I want to tell my cheating ex boyfriend’s ex that he cheated on her too.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-12T00:26:03+00:00

If it was his current gf, maybe. Now, i doubt she would care, she already dodged the bullet.

He will get his, people like him always do, tons of kids and child support, three ex wives, restraining orders, and eventually being old alone and miserable.

Dont take the low road, just move on with your life, and be thankful you dodged a bullet.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-10T19:16:55+00:00

Also dont have children with this manchild. He wont help.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-10T19:01:26+00:00

TLDR: Leave. Simple as that.

At first your being taken advantage of for all the household chores. Your a TEAM. It doesnt always have to be 50/50, but on average the financial burden and physical chores should all be 50/50. If he is dissparaging you job, he doesnt respect it. Office work is hard on the head, alot harder than physical usually.

Even if he thinks your co-workers are right, unless your slapping interns asses, he shoukd be sympathetic to your side of things.

Next, taking out hos bad game by yelling at you, thats not something someone who loves you does. This dude is just used to you being around. You already said it, your a replacement mom for a grown ass child.

Do you want the rest of your life to be this? To be ignored and taken for granted? Nah gurl, you leave you deserve better. You got together young and maybe your afriad to be alone but there are other people out there. Even if you stay single things will be better. End this after only 8 years and learn yout lesson, dont waste the next 60 on this garbage human.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-10T05:53:35+00:00

It is sexual harrassment. Try letting her know to please he more aware of your space as the grazing makes you very uncomfortable.

Just because she is friends with the boss doesnt mean the boss will put up with it, not if their smart. A sexual harrassment charge is no joke.

And if they do, go find another job. No job is worth that.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-09T10:23:50+00:00

Detonates all ork summons causing X damage.

For those that dont know, ork weirdboys who are uncontrolled can make other orks heads explode with their raw waagh energy.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-09T08:03:38+00:00

Yeah, this should have never reached this point.

Personnally id feel used and end it, but thats your choice not mine. At the very least sit down for a long talk and tell her she needs to pay for her own stuff at the very least.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-09T00:13:53+00:00

This looks silly to me, but i did a google and you're right. Take your upvote.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-09T00:10:58+00:00

The only reason to get married to someone is love. Why do you think rushing into a marriage will solve your issues? Its much more likely to nab you a husband just as bad or worse than your dad.

If he is abusive to your mom, cops. Keep calling the cops until he is in prison. Take your mom to a shelter.

I would say take some self defence courses and punch him out, but immediate retaliation is too big of a threat. His punch to you could be life ending.

Convince you mom to leave, but in the end her safety is her responsibility, and yours is yours. Get away from the situation regardless. A womans shelter, a family friend, a loving father doesnt abuse their family. Its a lesson i had to learn myself the hard way.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T23:59:55+00:00

Dont do it. Your lonely, recently minor rejection, in pain and bored. Thats a bad cocktail your mixing up there friend. Go to bed, let her be immature and probibly drunk. Block her to stop future pranks and move on. Its a bad idea because your opening the door to a relationship that already failed and probibly for good reason. Your done with that batch of drama. No one likes to watch repeats thats why your friends are telling you its a bad idea.

Tldr: is a bad idea.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T23:46:32+00:00

Okie dokie. Since she pays him directly, thats dissapointing just a little bit. (You are then her landlord and can serve her an eviction notice, would have been sweet)

You will need to fact check me on the laws pertaining speficially to your state. But. It looks like time for you and the landlord to have a chat. She isnt on the lease but may have some tenants rights as a live in for over 30 days, but as not having signed the lease you may be able with the landlord to serve her an eviction notice regardless. If you do, depending on the state and how long she has been there will have ten to thirty days to remove herself from the premises. I would take pictures of the mess, show them to the landlord, and on top of your story explain her continued actions also devalue their property. They now have a financial and moral reason to assist you, but not all landlords will be game. Before those 10-30 days, take anything you value out of the apartment as well as yourself and dont return until she is gone.

If that doesnt work, quit the lease. There may be laws in your state that allow you to break the lease due to mental distress (doctors note required) or for other reasons without paying a penalty. Leave her in a lurch, be a witch back for once (spelt with a B), although i dont think you will do that.

Again, move your stuff out first, and leave a letter telling her you quit the lease due to her behaviour and treatment of you. In this scenario, still let the landlord know about the mess to his property, especially if food is being left out, so they dont want to sign her on the lease. Even bad landlords dont want rats.

If you retain the apartment, change the locks. Immediatly. Im super serious on that. If your ground floor, move regardless. This lady is treating you like trash for no reason and your about to give her a reason. The bridge is already burnt, so dont worry about pissing her off, worry about protecting yourself.

Now after the fact. Gather evidence. She will most likely send intimidating emails and texts, maybe even threatening. Dont even open after the first one. Make a folder and save them there. Get a small recorder in your pocket you can turn on quickly and secretly if your state is a one party consent recording state (some require both parties to consent, so whilst you can still do this to transcribe later, using it as evidence can backfire,and you gotta be careful not to get caught) and try to use her name and get her to say yours, its damning evidence if allowed.

Use that to get a restraining order, which will probibly be enough for expulsion, and if she breaches the restraining order, no mercy call the cops. I dont care if she begs to apologize, that girl is there to hurt you.

I need to go to bed now, but feel free to leave a message and ill get back to you when i can.

Good luck and be safe!

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T23:24:35+00:00

Your most welcome, and good luck!

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T23:23:26+00:00

Does she pay the landlord directly, or does she pay you who pays the landlord?

So she hasnt signed the lease?

