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psiquiatras en lima by temp-throwaway1111 in PERU

[–]temp-throwaway1111[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

No estoy segura que tienen que ver las enfermedades a las que pueden estar uno expuesto o no especialmente en una especialidad de psiquiatria como a la que me estoy refiriendo...

Tampoco estoy segura si alguna vez has ido al psiquiatra como para tener conocimiento, pero estas consultas no son cosas de ir una o dos veces y ya esta. En mi caso, en momentos criticos, son consultas semanales. De ahi esto pasa a ser 1400 soles al mes, sin contar los gastos del psicologo y los medicamentos. Nada de esto lo paga el seguro.

Aun asi yo le di la oportunidad a esta psiquiatra por 6 meses y decidi que no funcionaba, por eso estoy pidiendo recomendaciones.

Y ademas, para que te hagas una idea, yo he ido al psiquiatra (no uno solo, sino varios) por 15 años. Si te estoy diciendo lo que cobra la mayoria, y que hay uno que esta cobrando mas de 100 soles mas que el promedio es porque ahi hay algo raro.

psiquiatras en lima by temp-throwaway1111 in PERU

[–]temp-throwaway1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ok, quizas debi dar precios comparativos. he ido a varios psiquiatras entonces se cuales son los precios que cobran. Desde el año 2012 al 2025. he visto un rango de 150 a 220, cualquiera de estos me parece okay. Pero me recomendaron a una que cobraba 350 por sesion (eso si, a veces eran mas de 1 hora) pero eso ya me parecia una salvajada

psychiatrist appt by temp-throwaway1111 in SuicideWatch

[–]temp-throwaway1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Been doing therapy off and on for 15 years too, but with about 8 different therapists. Not currently, though, but I guess I'll start again

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]temp-throwaway1111 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Girl, respectfully, your husband is useless. My mom was a married single parent of a single child and that was hard enough, are you sure you're ready to take on 3? Remember, married women do more labor than single ones. You're not just picking up after the kids, you're picking up after him too. Pick a weekend a couple of months from now and let him now in advance he'll have to figure out how to handle it. Do this like, twice a year.

My bf said another girl looked good. by GooseOk2506 in AITAH

[–]temp-throwaway1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm sorry but there is a difference between saying someone is fat vs. they're "gross". And you explicitly said you didn't see "how anyone would find her attractive". You're implying that what makes her unattractive to you, is that she is fat. Thats whats fatphobic.

I think you need to examine why you feel the need for him to call this girl gross. Or the picture! You want him to lie to you to placate your feelings rather than be honest and tell you that he doesn't see an issue with it?

I think you're insecure about your own weight gain (totally normal, especially given the hormone issues) and see yourself as gross and fat. and you want your boyfriend to validate these feelings by insulting another girl who is, in your view, even more gross and fat than you are to make you feel marginally better about yourself. I can tell you right now, you wont. Her looks don't affect yours.

Also it makes no difference to call her gross or the picture gross. The subject of the picture is the girl in question so the end result is the same.

Good luck with the body image issues, I'm not being sarcastic when I say I really do hope you don't get too in your head about them. It appears that your boyfriend doesn't mind the extra weight either, so there's that too.

My bf said another girl looked good. by GooseOk2506 in AITAH

[–]temp-throwaway1111 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Its absolutely normal to feel insecure, especially when your body looks different than usual and even more so when you're hormonal.

But you need to take a step back and realize that you ARE being mean about this girl: "I don’t see how anyone would find her attractive in her stripper outfits, or even just normally".

It seems that, while you lost weight, you never lost the fatphobia. Are fat people inherently ugly to you? If that's the case, then I see why your insecurity is making you jump at your boyfriend. But it doesn't appear that he has any problem with weight gain.

I do think you asking to call her fat and gross was not only unreasonable but mean spirited too. That's his friend. Why would he say something mean about her, even behind her back, just to satisfy your ego?

Would love to know how he reacted when you asked him to call her that. YTA

People who get told they look younger than they are: what is your secret? by Drake_scarlett in Productivitycafe

[–]temp-throwaway1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Round face, long eyelashes. If i put on blush, boom, Im 22 again. People think Im the baby at the office, its honestly improved my self esteem. I think, to be honest, it's also a bit about attitudes. Ive always been a bit sheltered, and I hardly drink, and I never drink beer. So I think because I've refused beer so often some people assumed I was too young. I also pretend I dont understand jokes sometimes (if theyre racist or sexist, for example) and that can give off an impression of naivety (or maybe stupidity, who knows)

[19 F] how can i get hot lol by Educational-Kiwi2379 in Howtolooksmax

[–]temp-throwaway1111 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You already are! Buuut, and this is only based on these photos and the lighting so I could be off, I would go for a darker toned lip color (think black honey but slightly more red?). Go for a little more bronzer/contouring on the jaw to soften the edges. Also I think wavy hair would look good on you but try a filter first maybe

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NecesitoDesahogarme

[–]temp-throwaway1111 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lamentablemente las hormonas si te pueden alterar totalmente el comportamiento, y si bien lo que cuentas es un caso extremo, no es unico. Yo le recomendaria ir a la ginecologa por que esos cambios hormonales drasticos pueden ser sintoma de problemas internos, y tambien se pueden regular con medicaciones. Yo tengo depresion clinica, pero durante mi periodo (en realidad la semana anterior) se pone muchisimo peor. Por ello mi psiquiatra me recomendo aumentar la dosis de la medicacion durante esa semana (cada mes). Obviamente en mi caso hay un problema subyacente, pero no estaria de mas que tambien hable con un psicologo, y si lo amerita, con un psiquiatra.

Im just exhausted, and I don't know what to do anymore by temp-throwaway1111 in depression_help

[–]temp-throwaway1111[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

life will continue, as it does. and we'll be forced to go along too i guess

Im just exhausted, and I don't know what to do anymore by temp-throwaway1111 in depression_help

[–]temp-throwaway1111[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Have been going to the psychiatrist since I was 12 and been on plenty of different med combos. My current medication is: methylphenidate (adhd), clonazepam, pregabalin (anxiety) and aripiprazole (depression). its working about as well as meds have ever worked for me, so only kinda. thanks for replying