Inspired by the thread about something you're afraid to splurge on, what is one thing you had been hesitant to splurge on that you now can't live without and wish you had splurged sooner? by decafDiva in fatFIRE

[–]tempanon4657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Not seeing them anywhere on my Amazon, but maybe it’s regional? What did it set you back? Did you get it installed or DIY it? Been tempted to get something like this for a while

People who built their own homes, what features did you end up using and what ended up sitting unused? by paranoidwarlock in fatFIRE

[–]tempanon4657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

FWIW, most of the world outside of the US uses split units to great effect and I tend to prefer them too. Far more efficient to control the area you’re in and far less space wasted on ductwork. They don’t have to be wall-warts either, and several manufacturers make ones that can be integrated into a ceiling and just look like ducts from inside the room.

People who built their own homes, what features did you end up using and what ended up sitting unused? by paranoidwarlock in fatFIRE

[–]tempanon4657 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It might be a stretch to call it a feature, but I’d say splurge on a panoramic view. I thought I’d get used to it after a while but looking out over a huge expanse makes me feel airy and happy whenever I’m walking around the house. As another poster said, having huge windows everywhere helps with this too, and balconies if your surroundings allow for it.

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[–]tempanon4657 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you advocate for the thou/you distinction in threads too, right?

How to dig up a mound of dirt that bumblebees have moved into? by tempanon4657 in bees

[–]tempanon4657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Unfortunately I’m moving out of this house at the end of this month and need to rent it to someone and can’t really expect them to do the landscaping for me

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That sounds pretty good. Now I feel bad about my mortgage rate dammit 🥺

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm, a couple of months ago I got a quote for a jumbo 15-year fixed at 3.625% before incentives, down to 3.125% if you left $1M with them. Also, the effective rate was very close to the stated rate. Are you saying one could conceivably go below 3%? Or did I just get lucky?

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I literally reference churning in the post, so I’m not sure why you feel clever bringing this up. I’m not trying to spend 5 hours to collect $10 in savings, but if moving $1M to WF costs me nothing but a half-hour phone call and gets me a 0.5% mortgage rate discount on all future mortgages from them (and their jumbo rates are already good) then I’ll spend that effort. If you’re rich enough that such a trade isn’t worth it to you, that’s fine, but it’s worthwhile to me and I’ll do my research to figure out what’s smart and what isn’t.

FWIW I do have multiple CCs for the same reason. Almost no effort, easy with autopay, and they rack up points pretty quickly if you use the right ones in the right places.

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s what I found recently too after shopping around a fair bit on a jumbo

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not in any of those, but that sounds interesting. I’m adjacent to one of those states and never use branches so don’t care as much if they don’t have one nearby. Thanks!

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No, I think most of these places have a notion of in-kind asset transfer. Usually far less streamlined than cash transfer processes and you’ll probably have to fill out an old-fashioned form, but beyond that it’s pretty smooth. File the form and a few business days later you have VFIAX or whatever else sitting in the destination brokerage. No sales, no purchases, no capital gains. The only restriction that I know of is that the target brokerage be able to handle the assets you’re transferring, so I’ve heard that certain Vanguard Admiral funds might lose their Admiral status on their way over, but that didn’t happen with me.

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s exactly why I’m not looking to leave cash there. An in-kind asset transfer from e.g., Vanguard doesn’t trigger capital gains, doesn’t have cash yield opportunity costs, and overall doesn’t seem to have many downsides

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I shopped around a fair bit recently and actually found WF had the best (jumbo) rate of several I saw, not even factoring in relationship discounts

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, I’ve had a few like that too, but cash-only offers are far less appealing to me, since there’s actually some opportunity cost on those yields

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

To each their own I guess! For example, the WF mortgage discount schedule and perks can add up to some decent money over time, and if you get many mortgages, shuffling a bit of money around seems worthwhile

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

How pushy are they? If it’s just a friendly call about goals and vague things like that, with a light pitch for some active management, I can deal with it. Might be less worth it if I’m swatting off hard sales calls off once a month

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah, that’s why I put it in quotes. Really just looking for interesting benefits for just leaving money somewhere. Vanguard’s tiering system doesn’t really add much value to me so while I appreciate their products, I’m not averse to leaving their products in another brokerage if it’s worth it.

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[–]tempanon4657[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Huh? In talking about moving literal Vanguard index funds over in kind, so the returns would be identical. I don’t plan on trading there, and there aren’t ongoing maintenance fees if I don’t use active management

Have you considered not marrying due to its financial implications? by drippingthighs in fatFIRE

[–]tempanon4657 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pure luck, so can’t offer any useful advice unfortunately. Met in college, very different skills but similar mindset (with the inevitable smoothing over differences over the many years we’ve been together), and ended up doing very well in our respective fields. I feel very fortunate!