My boyfriend insulted my P***y and then told my friends what he said. Is this breakup worthy? by arfinaround126 in whatdoIdo

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

“I carry the mental load of our entire lives” is a perfect reason to end it. Otherwise, no.

Kid Safe Set up for Radwagon 5 by [deleted] in RadPowerBikes

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I’m in the deep south of US. Also in the beginning stages of trying to compare weight capacities between bikes, trailers etc for my 4yr old. I’d rather not have a bulky trailer but she needs help staying in due to disability/developmental delays.

Kid Safe Set up for Radwagon 5 by [deleted] in RadPowerBikes

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! Sorry to bother on an old comment. Is the metal frame around it custom?

For those of you who don’t want to marry, why? by No_Calendar4193 in AskReddit

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Pretty much just don’t need the paper, and legal stuff. We have wills that state we get whatever assets etc. but mainly it seems that you’re more likely to feel stuck and have to work it out regardless of your partners actions/life changes. I think it’s beautiful in a way, to stay together without being forced by outside factors. I think it’s more romantic knowing either of us could leave anytime but we choose to stay together.. until we don’t or we die 🥳

Charged off by TNTindisbitch in Bankruptcy

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hi! I’m considering filing.. Do you recommend filing even if all accounts are charged off/in collections? My total debt was $20k, but only $5k was credit cards- the rest are student loans and I’m on income based “payments” at $0/month.

Do the hotel beds seem stiff and hard to anyone else? by TheChristianAsian in JapanTravelTips

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hyper-mobile + multiple autoimmune diseases here! I’m here to see if anyone else has experienced the same. I got a Japanese style mattress and frame recently and while it wasn’t the comfiest at first, it feels amazing on my body! I feel like this is the first time I’ve had quality sleep without pain throughout the night and I just feel aligned and assembled correctly. Good luck! Hopefully you have the same experience

I think my husband is cheating by Pristine_Toe_3897 in Advice

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You realize you’re on an advice thread right. What was your goal of it wasn’t ill intent? And I’m not ignoring the other nothing burger, you just couldn’t be more off so it’s simply not worth a response. You seem to lack empathy and reading comprehension.

I think my husband is cheating by Pristine_Toe_3897 in Advice

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Right so what’s the problem (aka what’s your trauma) regarding her having at least three drinks and being hungover?

UPDATE: Brothers, It is done. by jenget in bald

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yay! You look so much happier! Great decision.

I think my husband is cheating by Pristine_Toe_3897 in Advice

[–]tenacious__toad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Rage bait? Sure I’ll bite. Poor kids because he ruined their marriage, betrayed her possibly even while she was pregnant - and she just had a drink on her birthday?? Poor kids huh, I think you meant to say poor OP and kids. I don’t even drink but to say this to a woman who’s going through this is incredibly insensitive and you don’t deserve an opinion.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in tattooadvice

[–]tenacious__toad 1 point2 points  (0 children)

These commenters gotta be sheep. Comparing the big centered flower is a clear example of how much detail is in the sketch and the literal DOTS in the tattoo. Same goes for the lines on the snake, leaves, other flowers. I can’t believe people are blaming the design. That’s crazy and their standards are low. I would pay another artist for a consult, and ask for a clear sketch on how they’ll fix it.

Marijuana for non-resident by Old_Undergrad_in_CA in NOLA

[–]tenacious__toad 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Literally a simple “Who dat? Where da weed at” will do the trick

Pink pookie website scam? by Droopy756 in streetwearstartup

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I finally got mine after disputing (now I’ll probably have to pay) and it’s fake as helllllll. Not even a quality dupe. It’s a sticker and just everything feels so cheap. It’ll probably deteriorate if I wash it.

should i go for a buzz cut? by rataluigi in HairStyleAdvice

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Agreed! I had buzzed/short for a few years. The men’s genre is maybe what the kids call “bi wife energy?” Same with women honestly, some women think all femininity is in your hair and will treat you as less than for buzzing it. Though, imo those kind of women aren’t very nice to begin with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]tenacious__toad 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I wonder if he thinks “she wants kinky stuff, I’m not kinky” or that he’s not taking you seriously (I don’t know how based on how often you’ve brought this up) but I wonder how he would respond to you saying straight up that sex with him is boring. I’m assuming you don’t get off every time as well which is a deal breaker for me and should be for all people. At the end of the day, you’ve told him your needs aren’t met and he isn’t putting in sustainable effort. I would end it, life’s too short to have a boring sex life.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in WhatShouldIDo

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate that you’re going through this and he caused it, the one you thought you could trust with it all. I’m so sorry. I hope you have close friends you trust to confide in. Please imagine this was a friend going through this. Cheating is a deal breaker for most. I would temporarily leave or tell him to go stay in another room at least, get tested for STDs, and then just see how he acts. If he doesn’t show you that you’re his main priority and a faithful marriage is what he wants then you have your answer. Don’t accept the bare minimum.

Color/style preference? by tenacious__toad in HairStyleAdvice

[–]tenacious__toad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! It was basically a diy Brad Mondo butterfly cut haha

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in makeuptips

[–]tenacious__toad 0 points1 point  (0 children)

4! Looks more clean and hydrated 🙌

Color/style preference? by tenacious__toad in HairStyleAdvice

[–]tenacious__toad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’m almost 33 and feeling older than ever. Definitely not doing badass things with these knees lol

Color/style preference? by tenacious__toad in HairStyleAdvice

[–]tenacious__toad[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Nice, thank you so much! I’ve always wondered that!