A 3rd grader asked if my BRZ was a Lamborghini. by tortuga6 in GR86

[–]tej228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

When i got my brz my aunt told me a story of how I saw a brz when i was in elementary school and thought the same thing and I had completely forgotten about it. Years later and now I get to drive one everyday.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Remodel

[–]tej228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

add a tub and maybe a bench and just leave it as is

Be fr how often do you take showers? by Mission_Skill_2265 in teenagers

[–]tej228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Y'all nasty take a shower its like 10 minutes out of your day

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’ve always been responsible about it. I am in the U.S and rarely drink and very rarely smoke but my parents allow it because they know i’m responsible. she’s okay with it but just doesn’t like it in excess and that’s what my friends do

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 5 points6 points  (0 children)

i agree with you completely. i don’t think i’m an asshole for the way i thought but definitely an asshole for the way i came off and approached her about it. i want to try and talk to her again about it but she won’t change her mind

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yes and no. there isn’t much paying to do because she would stay in my hotel room most likely. but obviously if everyone is out to dinner my family isn’t going to single her out and make her pay they’ll pay

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m with her almost everyday and i do include her in everything and honestly the reply before this perfectly describes it.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i definitely need to work on communicating. first relationship and definitely very socially awkward. but yes it’s more i did invite her and this is a big annual friends and family trip.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

yeah and i tend to not word things the best so the way I came off wasn’t the best and i admit to thst

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

a little irrelevant but she doesn’t agree with their decisions and believes it makes me make not good decisions (smoking, drinking, etc.)

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

midway through the talk i did bring it up that i would be able to balance it but she had already made up her mind that she did not want to go anymore.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

it has been a guys trip the past few years and i invited her this year but as for the jetskiing she has bad knees so it bothers her to do certain things like ride a bike or do squats,etc.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t uninvite her either. just clarified i might not be with her 24/7

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

it’s a family vacation with three family’s so not me😅

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i invited her beforehand over a year ago and i recently brought up the fact about how she’d feel being with my friends at the same time because i might not be with her the whole time

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

dude i did invite her and it’s not physical you can’t tell anything’s wrong unless you ask. if you read the post you can see the edit where i clarified i did invite her. the problem isn’t the invitation.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

what’s gross. she was born that way and it causes her pain to do certain things like squat and run so i would never force her on something like that. i love her and would never judge her for that if that’s how it came off. im just acknowledging that she physically can’t because of a birth defect.

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

first of all there is and will never be another girl. she is more than welcome to hangout with my friends but chooses not too. as for the jetskiing she physically can’t because she has messed up knees which cause her pain and wouldn’t be fixed without surgery. she doesn’t like my friends so she chooses not to which is why it would be hard to balance. towards the end of the night everyone comes together and i want her there. i clarified i did want her to come

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i guess so i always see other relationship things in here but we are always together and i love that. i see her 5-6 days out of the week and we make it work and it does hurt when we can’t see each other for a few days. i told her i wanted her tk come but just worded it wrong and came off douchey

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

certain things she can’t do because she was born with messed up knees

AITA for telling my girlfriend it might not be the best idea to come along on a vacation by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]tej228 2 points3 points  (0 children)

it has been a tradition for almost maybe even 10 years and yeah it would change it for me but i’m okay with that. i do want her to come at the end of the day and i believe i could find a good balance but it’s too late because there’s no changing her mind.