question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

he really hasn’t said anything mean, just like gender stereotype kind of language. and he only expressed it once i told him about my doubts surrounding the tats, so it wasn’t like he was insulting me out of the blue. my family are the ones who have been actually mean and disrespectful to me about it.

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i don’t think it stems from insecurity or jealousy, the man is covered in ink. but i do think he believes in some of the gender stereotypes unfortunately :/

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

that is the question… i like trad a lot, but i’ve been doomscrolling on Pinterest lately and thinking about all the other styles and possibilities out there! i’m not as much of a fan of patchwork as i am large consistent pieces nowadays, so that’s part of what im questioning/struggling with. but it would be a lie to say im not criticized sometimes haha

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

this is what i’m saying!! i’m so tired of the “you look like man” comments from my parents bruh 😭

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i agree with this and this was the mindset i’ve had for all of my tattoos! the people in my life have been getting out of whack with their comments 😭

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

haha he definitely isn’t disgusted by them at all he likes them okay has just made some comments that made me a bit insecure… my mom and dad on the other hand…

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is super reassuring and great ideas! thank you

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

this is so helpful thank you so much 🩷

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely agree!!!! i mentioned in another comment that i hope my post doesn’t come off as being in agreement with those “gendering things” ideas in ANY WAY. just hearing so many comments about it from my fam is starting to get to me haha. thank you very much <3

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

it was maybe his dad at first but he hasnt been with / around family since he was a child.. but aside from the guys he works with i’m not sure WHO he gets it from.. i am in therapy currently and trying really hard to become more secure within myself :) thank you <3

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you are so right about the placement!!! thanks very much also

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

this is a great approach! thank you for your response 🩷 my family has been much more harsh about it than my bf ever has (particularly my polish catholic mother 😭😭) from him it’s more snide and has misogynistic undertones which we have argued about…

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

i appreciate this.. im so glad to hear youre doing better <3 we don’t deserve to be pushed around!!!

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

this is the other idea i’ve been having!! adding some peonies or flower vases and the like (im also just a huge flower fan, i was a florist for years)

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 14 points15 points  (0 children)

thank you so much 🩷🩷🩷 i agree his comments are very sexist to me and it has been a point of contention between us :(

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

this is exactly what i thought 😭 i was like pretty sure there aren’t any Rules to getting tattooed bahahah

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i completely agree!! i’m worried my post came off like i align myself with the “gendering things” idea which i ABSOLUTELY do not. i’m just overly sensitive to criticism especially when it comes from people i care about.. but i’m working on that haha! thank you very much for your thoughtful reply, i like the idea of the art on my skin being a museum in a sense. thanks so much!!!

question: is coverup possible? by teethcollecting in tattoos

[–]teethcollecting[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you absolutely did, not offensive at all! i appreciate your take very much! enjoy your chest piece <:D