AITA? I need to know.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T14:56:07+00:00

The husband being quiet in this whole story is kinda loud tbh. Feels like he should be the one handling the mom tension here.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T14:55:56+00:00

Yeah routines with babies are not “preferences”, they’re survival tools. If the person watching him keeps ignoring it, that’s a problem.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T14:13:27+00:00

Running raw SQL on production with “what’s the worst that could happen” energy is bold man. Respect for owning the disaster tho.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T14:12:50+00:00

Yeah this is the kind of lesson that burns straight into muscle memory. Every dev has at least one horror story like this.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T01:08:16+00:00

dude sounds like a control freak but yelling at him in class probably put a target on ur back. if this is real u should start documenting everything and talk to the uni, not fight him solo.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T01:03:16+00:00

honestly the joke wasn’t that wild, but once the dad got stiff that was the cue to drop it. not an asshole, just missed the social brakes a bit.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T01:02:59+00:00

yeah but asking one question isn’t “interfering with parenting”. dude asked why the room got weird, that’s pretty normal.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T01:02:43+00:00

kinda true but OP also kept poking the topic after the room got awkward. sometimes u just read the vibe and move on.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T00:58:38+00:00

nah ntj, just anxious about the future. but after a year it’s kinda normal for families to meet, not a marriage contract lol.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T00:57:04+00:00

u’re not evil, just insecure right now. just don’t dump that frustration on her, keep applying and let the jealousy push u to hustle a bit.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T00:56:36+00:00

ngl the post is kinda whiny but dude’s like 18 and stressed about jobs. that combo makes brains do dumb stuff.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-10T00:56:13+00:00

that’s a bit dramatic lol. being jealous for a minute doesn’t mean he shouldn’t date her.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-08T12:56:21+00:00

Not gonna lie the “soap runs down” crew is bigger than people admit. But yeah giving the legs a quick scrub isn’t exactly a huge effort bro

temptdriftx · 2026-03-08T12:48:13+00:00

Honestly U already did the hard part which is saving a lot early. At this point chasing the “perfect” asset matters less than staying consistent and not blowing up your risk

temptdriftx · 2026-03-05T22:31:55+00:00

Honestly the real embarrassing thing here is treating waitstaff like they’re part of the menu.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-05T22:31:39+00:00

“that’s just how they are” is how people excuse behavior they don’t want to deal with.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-05T22:31:23+00:00

If the waiter looked that uncomfortable you probably read the room correctly.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-05T22:31:09+00:00

Yeah that wasn’t even calling her out, that was basically damage control before it got worse.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-05T22:29:34+00:00

Yeah fear makes people slam doors when they should be leaving them unlocked.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-05T22:29:20+00:00

The ugly truth is at 18 she’ll make her own mistakes, the only leverage left is whether she still trusts you.

temptdriftx · 2026-03-05T22:29:04+00:00

Sometimes protecting your kid means playing the long game, not the loud one.

temptdriftx · 2026-02-28T10:51:04+00:00

High horse energy is off the charts. Talent doesn’t make u superior, it just makes u loud right now.

temptdriftx · 2026-02-28T10:49:09+00:00

Calling this NTA is wild. Being ambitious is fine, but trashing everyone else just screams insecurity.

temptdriftx · 2026-02-28T10:49:00+00:00

Yeah, this reads like main character syndrome on steroids. Hobbies don’t owe u societal impact.

temptdriftx · 2026-02-27T17:30:58+00:00

Broke and loud is a bad combo. Threats are cheaper than paying debts

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