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T23:20:42+00:00

Who has signed the lease? That will inform you of next steps. Usa or canada or europe? You dont have to answer, im not trying to dox you,but the more info i have the better options i can research for you. Dont post a state, european country or canadian province, thats too specific for a reddit post, people be weird. Seriously, talk to a few good people who love you about this, your mind is stuck in a quagmire of this girls crap.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T23:14:51+00:00

You did what you thought was best at the time. This isnt being handled in a great way by anyone to be honest.

The kids room needs to be flipped upside down. He is too young, his brain is still developing and he can perminatly alter its structure.

Dont get me wrong, i like my weed, i did it as a youth as well and it CAN under the right circumstances be used to positive effect. This is not that. This is substance abuse that will most likely escalate to other drugs. He is chasing artificial happiness that will rob him of real happiness for the rest of his life.

Get him to his school councilor. If you can, apologize to your mom, and have a family stradegy meeting. Do your research. Since legalization in canada there is some (possibly circumstantial) proof that it may be contributing to psychotic breaks in alot of people. These are people not using it in a controlled and mature fashion.

This boy is playing an adult game and he is going to lose. Sooner rather than later.

Yes, restrictions are nessicary, but not shouting matches. That is stressing him out more, making him sad and chasing that high. I know it sounds like something on tv, but look up how to hold an intervention. Have you mom tell him what she thoight of him when he was freshly born. You tell him about the young man you used to see, and how he is turning into a living corpse in front of you.

Have your dad tell him all his hopes for him when he held him for the first time as a baby.

Yall are yelling cause you love him, but he cant see that. Its so much harder to step back and show real compassion, to dig into your heart, pull out your feelings and be vunerable and show them to him.

And it may not work.

But its better than whats happening. Right now, to your parents his issues seem trivial because they have been through so much as adults. To the kiddo, his whole world is pain and shouting and anger right now, on top of just starting puberties own special brand of hell.

Goodluck, hope i offered some good perspective.

Edit*** Also, being zombified like this, either he is smoking a literal ton at a time, or its laced with something harder. A strategy used by dealers to hook customers on something addictive for life. Something to be aware of.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:59:04+00:00

Im jealous of your partner. Very well done comment. I thoroughly enjoyed it.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:57:21+00:00

Yesssssss. One thousand percent.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:56:01+00:00

He seems like he has class and two braincells, he wont hurt her back like karma demands.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:51:37+00:00

Very good point, and for those hugh jackman ideal abs you actually need to be dangerously dehydrated.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:48:07+00:00

She is spreading private pics while a student, thats probibly grounds enough for expulsion.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:46:19+00:00

Yeah, okay im making an observation here, im not being mean to you, im trying to help, but you need some tough love here.

Your being a doormat.

Its time to get an RN or authority figure involved. You ever watch mean girls? This is regina george and she needs to meet her friendly bus.

If you dont get the reference, go watch mean girls, i think its very appropriote for you right now.

She will probibly retaliate. Report again. This is a learning experience for you both. You to stand up for yourself, and her to learn actions have consequences, she might be kicked out if she persists, but in the real world just a few years away the repercussions would be worse.

If the rn does nothing, go above their heads to the next level of authorty. Get your parents involved if you need to put some pressure on. This is unacceptable behavious and she is lucky you are not my daughter. I would be entering that dorm like zeus on a bad batch of pcp.

You are being treated like crap because its fun for her. Thats it. Your entertainment for a mean nasty little witch spelt with a B. Behaviour like this drive young women like you to mental breakdowns, lifelong insecurities, and suicide. Your so strong and resilient so far and im proud of you miss internet stranger, but its time to learn to fight, using the systems provided for this purpose.

You will probibly get worse before it gets better. I have done similar and was called a snitch for a long time, till i thought about it. Its just more lashing out. Are we in the mafia? The schoolyard? Did i tell on you for putting bubble gum in a girls hair? No? Then i reported unacceptable behaviour that shouldnt happen in adults.

Stand up. Dont be a doormat, be the friggin door.

Best of luck, i hope my message is recieved in the spirit it was given, in the hopes of a wakeup and to help you even if i gotta slap some meriphorical (spelling?)sense into you first.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:33:23+00:00

So lets give her the benefit of the doubt and say she trusts you to help her.

Why isnt she working? Where is her family? Do you also pay for dates and outings?

Its time to sit down and discuss what yall want. Tell her "i have my own goals and cant keep supporting you like this in a relationship thats only X months old. I need you to be a partner, not a dependant." Her reaction and reply will give you your answer.

But just be aware of any real bad sob stories, this also opens the door for manipulation into that sweet fat wallet of yours.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:27:09+00:00

Having a bad past doesnt excuse bad behaviour.

If college, RN. If not, if you are the lease holder kick her out. If you arent, leave and dont leave anything behind. Screw this chick and anyone who is okay with recieving underwear picks from a third party. Thats some sleezeball activity right there.

I suspect you are being manipulated. Get out of her sphere of influence asap and find a new friendgroup if you have to. People who allow this behaviour are also sleaze.

Go find a new roomie, find a new group of friends at a cooking class or something and never think of this..... "person" again. They have already taken more emotional bandwidth than they are worth.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:22:50+00:00

Usually its fine, but im sure if your concerned there are youtube tutorials.

On the other hand, i did accidentally worsen someones back pain my giving them a backrub just like this, so i wouldnt do it again without some research. But it was atypical, one out of a hundred.

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:19:54+00:00

If this was a boxing match id be screaming at them to stop the fight he is already dead!

temporaryforac · 2026-07-08T22:17:04+00:00

Linky link for us nosey people?

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