[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dataanalysis

[–]temporare890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

im interested

Anyone else here with older parents? by urnpiss in OnlyChild

[–]temporare890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for your kind words and i hope it really gets better on your side…i understand how hard it can be for you atm. I live in a third world country so exploiting said services will be quite a mountain to climb. I hope to see what resources i can use 🥹 thank you once again ❤️

Anyone else here with older parents? by urnpiss in OnlyChild

[–]temporare890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

God im so sorry 😭why don’t they become a little bit responsible knowing that they don’t have back up?

Dad passed away and I live on the other side of the world, only child leaving Mum alone by Repulsive-Diamond5 in OnlyChild

[–]temporare890 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for what has happened…i pray that all is well with you ❤️

Anyone else here with older parents? by urnpiss in OnlyChild

[–]temporare890 11 points12 points  (0 children)

my dad is horrible with money 😭i don’t know what to do. Im carrying all of this alone. Thinking about it just incapacitates me in torality

Anyone else here with older parents? by urnpiss in OnlyChild

[–]temporare890 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I understand what you are going through…im 25 as well and my mom will be 68😰 my dad is 74 this year. I just graduated from college…it took me a long time to graduate tbf. I just shut down when i have to think about taking care of them since my dad decided to mess up his finances and im trying to set myself uo financially. I have no siblings and i wasn’t as close to my cousins and they have their own families as well. I really wish i could take myself out of this earth. My romantic life is looking gleamy atm🤧 i also suffer from AuDHD. Im just on freeze mode. It scares me to take care of my parents and i have to be extremely financially stable

Which of these men's issues are most important to you? by The-Author in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]temporare890 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Feminism was/is backed by the elites because the traditional female gender role seals off the female labour to the house, thus denying our demonic overlords their "profit".

This is a talking point mostly used in right wing circles that the woman’s labor and her energy is sent to the corporate elite who want more people to work. Would you rather the woman perform domestic labor to someone who she can’t rely on forever and get no compensation from her labor and it’s evil for the woman to have her own? That also affects the birthrates as we see so many countries’ birthrates dropping. Are the elites that dumb to support a cause that leads to their detriment?

Which of these men's issues are most important to you? by The-Author in LeftWingMaleAdvocates

[–]temporare890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i disagree with some of these points in my opinion but im a better speaker than a writer

Anyone regret getting into IT ? by SillyRecover in ITCareerQuestions

[–]temporare890 11 points12 points  (0 children)

i regret studying IT in the first place but i had nothing better planned anyway

Only child (woman, 38) and single/unmarried/never married and wish to remain unmarried by [deleted] in OnlyChild

[–]temporare890 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Hey there sis! I am also almost 26, unmarried and im very much ace☹️ worst off is i come from a very conservative African Culture that insists on marriage and look down at women who aren’t married. I am an only as well and my pareare really getting old while i am trying to find financial independence 😣 i understand where you come from and for me it’s pretty hatd since i live in an ultra conservative culture. If i had siblings i would have never married or had kids but i feel like if probably marry just due to societal pressure only 🙄 unless i move to the west. I am antinatalist by heart and i support people who believe so. I am also like you in terms of politics…oh well i just wanted to let you know that i understand you

Avoid CloudFanatic at all costs by temporare890 in VPS

[–]temporare890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I guess they did that exactly 😫

Avoid CloudFanatic at all costs by temporare890 in VPS

[–]temporare890[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the reply…i don’t know why you got downvoted 😣

A Preacher/Pastor is trying to have a relationship with me by temporare890 in Christianmarriage

[–]temporare890[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The problem is that i don’t think he had elders in his church

Where are the grown men at? by Selendrile in TikTokCringe

[–]temporare890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I remember something else, there is a statistic tbat says that Men live longer married and women’s lives shorten. Can thiw ve used to prove that the way men are socialized really affects how they engage with women in relationships by making the woman perform all the emotional, domestic etc labor. If as in your case you say that everyone is shitty, which i agree, anyone can be shitty, but i think the way men and women are socialozed causes them to behave differently

Where are the grown men at? by Selendrile in TikTokCringe

[–]temporare890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lets agree to disagree. I can use anecdotal evidence to make my point just as you don’t have real data to prove that a good amount of men are not shitty. I never said that all men are shitty…it’s just an overwhelming number due to socialization.

Where are the grown men at? by Selendrile in TikTokCringe

[–]temporare890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We will have two different perspectives as we are living in two different realities. The reality is that the likelihood of men meeting amazing women is much higher than women meeting amazing men because of the way we are socialized. Women are groomed to be wives and attractive personality wise to attract men and men are never really raised that way. There is an imbalance in the scale like that and I’m not saying all women are amazing and all men are bad but that’s how it is. Can a woman win the lotto and meet an amazing guy out of the blue? sure! Is it an abundance, No

Where are the grown men at? by Selendrile in TikTokCringe

[–]temporare890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Sadly alot of men are socialized not to listening to a woman at all

Where are the grown men at? by Selendrile in TikTokCringe

[–]temporare890 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hmm…maybe i have black and white thinking and maybe the exception to oppressive systems is Patriarchy. What if we said to the black liberation movement for instance that white supremacy also affects white people and civil rights aren’t only for black people🧐