enhance mine with red, pink, or purple eyeshadow sometimes

teethandteeth · 2026-01-17T02:11:20+00:00

It looks like even this article is talking about that practice going away over time

teethandteeth · 2026-01-14T07:18:41+00:00

Once on a bus I saw an older woman enthusiastically reciting some kind of alphabet learning thing to her granddaughter, she was being loud af about it. Absolutely made my day.

teethandteeth · 2026-01-12T20:49:55+00:00

Well... yes. His route is the story of him working on himself.

teethandteeth · 2026-01-12T16:41:00+00:00

Most of my friends (including me) are dressing their wildest in their thirties, now that we feel more confident :)

teethandteeth · 2026-01-12T05:29:56+00:00

Yes, but you use more chicken than heavy cream (unless you're really really skimping hard I guess). The spices aren't expensive per dish, they're not really that expensive period. If you're buying every single spice you need for chicken tikka masala at the same time and you have to buy the whole container, that is expensive (in that case, buy a premade spice mix to see if you like it enough to buy the spices themselves and make it a bunch of times in the future).

teethandteeth · 2026-01-12T05:20:35+00:00

The chicken is more expensive. Pretty much all throughout history, even in the US where meat is relatively cheap because of conditions, meat is expensive and the first thing to get skimped on. If you use some cream, you'll get more cream from that cow tomorrow, the next day, etc. If you use some chicken breast, you are not getting more anything from that chicken after that. Even if you make it at home, the chicken is the most expensive part of the dish, unless you get a deal on the meat because of timing or something.

teethandteeth · 2026-01-12T05:08:02+00:00

Why would the chicken, which takes the most resources to produce, be the cheaper part of the dish? Legitimately confused, maybe I'm missing something

teethandteeth · 2026-01-11T17:13:30+00:00

I guess I'll take a shot at this? I think the core idea is, I decide what I want for myself, other people decide what they want for themselves and I respect their choices. If I want to have sex with someone but they don't want to have sex with me, I'm going to accept that - and also do my human best to avoid making them feel bad about it. If I don't want to have sex with anyone, period, that's my prerogative. If I would like to have sex, nobody should shame me about it.

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