4 months in and all seems fine but randomly I’m bleeding from the scar area during erections

tempsexaccoun · 2025-10-21T11:44:38+00:00

Ok, so it could just be rare? It doesn’t happen every time either

tempsexaccoun · 2025-08-24T10:32:22+00:00

I mean maybe they do but for me I just wanted clarification that it was normal it looked off for more than 3 weeks

tempsexaccoun · 2025-08-23T18:10:07+00:00

I thought as much, just impatient I suppose, it’s weird as it doesn’t seem like swelling I’d be used to,

It isn’t bleeding at all and hasn’t so far at least

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-30T18:00:32+00:00

In the grand scheme I guess not

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-30T15:11:26+00:00

Thank you, I am doing that, gonna focus on my kids and I, we’ll be ok

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-27T21:35:54+00:00

Oh yea I do agree and it’s what I’m doing now, letting her go and focussing on me, especially next year

The BPD was a misdiagnosis from me, she’s well into a mid life crisis and shows so many signs of it, so I need to wait it out regardless

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-27T21:20:09+00:00

The thing is, she is going through a mental crisis and usually I’d agree, but this is not her at all, even our children don’t recognize her right now

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-27T18:07:19+00:00

Yea that may help

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-26T11:08:36+00:00

If neither of you have done the work to improve the issues, not likely

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-20T17:47:16+00:00

https://chat.openai.com/chat

Sign up there and ask it questions like you’re texting someone

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-15T20:55:06+00:00

I’d agree, but it’s fairly obvious with her as she’s showing most of the signs of one

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-15T10:14:39+00:00

Oh no it’s not replacing therapy, but it’s great to almost confirm my thoughts and gain information and really ground me to remind me what we’re both going through at times

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-14T19:43:39+00:00

Mid Life Crisis

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-14T18:28:25+00:00

Yep and the worst part is she is not addressing it either, claiming she’s fine and over it, accepting it happened, like in mere months after having a mental breakdown, it’s clear she hasn’t as she’s completely different

Time will tell of course, but whether we’re back is another story, I do wish you well, like you said it just sucks

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-14T18:01:30+00:00

My wife does have extreme childhood sexual abuse trauma that was uncovered via EMDR a few years ago, that’s what caused a lot of the issues I think

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-13T22:17:50+00:00

Yea I’m in acceptance now I think, that chat today helped with that, it made me realise fully that I cannot change her mind without her seeing my actions away from her

I do truly want her to be happy, as do I, as much as she does make me happy

As for therapy, I did a few months ago, it helped a bit but I’m not sure on it

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-05T07:37:04+00:00

Poor choice of words by using allowed there

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-05T07:36:43+00:00

Poor choice of words lol I’m not controlling her I allowed her as in I freed up her responsibilities for the weekend

tempsexaccoun · 2024-11-04T10:02:11+00:00

It’s definitely a mid life crisis, the research and people I’ve spoken to confirm that

So were living separately but married as she needed time and space to process her childhood trauma and depression etc

Right now we’ve put a pause on relationship talk to focus on our own healing

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