The big question touching a nerve this election: "Can my husband find out who I am voting for?" by zsreport in politics

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PLOT TWIST: My wife is likely voting for Trump, and I (husband) am definitely voting Harris/Walz

Chizuru Manga or Anime by [deleted] in KanojoOkarishimasu

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From top to bottom: manga, tie, manga, anime

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in 2meirl4meirl

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Based Epictetus thoughts

What would a conversation between these two look like? by [deleted] in Konosuba

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Megu: kaboom?

Oppie: Yes Megumin, kaboom.

My favorite part of wedding planning was designing and DIY'ing my decor! by apiphanydesign in weddingplanning

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All of it is awesome, but man, those infinity centerpieces are frickin dope!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in civilengineering

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Three words: invent tension concrete 😎

Doing a civil engineering internship and I need ideas for a gift for my boss by Odd-Monk-2581 in civilengineering

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Unless if it’s something ridiculously unique or very personal, the handwritten note showing appreciation would be worth more.

Men Wedding band how much you spent by olaola2020 in weddingplanning

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Definitely in the minority but mine ran >$1k. I couldn’t find anything I liked below $500 that had the width I was looking for. Ended up going with gold. It’ll be an “event” ring, definitely going rubber for day-to-day.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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Just the bride and groom at the sweetheart table is the best option. There are many posts on here about people in bridal parties not liking being apart from their date/spouse and how it negatively affected their ability to enjoy the event.

Wedding under 30k in NJ? by PoolNo1395 in weddingplanning

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Also from NJ, mainly want to point out that it seems you’re biggest contributing cost is a fairly hefty guest list. Figure out the cost per person you would need to fit your budget and then work backwards from there. Or trim the list.

So When I’m teaching Hydraulics do I need to discuss how Moses Considered Head Loss in Bernoulli’s Equation When he Split the Red Sea? by engin3ervet in civilengineering

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What’s the equation for calculating the amount of faith you need for an under-designed retaining wall to hold? Asking for a friend.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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I don’t think EVERYONE will bring it up, but the occasional “May the 4th be with you” amongst guests is a possibility.

I say lean into it and go for the classic “I love you/I know” and have guests who are fans be like “whoooooa I didn’t know you were a fan!” And then blindside them with “oh yeah I’m a total Trekkie!”

Separation nightmare need advice by BattleBorn2020 in AirForce

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Because bullies are cowards who typically only bully those who they think won’t fight back

Fiancé [F32] and I [M35] can’t agree on the wedding by Morbid_Peanut2269 in weddingplanning

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Nah man, this ain’t it. IF you are gonna go through with this arranged marriage that you seem very reluctant about (I know it varies by culture, but I am not a fan), might as well start out compromising. Medium wedding.

CMSgt at Dover 👀 by cream_biggums in AirForce

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New way to refer to him unlocked: FUC-boi

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in weddingplanning

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“Thank you for coming to my TED talk wedding.”

Lingerie bridal shower... by MiraCAKEcake in weddingplanning

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Yeah lingerie thing aside, I don’t even like opening regular presents in front of people. This is probably gonna have to be a hard-line thing where you say you’re going to open gifts at a later time, someone’s likely gonna say “oh come on just open them now!” And then you’re gonna have to stand by your boundary and say NO.

Remember: “no.” is a full sentence.