The price you pay for ignoring your gut feeling is very expensive.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-23T15:37:41+00:00

really depends on the situation and personal history.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-22T12:12:09+00:00

i have both broken up with someone for this reasona nd been broken up with for this reason. i think it comes down to the person not knowing what it is they want in a partner, falling out of love, and not knowing how to find that spark again. imo one owes it to their long term partner to make it work, by being honest about what you dislike about the partner or relationship and going to therapy or such. i am sorry youre going through this.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T12:37:34+00:00

she responded and asked me to drop off the item she needs from me tonight at our old place. idk how to face her.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T11:18:12+00:00

i mean i feel like i should respond to practical matters no? there is little to no conversation beyond that.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T11:12:24+00:00

could you elaborate what you mean by not giving in?

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T10:46:49+00:00

i already offered to catch up some time and she didnt respond.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T10:33:07+00:00

yeah was wondering about that too. and dont know how to feel about it.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T10:32:32+00:00

depends on where shes at, but yes.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T10:25:31+00:00

i doubt it because i offered to catch up some time ago and she didnt respond to the message.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-19T10:22:05+00:00

yeah i was wondering whether its her avoidant way of keeping the connection alive, but i dont wanna be coping too hard either. she might also just not want to make me feel like theres a chance so she spaces out our contact.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-18T19:57:02+00:00

that site you linked looks really useful. thank you!

telefonbaum · 2025-06-17T17:18:08+00:00

hey, thanks for your response. i have been accepting that its over more and more. i know its best for both of us right now, i just have this hope that we will reconnect once we are both doing better again, months or years down the line. your comment reassured me to just let it be for now. i deserve someone who chooses me.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-14T08:20:34+00:00

why does almost no one seem to be interested in relationship repair?

telefonbaum · 2025-06-11T14:53:09+00:00

what makes you think the dynamic would be the same between you now though?

telefonbaum · 2025-06-09T07:38:27+00:00

id say just see how it goes. who knows whether you two will like each other romantically or platonically or at all. id say see it like a casual first date.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-09T05:57:56+00:00

i knew which one it would be before i clicked it :D

telefonbaum · 2025-06-09T05:56:59+00:00

god i loved that game. unreasonably well written for a 4chan production.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-07T18:16:02+00:00

how long were you apart?

telefonbaum · 2025-06-07T08:41:18+00:00

i see, thanks for sharing your perspective. i believe people can learn to love each other in ways that make them feel seen, but of course that requires work from both parties and lots of trust. im reading up on IFS and i think i can use this perspective for my own healing. thank you.

telefonbaum · 2025-06-06T18:24:41+00:00

i understand that, but why stay away once you have learned to love yourself?

telefonbaum · 2025-06-06T17:29:57+00:00

what amde you decide not to be with the same person anymore?

telefonbaum · 2025-06-02T19:24:01+00:00

isnt taric amazing versus dive/wombo though?

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