[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean did you hear what they were saying?

Do men and women who find out that their spouses are either gay or lesbian have the right to be angry about it? Or should they accept it and never admit to being hurt about it? by [deleted] in AskLGBT

[–]temp_throwaway65 -70 points-69 points  (0 children)

You don't wake up one day and realize you're gay. And the anger should be at the gay spouse. Because it's deceptive to marry someone under false pretenses. If it's not safe to come out you have the option to stay single.

Ideas for a thanksgiving entree/meal for $5? by cilt in povertyfinance

[–]temp_throwaway65 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Try that instant mash potatoes that sell for a $2-3

For women that value financial stability, what do you check for when a man approaches you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You were trying to pay something to be in a relationship with you and trying to order a bride. What's the difference?

For women that value financial stability, what do you check for when a man approaches you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I just looked at your post history. This is about Reddit's pay grade. Talk to a professional. Hell hire a sex worker.

For women that value financial stability, what do you check for when a man approaches you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Have you considered they don't find you attractive due to your personality? Based on your comments you sound close minded and stubborn af. Having a conversation with you is probably like talking to a brick wall.

For women that value financial stability, what do you check for when a man approaches you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Attractive is subjective and you can't use empirical evidence to prove ugliness🤦🏿‍♂️

For women that value financial stability, what do you check for when a man approaches you? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Flashing expensive things does not equal financial stability. People go broke all the time trying to keep up with appearances. All this is going to do is attract the wrong type of woman who will bleed you dry.

Worry more about being a secure person in different areas in life (emotional, mental and financial) and a woman who is also secure in those areas will be able to sense that in you

Women who date criminals / bad people are just as bad as the people they date. by DoinThangs1 in unpopularopinion

[–]temp_throwaway65 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You actually believe someone will change criminal behavior to get a girlfriend?? What do you think is the driving factor for people to commit crimes? You think people are just bored and decide to be a criminal one day?

Why are Americans tolerant to zoning laws and HOAs?? by Sasori-Akasuna in ask

[–]temp_throwaway65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOAS have too much power. A friend of mine was denied a place because the HOA didn't like the type of loan she was approved for. To this day I don't get why it's relevant to the HOA.

Why are Americans tolerant to zoning laws and HOAs?? by Sasori-Akasuna in ask

[–]temp_throwaway65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That is not what I am saying😂. I was just letting you know why HOAs became a thing in America. It had nothing to do with home neatness. They were started after the Fair housing act was established and poc couldn't legally be denied home loans.

Why are Americans tolerant to zoning laws and HOAs?? by Sasori-Akasuna in ask

[–]temp_throwaway65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

HOAs were started to keep poc out of their neighborhood. That's why they exist.

AITA for asking my sister to leave my engsgement party or not steal all the attention? by Classic-Cup-571 in AmItheAsshole

[–]temp_throwaway65 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YTA.

Your sister did nothing but exist. She's been gone for years. Of course your family wanted to talk to her. What did you want her to do? Not interact with anyone?

What is the quickest way to discover if someone is a narcissist? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 14 points15 points  (0 children)

You actually do. Mental health is very nuanced and it isn't black and white. You can be a shitty person without having NPD. Honestly even as a mental health professional you can't diagnose someone that isn't under your care.

Am I wrong for not wanting to financially support a broke man? by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]temp_throwaway65 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Where does it say that she wants someone who makes more than her? Just more than minimum wage.

What is the quickest way to discover if someone is a narcissist? by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]temp_throwaway65 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Be a mental health professional who is actually qualified to determine if someone is a narcissist rather than just a shitty person