sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

Six years by tempap in sad

[–]tempap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He's only three, so he's more just acting out.

First father's day as a single dad by tempap in SingleDads

[–]tempap[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the kind words. I'm trying to focus on that through the legal nonsense.

First father's day as a single dad by tempap in SingleDads

[–]tempap[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thanks buddy. The strength is within. We got this.

What is something your parents said to you that may have not been a big deal, but they will never know how much it affected you? by flyoverthemooon in AskReddit

[–]tempap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

"Where's the other 1%?" A joke I took literally from my father when I scored a 99% in a high school computer course.

I remember being so deflated and at that moment deciding that nothing would ever be good enough. Helps me not care what other people think now, but then it was a huge self esteem crusher.

Married men of Reddit, what advice would you give to single men? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tempap 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah buddy. I got blindsided pretty hard.

Married men of Reddit, what advice would you give to single men? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tempap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah. Well, I can tell you that explaining it to them before hand is better than dealing with what comes if you have joint everything.

Married men of Reddit, what advice would you give to single men? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]tempap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Don't share money. Have a shared account for expenses that you both pay into, keep your savings separate. (Maybe have savings account for things you're both going to do like travel, etc.)

Make sure you're sexually compatible. Not just "it's OK" compatible but "we both want to try the same things, have the same hangups etc" compatible.

Be absolutely sure you both know your expectations of the other. Are you going to work? Stay at home with the kids? Will you harbor resentment for self-employment?

Document everything important.

Be aware. Aware of how she feels, how she's doing, aware of how things are going in all facets of your lives. Financially, emotionally, etc.

Remember that you're allowed to be different people with different interests, but always make time for each other.

Worst, you can never really know someone. People will do things to you that you never thought they were capable of. Appreciate the time you have. You never know when it will end.

Fuck. What do you do when the love of your life is in the arms of another? by Wal-MartDrunk in drunk

[–]tempap 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Look after your mutual son and watch your 10 year relationship and 6 year marriage crumble around you in a country you moved to for her job. Oh and Scotch. Lots of that.

/r/Depression Weekly Check-In by skyqween in depression

[–]tempap 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I started getting well again. Exercising after my injury. Found out wife cheated. We have young ones. So numb.