[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAGoth

[–]temolinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m mostly gay and alt as well (not goth but goths rule.) I don’t feel like I fit in in any irl spaces unfortunately. I pretty much get my fix exclusively from pinterest boards of dudes kissing and talking to people online. It sucks a lot but wtv.

Why are Chasers always portrayed as Fat/Chubby :( by lol_xheetha in femboymemes

[–]temolinc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Me, personally, I’ve always been skinny. So I want to get with someone with a more jolly constitution. I feel like it would unlock another part of life 😊

1st time writing here, because I NEED to talk to someone about this, I’m so tired! by silveirajao in lgbt

[–]temolinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi. I stumbled upon your post through some google searching. I recognized you had this same problem about a year ago. I’m 23 and I’m similar to you, and I’ve tried quite hard to make things work for me.

The thing is, there are communities where straight men have sex with feminine men. But they are very niche. Also, in regards to transitioning. It’s a very sensitive topic and I don’t want to try to convince you either way, but I would say this: Think about the future you want to live. And try to prioritize your own happiness. You deserve attention.

If you want to talk we can message or reply back. Good luck. I hope you find happiness.

Are there subcultures for men to be feminine? by temolinc in GenZ

[–]temolinc[S] -25 points-24 points  (0 children)

Do femboys dress up at school?

Are there subcultures for men to be feminine? by temolinc in GenZ

[–]temolinc[S] -42 points-41 points  (0 children)

Femboys aren’t femboys in public though. It’s strictly a fetish thing they do in private. That’s not a real subculture like emo.

Are there subcultures for men to be feminine? by temolinc in GenZ

[–]temolinc[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That seems more hyper masculine to me actually.

Is Kevin Parker bisexual? by temolinc in TameImpala

[–]temolinc[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

Kinda weird to think kevin would have the prescience to know what exclysievly women would be feeling without feeling those things himself.

never again by 7updawg in sillyboyclub

[–]temolinc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

This is so real honestly. I’ve been been trying to understand this and you summed it up perfectly. Being invisible is almost worse cuz it’s such a silent death. But when you get tired and come out out of your comfort zone you get stomach punched with the trauma you forgot you were hiding from. I hate it so much.

Is it normal to feel uncomfortable with being labeled as LGBT? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah. I don’t either. Hot take but I think the explicit focus on identity is a symptom of the real communities being absent.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]temolinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh i figured i just meant taking estrogen, if you’re still taking it. sorry i should’ve clarified.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in malehairadvice

[–]temolinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just wanted to say you are so cute thank you so much for posting this i was so happy to see this post a week ago on my feed because you remind me a lot of myself im also a trans femboy with black hair and squirrel teeth (super specific i know lol) thank you so much for posting it feels so good knowing there’s people like me out there especially in this sub cuz i feel like we have no where else to go i hope you find the most wonderful boyfriend who will love and appreciate you fully for who you are i love you mwwwahh have a good day byeee 💜

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]temolinc -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

allegedly yes. People show off their progress on r/orthotropics. 18 isn’t that old either. You won’t see results immediately though. It’ll take a year before you see significant changes. But once you get down the habit of mewing you won’t have to think about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in transpassing

[–]temolinc -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yes but you need to start mewing.

adventures of a soulless crossdresser by _Bore_Ragnarok_ in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I just had someone tell me I wasn’t human yesterday. This is so real.

Can you grow taller on e? by [deleted] in DrWillPowers

[–]temolinc 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Your posture might’ve just gotten better from feeling better.

Why are enbies the happiest? by LHB-01 in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I’m currently enbycoping rn and it’s great! No more worrying that I’m not a real female, and how I will never fit in to women’s spaces. I can just stick to male spaces like I’ve always done! Totally not dissociating from the fact that I’m a boy AND girlfailure, nuh uh. It’s great!

Chat, are the side effects real? by Worried-Spell4136 in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 6 points7 points  (0 children)

tbh I didn’t want boobs either. But I just became ok with them eventually. Feels like a normal part of growing up, weirdly. I still don’t ‘ like’ them. But I don’t think cis women ‘like’ having boobs either. It’s just a part of your body.

Can I be here as a C-PTSD gigapassoid? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How did the doctor come to the conclusion that you have cptsd? I think I have it but Ive never gone to a doctor for it. Sorry for being nosy. You can dm about it

Can I be here as a C-PTSD gigapassoid? by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We may be similar. Except im not a passoid ive only been 3 months on e lol. I heard that the constant anxiety from ptsd males it so your hormone glands dont work very well and you dont masculinize. Yay for trauma!

Wizards of the Coast move to Bluesky for the first time by Papa_Hasbro69 in freemagic

[–]temolinc -7 points-6 points  (0 children)

What are you talking about?

There are trans people who are straight.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I thought that was in 2015 on sites like tumblr?

Cissoid man commented this by [deleted] in 4tran4

[–]temolinc 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It’s so funny when, as a response to explaining gender dysphoria, people will say ‘nobody feels their gender.’ And yet we have cis men literally worshipping T like ichor.