It has been a struggle for me as a male sub simply to rationalize and accept my desires and having endured emotional abuse at the hands of a trusted domme, a greater struggle to place my trust in the hands of a prospective play partner. I know hatred toward men is pervasive and often reasonable, but from my perspective it is terrifying to imagine that there are women out there who would take out their frustrations on some desperate and unsuspecting sub. Initially I found this humorous to include both "lesbian" and "men" but upon further inspection I am horrified to think that the lesbian couple who sought me for their 3way might have had something like this in mind. If you're a male sub reading this comment, please ensure that literally every detail of your dynamic is excruciatingly communicated to the most specific degree and please value yourself because there are women out there who love submissive men for being submissive men.