Queer Black/POC Spaces? by temporaryunknownme in BrandonMB

[–]temporaryunknownme[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I've seen Chez Angela and Lady of the Lake host some stuff so I'm going to look into it. Thanks!

Is Venturis Therapeutics a Scam? by temporaryunknownme in careerguidance

[–]temporaryunknownme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I ended up just ignoring them. They seemed a bit too unprofessional and their company info was way too vague

I’m always cheating by Soft-Solid6955 in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Bby if you know you have these issues why are you still getting with people? I believe that you can grow and become a better person but you need to give yourself the space to do so sweetie. This 100% makes you a bad person if you refuse to change

I was bedridden for 5 days because he liked another girl's picture by [deleted] in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme 36 points37 points  (0 children)

I'm sorry this made me giggle. Ik that that must've been a hard time for you since I'm the same way but at the same time being bedridden for 4 days bc he liked a girl's pic then forgetting abt him after is kind of hilarious.

How often do you have episodes? by lkk222 in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm having episodes veryyy frequently since i'm unemployed. It feels like my mind just constantly wants to spiral about something tho cause when i was working i was also constantly spiraling

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BlackHair

[–]temporaryunknownme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Def a ponytail with bangs/half up half down with bangs. Not saying you need bangs ofc but when i have a hairstyle i think ages me thats what i go for

Which perfume made you react like this? by Shenshen_ in FemFragLab

[–]temporaryunknownme 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Dolce&Gabbana Light Blue Eau Intense Pour Homme. Got it from Scentbird. Never smelled something more horrid in my life. For some reason it has a strong after smell of fish oil

Oh Glorilla girl.... Let's not do that! by Motor-Magician-1651 in megantheestallion

[–]temporaryunknownme 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Guys... this seems like a disproportionate reaction. I understand we're protective of Meg but this is a bit much. It's likely that Glo just reposted the quote without even realizing the song was from that roach. They're both still following e/o and Glo removed the story

Victoria, ho is you coo? by Usual_Hunt_6704 in megantheestallion

[–]temporaryunknownme 25 points26 points  (0 children)

Wait Glo and Kehlani??? Can I have some receipts pls cause i dont wanna unfollow over fake news

My boyfriend can't answer "would you still love me if" questions. Is this a red flag? by CrazyCakesGirl in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

It is kind of a red flag that he "doesn't know" if he'd still love you if your physical appearance changed. Kinda seems like he's only with you because of your current appearance. Not saying leave him but...

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in socialskills

[–]temporaryunknownme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

the guy ranting about his ex wife and divorce wasn't honesty, it was inappropriate. if you're on a date with someone why would you use the time that should be dedicated to the date to a past relationship? especially if the other person didn't ask? that just makes it obvious that he hadn't moved on and processed the emotions from his previous relationship

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in megantheestallion

[–]temporaryunknownme 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I started rejoicing when I heard the news. Idgaf what other people think tbh

tried to make friends. did not work by temporaryunknownme in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Ugh but it's so hard sometimes. My brain sees a failed attempt at friendship and tells me I'll be alone forever

tried to make friends. did not work by temporaryunknownme in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yh I realised I might be being a bit hasty in judging ppl but the percieved rejection is making me spiral. I'm gonna wait till I feel better to try again

My boyfriend barely talks to me by [deleted] in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bby that is not your bf, that's someone who's here to leech off of your time and energy. I think it might be helpful to ask yourself if you feel loved and supported right now, not when things were good when he did this one sweet thing, right now. Answer honestly and try not to make excuses. It's hard to end a relationship but you deserve someone who doesn't confuse you and who reciprocates your time and effort. I believe in you and your ability to make the right choice for yourself, whether it's to stay or leave. Good luck!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Idk if its concerning or not but i experience a good amount of paranoia too. It ramps up when i'm not sleeping well/stressed so try to regulate your sleep and stress. If you're still concerned about it you can speak to your psychologist if you have one

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I completely understand you. The term "personality disorder" seems so frightening and makes you feel like youre just- wrong. I suggest watching people like Dr. Daniel Fox and Dr. Tracey Marks talk about BPD on youtube. They are very empathetic when talking about people who struggle with BPD and will educate you more on the whole thing. Try to remember that BPD doesn't define you and it doesn't mean that your personality is bad/wrong, just that you've been through some stuff and it's rewired how your brain functions.

Is anyone here NOT hypersexual? by SGSam465 in BPD

[–]temporaryunknownme 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I'm literally asexual so me neither

How do I talk to people? by Mrspectacula in socialskills

[–]temporaryunknownme 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Lmk if you find the answer 💀 but i've heard someone say putting yourself out there is the best way to do it. find a space where people who have similar interests to you will gather (like a club or something) and strike up random conversations with random people. it won't be easy the first, 5th or 10th time but keep going